How Do I Get Him To Be More Adventurous In Bed? [Ask A Dude]
We have had sex a couple times already and it was that sweet, loving kind of sex. Don’t get me wrong, it was wonderful, but I was wondering what the best way is to see if your boyfriend would consider being a little naughtier in the sheets (ex: dirty talking?) without looking like a total sl00t?
The Secret Tip for Having Mind-Blowing Sex! [Sexy Time]
I was scouring the web looking for inspiration for this week’s column, and after the billionth “How to Blow Your Man’s Mind” article, I reached the zenith of irritation. Not only are all of those articles redundant (the answer is always anal or BJs), heterosexist (not all ladies date guys, and lesbians do read mainstream media sites), but they’re so disempowering.

10 Things All Men Love About Women
Do you ever notice how men whine and complain about how “complicated” and “confusing” girls are… and yet, they can’t stop thinking about us? Aside from the fact that men cannot survive without women, there are a few amazing qualities about women that men love.
Do His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words? [Ask A Dude]
I feel like if a guy is telling me he’s not interested, but can still be sold on sex, I should probably just accept that he’s “not that into it” instead of telling myself he’s just scared of commitment or is putting up walls.
Do “We Have To Talk?” [Ask A Dude]
Why is asking to talk to a guy a big deal? Recently I texted my FWB that I wanted to talk to him, and asked if he had a minute later on in the day. He immediately shot back, “What’s it about? Am I in trouble?”
Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]
I really like this guy and he says he likes me a lot too, but I don’t want to open my heart to someone who is just going to be all like, “JK, you’re too young for me” in another month.
It’s Time to Finally Talk to Your Crush!
I remember a time back when I was a Freshman in college, every single class I had was a huge lecture hall. There is so much time to just daydream and people watch. I would scan the room, looking at every person’s face to see if I knew anyone, but mostly looking for hot dudes.

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6 Dating Rituals That Have Become Extinct Because Of The Internet
Guys, I want an honest answer. What is probably one of the first things you do when you meet a new guy or girl you could potentially be interested in?
What is Ghosting?
There is a new term out there now called “ghosting” that describes the sudden disappearance of someone you were romantically interested in.
How Do I Get Him To Go From FWB To BF? [Ask A Dude]
I’m 23 years old and have known this guy for about 4 years. I’m pretty sure he was into me for a while, but I only recently started to like him. Figures, now he doesn’t feel that way about me anymore. What I do know is that he’s sexually attracted to me. Besides that, we’re still good friends.
Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]
He insisted he still didn’t find her attractive, and wasn’t really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.
Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave
I lost the trust of my older brother. I told him I wouldn’t date his friends and then I dated his best friend behind his back. The problem is, too, that we had sex in his bed once.

When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]
Our relationships, in whatever form they take to begin with, always seem to hit the same problem area eventually. The dreaded “gray area”. It’s where men tend to drag out the dating or hooking up phase, and avoid putting a label on “what we are”.