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He Said/She Said: What’s Up With Strip Clubs?

CC Staff — Wed, 06 May 2009 20:00:52 +0000

There are few topics in a relationship that cause more controversy than strip clubs. Many of us can’t understand why our man would need to watch some other girl strip it off and shake her ass in his face when he can have our naked ass in his face whenever he wants it (for free, I might add). And isn’t watching some other girl get naked a form of cheating? He wouldn’t like it if I let some random dude come over and rub his crotch in (or on) my face for $5.

So why do guys do it? And what is the appeal of having some girl rub her boobs on him if he has to stick a few bucks in her panties to do so? I haven’t spent much time in strip clubs, so I turned to someone who does. Frequently. And loves it.

Here is the strip club lowdown from a dude who knows it (very) well.

In Case You’re Thinking of Redecorating…

CC Staff — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 15:10:57 +0000

Nothing says classy quite like a comforter featuring a naked, headless chick — or dude. Obviously, someone thought this was a good use of material and sewing machines, but we can’t quite figure out who in their right freaking mind would purchase it.

But wait — there’s more.

Earth Friend Gen: Naked Bicyclist For Peace

Jess - NYU — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:36:45 +0000

We all love the environment — some of us just love it more than others.

Gennifer Moss is one of those people. Earth Friend Gen (as she likes to go by) routinely rides around her Portland, Oregon town on a bike… naked. Why does she do this? Because she wants to promote peace.

“Peace begins with ourselves, our minds, spirit, hearts and souls,” Moss says, “and our bodies are an integral part of ourselves and I was created in God’s creation and no part of me is obscene.”

I think what she’s doing is great. Combining green living and being naked is the perfect way to get people to pay attention to a good cause. My only question?

How does she protect her vajayjay?



So You Have A Problem With Strip Clubs?
Elizabeth-Baruch College — Thu, 14 Feb 2008 19:00:06 +0000

Are you one of those girls with a problem with strip/burlesque clubs?  If the answer is YES, please proceed to paragraph number 1 and then read 2. If the answer is NO, please proceed to paragraph number 2.
1.  Well, alright.  I get it.  You have respect for a woman’s body and sexuality, right?  Watching men drool over a woman’s body with whom they have no personal, let alone emotional, connection with whatsoever is sickening, right?
Something about the placing of a dollar bill in a thong makes you want to barf.   And the idea of your boyfriend/husband/love interest being the guy with the dollar bill is just thoroughly intolerable, right?  After all, if you two are involved, he should only think about and see your body sexually, right?  He should not be involved with the chauvinist society of strip club going men.  That would make him much more like a slime ball than the perfect guy you THINK you’re dating.
But THINK is the key word here, ladies.  I beg of you to place yourself in the mindset of the girls who have proceeded directly to paragraph 2.  Suspend your opinions at least momentarily if you can.
2.  Girls who are OK with strip clubs seem to all agree on a few things:
A.  Strip clubs are not degrading.  Rather, they’re kind of exalting of the woman’s body if anything.  These girls are making so much money for a reason:  they are harnessing their sexuality and empowering themselves with it.
B.  All men have a percentage of pig in them.  If you’re going to go ahead and believe your man when he tells you that a gorgeous, naked woman dancing in front of him is not arousing; then you’re an idiot.
This is what I call an animal instinct.  It’s there, it’s natural, and it has NOTHING to do with whether or not he loves you.  Strip clubs do bring out this element in men.  But if you keep trying to repress this, you might as well go date the woman you’re trying to turn him into.
C.  We all know that confidence is what’s sexiest of all.  Having had friends who have been and are strippers, I can tell you one thing for damn sure:  A girl who hates stripping doesn’t last more than a few nights…if even one.
Strippers today, in a world where women can get any job of their choosing (even without a degree, they could choose something besides stripping if they wanted), are confident.  They are not being forced into a bad, dark place where they have to take off their clothes as their only means to eat.  Instead, they have actually embraced their sexuality on a professional level.
I must admit, if I had been reading this blog, I would have had to go straight to paragraph 2.  Having once had a serious issue with porn and strip clubs and all other outlets of “inappropriate” sexuality; I have finally learned that sex comes in many levels…but primarily:  Lustsex and Lovesex.
If your lovesex with a gentleman is truly lovesex; lustsex poses no threat to you.  Remember, confidence is what’s sexy and there’s nothing more unsexy than a girl whining about the guys wanting to go to the strip club to celebrate something some Saturday night instead of coming to your tea party.  If this is you, again, I beg you, just please go date the woman you’re trying to turn him into instead.  (But let me warn you:  she’ll probably be into hot chicks being naked, too.  I’m just sayin’…)