Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.
Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance
I don’t want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I’m really into, but I don’t want to mess things up either! What should I do?

Tuffy Luv Tackles the LDR
My question is… should I try this LDR thing? Or should we just go our separate ways until the logistics change–in an effort to avoid hurting each other and ruining what we could possibly have in the future? Either way, do you have any advice for how I should approach the situation? How to make an LDR work?
Sex in the News: Occupy Valentine’s Day
Dear friends who thought I would stop ranting about Valentine’s Day once I was in a relationship, I’m sorry you were mistaken. I know I’m not the only person that rants about V-Day (coupled or otherwise). My new favorite Tumblr account, Occupy Valentine’s Day, proves it.
Celebrate Valentine’s Day with Yourself: The Ultimate CC Sex Toy Review
I’m totally up for reclaiming Valentine’s Day and making it about sexy self-indulgence. That’s definitely something our society doesn’t value nearly as much as it should; and I mean, who isn’t in love with feeling sexy and sensual, whether it’s for a partner or for yourself?
Friday Faves: The Difference Between Having Sex and Making Love
In the past six months, I’ve had sex. I’ve been laid. I f*cked. However, it’s been a long time since I’ve made love, and I kind of miss it. Some people might argue that there’s no difference – physically, they are the same. But emotionally, passionately, and mentally, the two deeds are very different.
Single Girl Society: Nicholas Sparks Is Not The Author Of Your Life
If you have yet to endure the torture that is a Nicholas Sparks movie marathon, I highly suggest you look into it purely as a service to yourself. Though the sappy movies seem out of place in single girl world, they’re actually a pretty effective learning tool – of what not to do.

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Sex in the News: What Turns Women On?
Ogi Ogas and Sam Gaddam have been analyzing billions of web searches and found that women are more likely to seek out character-driven stories rather than explicitly visual scenes of sexual activity. Unlike men who need nothing more than a short porn clip (or a hot girl modeling a bra in a Victoria’s Secret catalog) to get aroused, women require more of a story – and an emotional connection – to be stimulated.
Sex in the News: Spice Up Your Love Life
Oysters, chocolate, and ~~green M&Ms~~ chili. No, I’m not listing off ingredients for a (seemingly disgusting) recipe; I’m listing off well-known aphrodisiacs, AKA foods that allegedly get you in the mood to get freaky with yo bad self (and your partner). Well, get excited peeps, because there are a few new frisky foods to add to that list.
Sex in the News: Women Love the Uncertainty
According to a new study titled, “He Loves me, He Loves Me Not… Uncertainty Can Increase Romantic Attraction,” women are more attracted to men when they can’t tell how much the men like them.
Candy Dish: Sexting Up a Storm
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• Well now I REALLY want a dress like this
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Men vs. Women: What Each Gender Really Thinks About V-DAY
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner which means you’re either spending way too much time debating if your not-boyfriend-boyfriend is going to take you on a date or you’ve already picked out the sweatpants you’re going to wear and the tub of ice cream you’re going to eat. Or are you? Our galpals over at Tressugar conducted a survey about what each gender thinks about February 14th.

Candy Dish: It’s Hard to be a Princess
• Disney princesses have romance problems too!
• The trials of an English major
• Get the look for less
• Meet the dumbest people ever
• How would you like a Glee spoiler?
• How to get the best night sleep ever
• We LOVE Amy Sedaris