On Listening to Your Inner Voice [Dear DBN]
If you desperately want to feel something, seek it out, or be fated to maybe never feel it again. This week, how to trust your feelings and what to do when they’re saying something you don’t want to hear.
Candy Dish: Get Happy
• How to get the life you want

•Figure out where all your money is going
• What if I gain it all back
• R. Patz gives deets on his sex secene
• Why do men fight the way they do
• Going for the gold
• Guess which Full House girl is getting married?

Sexy Time: Sexual Compatibility
Rejection is hard no matter where it comes from. Whether it’s somebody at the bar, a school, or a job, it just really well, sucks. Now imagine if that rejection comes from somebody you love, hell, imagine if it’s coming from the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Ouch, right?
6 Applications That Have Changed the Dating World
What happened to the days when the most intense things to happen in a relationship was a game of Twister? Oh my goodness, Mary is practically on top of Bobby! Scandalous! OK, maybe I’m being a little over-dramatic. But, dating throughout the years has definitely changed. And one of the underlying factors for the dating transformation? Technology.
Sexy Time: It’s Not All The Same
I go through phases where I listen to different podcasts on a fairly obsessive basis. It was during one of these phases that I stumbled upon a podcast called Sex, Love, and Intimacy (on which our lovely editor did an interview, the same interview that introduced me to CollegeCandy in the first place).
Do You Suffer From Green Stress?
For the past few months I’ve been talking your ear off about why the earth is in trouble and how you can go green to save our environment. And while it’s great to do whatever you can to protect the planet, there is such a thing as caring a little too much. According to the New York Times, there has been an increasing amount of people that report anxiety and stress because they feel like they are never as green as they would like to be.
Gradvice: For Love or For Money?
For those of you lucky enough to have a job already, congrats. You are well on your way to a fulfilling life doing what you want to be doing. For the rest of you, and right now that is a lot of you, you have some big choices to make. Some huge questions to answer. And the most pressing and difficult is: Take a job you love or take a job that pays well?

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The Difference Between Having Sex and Making Love
In the past six months, I’ve had sex. I’ve been laid. I f*cked. However, it’s been a long time since I’ve made love, and I kind of miss it. Some people might argue that there’s no difference – physically, they are the same. But emotionally, passionately, and mentally, the two deeds are very different.
Sexy Time: Blame It On The L-L-L-LUBE
Derrick* and I used to have great sex. We were both passionate, experimental, and great in bed (hey, confidence is a turn-on, right?). But lately we have been in a rut, and I blame it on lube.
I Want You to Want Me
Last week Oprah had an episode discussing sex, sexual attraction and the things women want when it comes to doin’ the dirty. The episode as a whole was fascinating – did you know there is an equation for figuring out how hot someone is?? – but one point that really stuck out to me was the discussion of sexual desire.
Wardrobe Wish List: Cutout Back Dress
This may look like any ordinary knit dress from the front, but turn around to reveal (and surprise your friends!) some awesome and sexy cutouts on the back. They turn this otherwise plain dress into one fit for a fabulous night out on the town.
Sexy Time: Spice Up Your Valentine’s Day
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