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		<title>Saturday Read: The Reincarnationist by M.J. Rose</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 15:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Alex - Lakehead University</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For all of you Dan Brown fans just chomping at the bit waiting for "The Solomon Key" (word on the street is you'll be waiting for eternity), I have a book to satisfy your appetites for a while!<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&amp;blog=860993&amp;post=24514&amp;subd=collegecandy&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="size-full wp-image-24515 alignright" title="mjrose-the-reincarnationist" src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/mjrose-the-reincarnationist.jpg" alt="mjrose-the-reincarnationist" width="263" height="385" />For all of you Dan Brown fans just chomping at the bit waiting for &#8220;The Solomon Key&#8221; (word on the street is you&#8217;ll be waiting for eternity), I have a book to satisfy your appetites for a while! &#8220;The Reincarnationist&#8221; is an adventure novel with a slightly paranormal twist; several of the characters have been reincarnated and are remembering their past lives!</p>
<p>This novel is a quick, easy read, but has a great story. Rose is an accomplished author and is exceptional at description, making you feel as though you are in the story. The beautiful settings of modern and ancient Rome and New York City are so vivid and vibrant, I had no problem envisioning the adventure taking place right before my own eyes. The emotions of the story run high as well and I found myself wrapped up in the story, cheering for the good guys and cringing when the bad guys got ahead.</p>
<p>The historical aspect of the book was also a real treat. Rose did her research about ancient Rome and seamlessly intertwined interesting history into her novel. Even though I am history buff and former history major, I found that I learned some about the Pagan religions of the ancients, and especially enjoyed reading about the Vestal Virgins. <span id="more-24514"></span></p>
<p>Again, if you&#8217;re a fan of &#8220;The DaVinci Code&#8221; or &#8220;Angels and Demons,&#8221; &#8220;The Reincarnationist&#8221; will be right up your alley! Full of adventure, history and intrigue, it&#8217;s an enjoyable and satisfying read!</p>
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		<title>Freshmen: Trying Too Hard</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Oct 2008 14:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ccandyblairh</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s true that upperclassmen tend to look down their noses at freshmen, particularly early in the year when they&#8217;re wet behind the ears and stumbling wide-eyed around campus.  We&#8217;re not laughing at you because you&#8217;re lost, though, or because you brought a ridiculously huge couch for your 90-square-foot room.  No, sophomores, juniors, seniors, chuckle at, or are continuously annoyed by freshmen, because they try too hard.</p>
<p>The most common insult for a freshmen: &#8220;man, that guy is trying too hard.&#8221;  &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&amp;blog=860993&amp;post=12444&amp;subd=collegecandy&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/09/22/picture-right.jpg" title="picture-right.jpg" alt="picture-right.jpg" align="left" />It&#8217;s true that upperclassmen tend to look down their noses at freshmen, particularly early in the year when they&#8217;re wet behind the ears and stumbling wide-eyed around campus.  We&#8217;re not laughing at you because you&#8217;re lost, though, or because you brought a ridiculously huge couch for your 90-square-foot room.  No, sophomores, juniors, seniors, chuckle at, or are continuously annoyed by freshmen, because they try too hard.</p>
<p>The most common insult for a freshmen: &#8220;<em>man, that guy is trying too hard</em>.&#8221;  When coming to a competitive ivy league school, freshmen are immediately aware that the kids around them are some of the best students in the country.  They probably were the small-town star of their high school, and now feel desperate to assert themselves, to still be the big fish in the rapidly expanding pond.  Thus, while sitting next to a few freshmen chatting in a dining hall the other day, I was sad &#8212; sad, but not surprised &#8212; when after about 2 minutes, the test score discussions began.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;So what did </em><em>you get on your SAT&#8217;s?  I got ___.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>After the test scores, came the trips-to-Europe competition.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I&#8217;ve been to Rome twice.&#8221;  &#8220;Oh yeah, I went too, and Paris, and all over France as well.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>This is the epitome of Trying Too Hard, and you can see why it&#8217;s so annoying to upperclassmen.<span id="more-12444"></span>  Freshmen exhibit the dreaded Trying Too Hard in every aspect of life, from reading every footnote and side-reference in the reading (and loudly announcing the fact in class), to getting ridiculously drunk because they think that&#8217;s the way college life really is.  In a big, scary, competitive new school, these over-achieving high schoolers try applying the drive and shameless self-promotion it takes to get into college &#8212; to every aspect of life.  It&#8217;s enough to make an upperclassmen want to avoid the eating clubs and especially any intro-level classes.</p>
