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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Jan 2011 14:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura - St. John&#039;s</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Winter Break is awesome: there are no tests to study for, you get to spend time with your friends and family, and you can get lots of sleep. The worst part of Winter Break, however, is that it just seems to go by too quickly. Sooner than you probably want to think about, you'll have to start getting ready for next semester by buying books, registering for classes and moving back in to the dorms.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=83256&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>[There are over 100 million sites on the Internet. <strong>100 million</strong>! You might think you know about all the important ones (</em><em><strong>CollegeCandy, Gmail, Google, Facebook</strong>…), but there are thousands of other sweet sites out there (like </em><em><a href="http://collegecandy.com/2010/12/15/web-spy-sparked/"><strong></strong></a><a href="http://collegecandy.com/2010/12/22/web-spy-spreezio/"><strong></strong></a><a href="http://collegecandy.com/2010/12/29/web-spy-teach-parents-tech/"><strong>Teach Parents Tech,</strong></a> <a href="http://collegecandy.com/2011/01/05/web-spy-we-are-hunted/"><strong>We Are Hunted</strong></a> and <a href="http://collegecandy.com/2011/01/19/web-spy-paperbackswap/"><strong>Paper Back Swap</strong></a>)               and more showing up every day! We get it – it’s not easy  or     fun         sifting  through the crap and porn to find those  gems,  so    we’re    gonna      bring the  gems to you. Just sit back,  kick up   those   feet  and   allow  us     to introduce  you to the  diamonds in   the   internet   rough.]</em></p>
<p>Winter Break is awesome: there are no tests to study for, you get to spend time with your friends and family, and you can get lots of sleep. The worst part of Winter Break, however, is that it just seems to go by too quickly. Sooner than you probably want to think about, you&#8217;re moving back into the dorms, buying books,  and dropping those 9am discussion sections you got stuck with. However, the process of preparing for the upcoming semester doesn&#8217;t have to be a hassle.</p>
<p>With <a href="http://stingycampus.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Stingy Campus</strong></a>, planning your semester is easy, because everything you need is in one place!</p>
<p><span id="more-83256"></span><strong>Stingy Campus</strong> allows you to search housing, roommate and job postings and browse the online marketplace to buy and sell items (such as old textbooks or furniture). Utilizing the listings on <strong>Stingy Campus</strong> will not only save you a bunch of time by putting everything in one place, but it will also save you time (and money) by allowing you to connect with people on your campus or nearby campuses to buy and sell items, instead of having to wait for and pay shipping on an online order.</p>
<p><strong>Stingy Campus</strong> also helps with the academic aspect of college. There&#8217;s a searchable database for class notes, in case you&#8217;re too <del>hungover</del> sick one day and can&#8217;t make class. They also offer a &#8220;rate a professor&#8221; system, which can help you choose classes based on what other students had to say about the professor. You can help out your fellow students, too, by uploading your own notes and contributing to professors&#8217; ratings.</p>
<p>They also feature some pretty sweet giveaways. They just gave away an Android Netbook, and they&#8217;re currently running a contest to <strong>win an iPad</strong>! You can learn more about how to enter that contest<strong> <a href="http://www.stingycampus.com/ipad">here</a></strong>.</p>
<p><strong>Stingy Campus</strong> makes getting ready for school/life faster and easier &#8212; so you can spend more time <a href="http://collegecandy.com/2011/01/10/body-blog-cardio-crazy/">working on that Spring Break bod</a> or, dare I say it, <a href="http://collegecandy.com/index.php?s=saturday+read%3A">reading for pleasure</a>!?</p>
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		<title>Coupled. In Class</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 22:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sarabeth - University of Texas</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back when Matt and I were first dating freshman year, it came time for us to register for our next semester's classes. He and I both wanted to take Japanese as our foreign language, but agreed that it'd be better off if we took it at different times. He thought I'd be a distraction, and I didn't want to compete with him over grades.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=50363&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright" title="classroom" src="http://news.drugfree.org/wp-content/uploads/college-class-shot_resize.jpg" alt="" width="413" height="274" />Back when Matt and I were first dating freshman year, it came time for us to register for our next semester&#8217;s classes. He and I both wanted to take Japanese as our foreign language, but agreed that it&#8217;d be better off if we took it at different times. He thought I&#8217;d be a distraction, and I didn&#8217;t want to compete with him over grades.</p>
<p>This past semester however, for our third semester of Japanese (seriously, why FOUR semesters of a foreign language? excessive, no?), we both had such weird and limiting schedules that we ended up in the same class. I was prepared for the worst, since less than a year before Matt said he hated the idea of us with a class together. To my surprise, he was actually looking forward to it. We did survive, but now, for our final semester, we are back to different professors at different time. Like most relationship happenings, having class with my significant other was full of ups and downs:</p>
<p><strong>Up:</strong><br />
<em>The convenience factor</em>. We only had to buy one book (which, let&#8217;s be honest, saves a giant chunk of change). We also got to ride the bus to school together and if I was home sick (thanks, flu season &#8217;09), Matt could turn in my work for me.</p>
<p><strong>Down:</strong><br />
<em>Distraction</em>. You try not talking to your boyfriend when you&#8217;re sitting next to him in class three days a week.<span id="more-50363"></span></p>
<p><strong>Up: </strong><br />
<em>The study factor</em>. No need to seek out some rando in class to help me out when I was struggling or try to coordinate a time that worked for a bunch of busy people for study group. Matt and I had each other and we were always around when help was needed.</p>
<p><strong>Down:</strong><br />
<em>The competition factor</em>. Maybe it&#8217;s just us, but there was a constant need to beat one another on tests and assignments. And don&#8217;t even get me started on who could answer more questions in class.</p>
<p><strong>Up: </strong><br />
