• He’s Married and I Didn’t Know! [Ask A Dude]

    He’s Married and I Didn’t Know! [Ask A Dude]

    So I met this guy 4 years ago. He’s about 10 years older than me and super successful.

  • The Secret To Keeping A Great Relationship Going

    The Secret To Keeping A Great Relationship Going

    I mean, seriously, what happens? Something must. Something changes. Everything started out so well–the great sex, talks that lasted until sunrise, spooning ‘til class at noon, clothes were optional, and fun was constant.

  • How Do I Introduce Him To My Dad? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Introduce Him To My Dad? [Ask A Dude]

    So I’ve got a BIG problem, and I don’t have any clue what to do. I’ve been dating this guy for almost 8 months, and we’re crazy about each other. We’re basically that couple that’s so in love no one can stand to eat around us. Here’s the problem: I’m fairly certain my ultra conservative, Republican dad is going to hate him.

  • Inside His Head: What Your Drink Says About You

    Inside His Head: What Your Drink Says About You

    Just like a psychic that can tell your future with Tarot cards or your palm, guys can tell a lot about a woman by the kind of drink she is having at a bar. And just like those crappy psychics with crystal balls, guys are often full of sh*t too, but here goes.

  • Ask A Dude: Why Can’t Guys Just Be My Friend?

    Ask A Dude: Why Can’t Guys Just Be My Friend?

    Dear Dude, For the first time since 8th grade, I’m single. This is great right? It gives me a chance to explore, experiment and really get to know myself and it turns out I’m pretty cool. Awesome, except all of my guy friends seem to think that I should experiment with them. And it extends beyond that; guys I meet at in class, at parties or even at work all only want to date or hook up.

  • Ask A Dude: Am I Too Smart for Guys?

    Ask A Dude: Am I Too Smart for Guys?

    Honestly, are guys truly intimidated by smart girls? I’m an “A” student with glasses. Yet, while I’m stuck by myself mulling over the tenets of existentialism, the ditzy girls are getting the fellows’ attention. I’m confused. I thought that you guys didn’t want girls to play dumb.

  • Ask A Dude: I Refuse To Be A Friend With Benefits

    Ask A Dude: I Refuse To Be A Friend With Benefits

    Hey Dude, I’ve done the Friends With Benefits thing, and, to say the least, I’m not cut out for it. Now I have this amazing guy in my life who I consider my best friend, but I’m confused over how I’m supposed to know if he likes me as in a relationship sense or if he just wants to sleep with me.

  • Bad Advice Men Get: Never Open Up

    Bad Advice Men Get: Never Open Up

    Men are tricky creatures. As much as we may wish we could read their minds, it just isn’t possible (yet… come on, science!). But don’t worry, I have discovered a trick to help us understand them a little more. We all know guys that have picked up Cosmo from time-to-time to help them figure out what their women are thinking. Well ladies, we can do the same thing!

  • He Said/She Said: What’s Up With Strip Clubs?

    He Said/She Said: What’s Up With Strip Clubs?

    There are few topics in a relationship that cause more controversy than strip clubs. Many of us can’t understand why our man would need to watch some other girl strip it off and shake her ass in his face when he can have our naked ass in his face whenever he wants it (for free, I might add). And isn’t watching some other girl get naked a form of cheating?

  • He Said/She Said: Independent Woman

    He Said/She Said: Independent Woman

    We are all about independent women around here, but after one writer asked if independence could be hindering her relationship status, we began to wonder. We know that men have very fragile egos that can be shattered faster than a shot glass in a garbage disposal (those suckers fit perfectly in there!) so it seems to make sense that strong, independent women scare the bejeezus out of them.

  • Why Men Need You To Groom Them

    Why Men Need You To Groom Them

    [The following post is courtesy of our homegirls over at YourTango. Well, their male perspecti…

  • He Said/She Said: Kissing After…. You Know

    He Said/She Said: Kissing After…. You Know

    Remember that Sex and the City episode when Miranda meets that guy at a Weight Watchers meeting?…

  • He Said/She Said: A Guy’s Valentine’s Day

    He Said/She Said: A Guy’s Valentine’s Day

    Despite what many people say, Valentine’s Day is a lovely little holiday. Sure, we shoul…

  • He Said/She Said: Do Guys Like Sarcasm?

    He Said/She Said: Do Guys Like Sarcasm?

    A friend sent me this post last week and asked me what I thought about it. Being a very sarcastic (a…

  • He Said/She Said: Dudes and Random Hook Ups

    He Said/She Said: Dudes and Random Hook Ups

    No matter how confident we are, women are always second guessing themselves. Especially in the…

  • He Said/She Said: Would Guys Take Birth Control?

    He Said/She Said: Would Guys Take Birth Control?

    I don’t know about you, but if I never had to take the birth control pill again I would be one…