<p>We don&#8217;t really need to compete with each other in this obnoxious way; there&#8217;s room for all of us to shape our personalities while in college, to find our own niches and be interesting people regardless of what test scores we have or how many countries we&#8217;ve visited.  If only the freshmen would learn this a bit quicker &#8212; though I&#8217;m sure I went through my Trying Too Hard phase as well.  I seem to remember bragging about my family&#8217;s trips to France as a Freshman&#8230;  So we&#8217;ve all been there, but we don&#8217;t like to remember it.</p>
<p>Please, freshmen &#8212; just relax.</p>
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		<title>Return to Romance: One Man, 1,250 Miles, All in the Name of Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Olua - Washington College</dc:creator>
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<p>Every now and then, you wander across those stories that make the tears well up in your eyes; stories about amazing people doing amazing things that you can&#8217;t help but admire them for.  <a href="http://www.justgiving.com/nigelhearnden">Nigel Hearnden</a> is one of those people.</p>
<p>Nigel Hearnden and Anne Hearnden were your typical storybook married couple, the kind that you never hear about anymore.  For 29 years, they loved each other, were there for each other, and supported each other.  And when Anne was diagnosed &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&amp;blog=860993&amp;post=8267&amp;subd=collegecandy&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Every now and then, you wander across those stories that make the tears well up in your eyes; stories about amazing people doing amazing things that you can&#8217;t help but admire them for.  <a href="http://www.justgiving.com/nigelhearnden">Nigel Hearnden</a> is one of those people.</p>
<p>Nigel Hearnden and Anne Hearnden were your typical storybook married couple, the kind that you never hear about anymore.  For 29 years, they loved each other, were there for each other, and supported each other.  And when Anne was diagnosed with cancer in August 2001, Nigel was with her every step of the way.  With her amazing strength and her loyal partner ever at her side, she went through 20 months of chemotherapy, three invasive operations, and overcame three different types of cancer: Hodgkin’s lymphoma, bowel cancer and liver cancer (twice).</p>
<p>Tragically, despite her many victories and accomplishments, Anne unexpectedly died in November 2005 from a heart infection.</p>
<p>Nigel and Anne had planned to go to Rome for their 30th anniversary.  But even though Anne isn&#8217;t with him, Nigel is still making the journey.  On foot.<span id="more-8267"></span></p>
<p>Nigel began his journey on January 27th in Gosport, Hampshire.  Since that time he has walked 856 miles, and plans to reach Rome on May 16th, which is three years to the day he was last in Rome with Anne.  On top of all of this, he is raising £50,000 – $98,766.77 in USD – for the various charities that Anne supported.  He has already raised £7,557.00 – $14,927.92 – to date.</p>
<p>Nigel has a <a href="http://returntoromance.livejournal.com/">LiveJournal </a>where he consistently updates, putting his heart out for the world to see and telling his readers about his progress, his ups, and his downs.  His story is a powerful reminder about the endurance, the dedication, and the love that the human race is capable of.</p>
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		<title>Travel Lesson #3: Choose Travel Companions Wisely</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/04/06/travel-lesson-3-choose-travel-companions-wisely/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 17:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I’ve had my share of eccentric travel companions, but none can top my alcoholic ex-boyfriend. On our trip to Italy, his antics epitomized the disgusting reasons why we are called Ugly Americans.  The list below clearly catalogs ten reasons I now choose my travel companions wisely.</p>
<p>Our trip to Italy began as most do: pleasantly, in romantic Rome.  We had been dating for nearly a year and, for two months leading up to the trip, he quit drinking and limited &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&amp;blog=860993&amp;post=8129&amp;subd=collegecandy&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/05/9f-venice.JPG?w=456&#038;h=340" title="9f-venice.JPG" alt="9f-venice.JPG" align="left" height="340" width="456" />I’ve had my share of eccentric travel companions, but none can top my alcoholic ex-boyfriend. On our trip to Italy, his antics epitomized the disgusting reasons why we are called Ugly Americans.  The list below clearly catalogs ten reasons I now choose my travel companions wisely.</p>
