October 25, 2007
- 1:01 pm
By Jess - NYU
There’s a new report out there saying that when it comes to “flirty text messaging”, guys reply to a text from “their crush” usually within a hour, while girls wait an average of 1 hour, 19 minutes.
Even though this report comes to us from across the pond, I can totally see those numbers making sense in America as well. Why do women wait longer to reply to texts or missed calls from their crush?
Because we don’t want to seem clingy and desperate.
Society has done a number on us when it comes to our supposed frantic need for a man in our lives. The worst kind of women, magazines and TV shows and movies explain, is the desperate woman.
The girl who’s too eager to fall in love. The chick who’s all too happy to adhere herself to her new man and never let go. The woman who cluthes her cell phone to her chest, checking it every couple of seconds to see if her guy has called, ready to fill his screen with smiley faces and exclamation points.
Therefore, we have this equation:
Replying too fast to a call or text = desperate, desperate = bad, so replying too quickly to even the friendliest of texts?
You got it. Bad. Read More »
Tags: america, calling, clingy, crush, dating, dating game, desperate, desperate woman, flirty, game, guys, relationship, replying, report, Smiley Face, text messaging, texting, texts, woman, women magazines
October 9, 2007
- 10:40 am
By Jess - NYU
Remember when you used to come home from high school, exhausted and starving? Lunch had been at like 10:30 that morning, and so by the time the afternoon bell rang, your stomach was growling so loudly you had to sit hunched over to dull the gurgles.
Home meant snacks. It might refueling yourself for sports or theater club or smoking stolen cigarettes under a tree while sneering at all organized things. Afternoon snack was an event I looked forward to from kindergarten to twelfth grade.
Hell, I still look forward to it!
Sadly, today’s teenage girls aren’t allowing themselves the joy of snack time – or any meal – at all. A report from the UK’s Independent Online showed that over “a third of 13 to 18-year-old girls” polled for a study indicated they had been on a diet or were currently dieting, and “45 per cent [ate] less than 1,200 calories per day”, which is below the healthy amount for growing women.
About a quarter of the boys in the survey admitted to eating less calories than the daily recommended amount, but girls were the ones worrying researchers most of all. Read More »
Tags: ashley olsen, calories, Celebrities, diet, eating, high school, independent online, lunch, meal replacement bar, not eating enough, overweight, report, snack, sports, teenage girl, teenagers, theater, thin, UK