• What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I don’t know what to do. We’ve been dating for three years and now we’re about to finish college and I just can’t stand it anymore.

  • Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?

  • What Makes the Obamas’ Marriage Work?

    What Makes the Obamas’ Marriage Work?

    During the 2008 campaign, they made it clear that they consider their relationship a partnership, and that they are best friends. It’s been great to see their love grow over the past four years despite being under the strain of the public eye.

  • 8 First Date Dealbreakers

    8 First Date Dealbreakers

    Way back when, when I first started dating, I was often told that I was too picky. I expected too much. Had too many qualifications. And maybe that was true.

  • What Happened to Romance?

    What Happened to Romance?

    What happened to wooing? What happened to a guy and a girl getting together for a date and getting to know each other? What happend to calling a girl to speak to her instead of sending an endless stream of texts? Why are guys trying to arrange and cancel dates via Facebook? It’s awkward and unnatural, and honestly, kind of cowardly. And completely unromantic.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Chill Out, Girlfriend

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Chill Out, Girlfriend

    I love my boyfriend. We’ve been together for seven months and we hang out every day. The other day I was visiting his parents with him and we went out to eat. We ran into his mom’s coworker and his mom introduced me as “my son’s friend.” This is totally freaking me out. Then I thought about it and now I’m worried that his parents don’t realize we’re dating.

  • One Million Moms, Get Over It: Ellen Degeneres For JCPenney [Video]

    One Million Moms, Get Over It: Ellen Degeneres For JCPenney [Video]

    Proposition 8 was overturned, and now we have to see that lesbian comedienne Ellen Degeneres as the new face of JCPenney? Where on EARTH will I shop now? Ladies, we’ve got to do something about this. Let’s protest that crazy talk show host so that her homosexuality doesn’t taint all our kids’ back-to-school clothes and our Christmas shopping.

  • Is Being Gay A Choice? Actress Cynthia Nixon Says Yes

    Is Being Gay A Choice? Actress Cynthia Nixon Says Yes

    It’s not easy being gay. The LGBT community has worked tirelessly to declare that sexual preference is not a “preference” at all and lean more toward a “I’m on the right track, baby, I was born this way” mantra. However, is it a winner-takes-all conclusion in the homosexuality debate? According to Sex and the City actress Cynthia Nixon, maybe there’s more than one way to be gay. And ton of people are pissed off about it.

  • Dear Mom, I Don’t Want a Boyfriend

    Dear Mom, I Don’t Want a Boyfriend

    You never had a problem with me being single until I turned twenty in September of this year. All of a sudden my relationship status has become a constant topic of conversation. I know you want what’s best for me mom but I have to be honest. With all due respect, Mom, I don’t want a boyfriend.

  • Kobe Bryant’s Wife Files For Divorce, Joins Most Necessary Breakups Of 2011

    Kobe Bryant’s Wife Files For Divorce, Joins Most Necessary Breakups Of 2011

    Finally, a headline we’ve been waiting for since 2003: Vanessa Bryant has filed for divorce from Kobe Bryant! Like countless other celebrity/California divorces, she cited “irreconcilable differences.”

  • The Time Ask Jeeves Broke Up With Me

    The Time Ask Jeeves Broke Up With Me

    Now it’s hard to believe there was anything before Google. But back in my middle school days, Ask Jeeves was a fricking genius and there was no one I trusted more. I missed him and I I did what any girl with an old crush would do. I started tweeting. And while it started out on a promising note (and dare I say, flirtatious!), it went downhill pretty quickly.

  • Tuffy Luv Is Creeped Out

    Tuffy Luv Is Creeped Out

    My roommate forced me to get an account on plentyoffish.com, where I actually met a really nice guy, Ryan. We started talking and I found out that we went to the same high school, and graduated the same year (coincidence!). We talked on Plenty of Fish for a few days and then I gave him my phone number (we did go to high school together, after all).

  • Lies We Tell Our Friends About The Guys Who Aren’t Into Them

    Lies We Tell Our Friends About The Guys Who Aren’t Into Them

    The phone rings, you see it’s your best friend calling. Expecting a hilarious story about the drunken memory you two had forgotten from the night before, you answer ecstatically. But instead she’s crying—blubbering, over her boyfriend and you realize where this conversation is going. We’ve all been there, on the crying end or the comforting end.