<p>Our trip to Italy began as most do: pleasantly, in romantic Rome.  We had been dating for nearly a year and, for two months leading up to the trip, he quit drinking and limited his smoking!  I was feeling optimistic.  We spent the day walking to all the major sites in Rome except for the Sistine Chapel, which we agreed would be a nice culmination of our travels and saved for the end of our trip.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #1: A Peroni in Florence</strong></p>
<p>Walking along the main promenade our first evening in fiery “Firenze,” he was hungry and stopped by a pizza joint, ordering pizza and a Peroni.  “I can’t travel in Italy and not drink at least one Peroni,” he insisted.   He was hungover the next morning, and we were an hour late to our reserved date at the Uffizi.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #2: A Moretti in Venice</strong></p>
<p>We arrived in the maze that is Venice by train.  Claiming he was hot and in need of a refreshment, he ordered a Moretti at a nearby café.  Then, upon arriving at our hotel, he continued to drink at the nearby bar while I showered.  Four beers later and much to my embarrassment, he jumped off a bridge into the contaminated channel.  A passing resident scolded him and a fight nearly ensued.  For the remainder of our stay, he was on a quest to find the highest bridge from which to jump.  Due to a “mysterious” ear infection, he ultimately decided against it.<span id="more-8129"></span></p>
<p><strong>Reason #3: Wrestling Match in Venice</strong></p>
<p>In what became known as “The Wrestling Match that Shook Venice,” a shouting match ensued one evening by the river over who could speak better Spanish.  At the climax of this spectacle,  I was clinging to a lamppost sideways.  He was pulling on my ankles, insisting that we return to the hotel together.  After punching his anger out on another lamppost, two nice old ladies asked if I was okay and I frankly replied, “No.”</p>
<p><strong>Reason #4: Peeing in the sink in Bologna</strong></p>
<p>An argument culminated with him walking out, getting wasted, then stumbling back to the hotel and peeing in the sink three times that night.  Hungover as usual the next morning, he agreed to sober up.  I told him I would leave him if he picked up another drink.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #5: An unwelcome beer in Ancona</strong></p>
<p>The day before my birthday, we were about to board a ship headed for Croatia.  After buying the tickets, we purchased some groceries and he insisted that we drink to celebrate my big day.  I firmly gave him an ultimatum: “You buy beer and I will leave for Croatia without you.”  He opted for the beer; I sold his boat ticket.  He bought another ticket and apologized for his flawed judgment.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #6: Fooled in Naples</strong></p>
<p>He purchased a brand new Sony video camera from a guy on the street for 150 Euro.  We both knew it was too good to be true.  On our ride to Amalfi, he discovered no camera—just a box stuffed with a bag of sand.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #7: Disruption in Positano</strong></p>
<p>A week without alcohol and his mouth was watering.  He started drinking, so I changed hotel rooms.  When he got back to the hotel and discovered I had disappeared, he pissed off the owner so badly that he was kicked out onto the street.  That evening, in a drunken search to find me, he fell down a steep flight of stairs and landed on his chin.  The next day, which happened to be a national holiday, was spent having tea and cookies at a nearby café with a marching band, the Mayor of Positano, and six other ambulance drivers, policemen, translators,  and counselors.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #8: Visiting Capri’s Blue Grotto alone</strong></p>
<p>I tried a new approach to my travels: shack up at night, but travel solo by day.  While he downed shots of tequila at the pier, I visited the Blue Grotto and met a New Jersey cop.  I told him of my recent woes, and that I would be going to Sicily.  He told me he knew the Chief of Police in Palermo and wrote his name and number in my journal.  He told me to call him in case anything would happen on the rest of my trip.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #9: While I was sleeping in Palermo</strong></p>
<p>I fell asleep early and while I was sleeping he decided to drag my belongings into the bathroom and perform a full-on search.  Upon finding the name and number in my journal, he tapped me awake and began questioning me.  I told him it was none of his business and he proceeded to flush my belongings down the toilet.  My camera, iPod, journal, car keys, jewelry—gone.  Again, I changed hotel rooms and the next morning was rudely awakened by a swift kick to the hotel door and an angry, psychotic drunk in my face wondering why I wasn’t answering the phone or his knocks at my door.</p>
<p><strong>Reason #10: The Sistine Chapel will have to wait</strong></p>
<p>My passport: the only valuable  I had left in possession (other than my life).  At this point, I figured, if I want to get out of this in one piece, I should change my flights and leave now.  I flew directly home, leaving him high and dry.  The Sistine Chapel will have to wait for my next, hopefully drama-free visit.</p>
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