<em>Friendly face</em>. It&#8217;s always nice to have a friend in class and even better when that friend happens to be a really good snuggler.</p>
<p><strong>Down: </strong><br />
<em>Awkward city</em>. Do you have any idea how awkward it is to sit next to someone in class for 90 minutes when you just had a blowout fight over breakfast? And what if you break up??</p>
<p>So this class didn&#8217;t bring down my entire semester, but it wasn&#8217;t all a walk in the park either. In fact, the biggest lesson I learned that semester wasn&#8217;t some weird Japanese conjugation, but the fact that there is such a thing as too much togetherness. What can you really talk about with your significant other if you&#8217;re never apart? Granted, Matt and I turned out perfectly fine, but we all know plenty of couples that spend too much time together and eventually fizzle out. Or just annoy their friends with their inability to be apart.</p>
<p>I admit the perks to sharing a class were great (especially when finals came around), but I&#8217;m definitely ready to tackle Japanese on my own next semester. And maybe I won&#8217;t need all that study help if I don&#8217;t have someone distracting me the entire class.</p>
<p><em>Have you ever taken class with your sig other? How did that go?<br />
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		<title>Some Idiot&#8217;s Bright Idea: Let’s Cancel Summer</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 20:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Brianna-Fordham University</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A US Senator, Lamar Alexander (yes, please send him nasty letters and kick him on the street), stated in a recent Newsweek Article that “an educational schedule of 3 months of summer is not relevant in today’s world and [college] students should take more credit hours and graduate in 3 years, saving 25% in tuition costs.”<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=44439&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_44447" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 365px"><img class="size-full wp-image-44447" title="DSC01221.JPG" src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/dsc01221-jpg.jpeg" alt="DSC01221.JPG" width="355" height="355" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Studying on the beach? HELL NO.</p></div>
<p>WOAH. Stop right there. Hooooold up. Wait a minute. Don&#8217;t go there cuz I ain&#8217;t wit&#8217; it.</p>
<p>I can’t believe my ears.</p>
<p>I just heard the worst idea in the history of idea-making and I swear I am not overreacting.</p>
<p>A US Senator, Lamar Alexander (yes, please send him nasty letters and kick him on the street), stated in a recent <a href="http://www.newsweek.com/id/218183" target="_blank">Newsweek Article</a> that “an educational schedule of 3 months of summer is not relevant in today’s world and [college] students should take more credit hours and graduate in 3 years, saving 25% in tuition costs.”</p>
<p>I have so many problems with this one sentence I don’t even know where to begin.</p>
<p>I guess I should start with deep breathing into a brown paper bag. And eating a brownie.</p>
<p>Ok, now that I&#8217;m somewhat composed let’s start with Mr. Alexander&#8217;s cost argument. It&#8217;s an obvious fact that our parents, our own bank accounts, and out future selves for the next 15 years, are being raped of any and all money we make or will make to pay for college. But in the grand scheme of things, how much less of a burden is it to pay $120,000 versus $160,000?</p>
<p>Either way, the financial aspect of college has all of us students spurting premature wrinkles, and I’d rather spend one more year of my life tailgating, eating diner food at 4 am, and partying the night away before I have to face the fat, red negative number in my bank account.<span id="more-44439"></span></p>
<p>Plus, doesn’t this guy realize that just because you cram 4 years of work into 3 doesn’t necessarily mean you will pay less? Summer classes are an extra cost outside of your tuition, and the majority of schools charge per class, so this will not save the student any money. Not to mention that some colleges even charge students for each credit they take above a certain number during a semester.</p>
<p>Alexander argument: denied.</p>
<p>And then there&#8217;s the stress. Does Senator Lamar wants us to freakin’ die?! Five classes is a full course load. Many of us have taken six; the really ambitious (or really unfortunate) have taken seven. It is physically impossible to take this many classes, 6 semesters in a row, without a break. Is this his secret attempt to kill off all the students before they hit the job market to lessen the competition and save his own ass?</p>
<p>And, dear Lamar, when do you expect students to work to earn the money they need to pay tuition? And what about the ever-important <a href="http://collegecandy.com/2009/10/17/looking-for-an-internship-these-sites-will-help/">college internships</a>? In this competitive market getting experience through a summer internship is vital to securing a job post graduation. How are we supposed to fit that in with the 27 credits we&#8217;ll all be forced to take each semester?!</p>
<p>Bottom line: our lives are already way over-packed. We are stressed out, burnt out, running all over the place, and sometimes the only thing that keeps us sane is that 3 month break from classes looming in the future.</p>
<p>I’m glad this guy got to go to school and balance his internships, classes, and fun without having to have people stress him out by threatening to cut out his summer vacation. Perhaps he should stop being an ass and let us have our college glory. Four years already goes fast enough</p>
<p><em>What do you guys think? Is this man off his rocker?!</em></p>
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		<title>College Candy&#8217;s Winter Slump Playlist</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2009/02/05/college-candys-winter-slump-playlist/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 21:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erica - Kent State University</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Well&#8230;its February.</p>
<p>I dislike almost everything about this month. It&#8217;s cold, it&#8217;s snowy and it&#8217;s also the month whose only claim to fame is Valentine&#8217;s Day, a holiday which simultaneously makes me gag and cry.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also when most of us are getting into the meat and potatoes of the semester.  The work is starting to pile up and all you really wanna do at 8 a.m. is hit the snooze button.</p>
<p>So, in an effort to curb the &#8220;winter &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=16589&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2009/02/05/mixtape.jpg" alt="mixtape.jpg" align="right" />Well&#8230;its February.</p>
<p>I dislike almost everything about this month. It&#8217;s cold, it&#8217;s snowy and it&#8217;s also the month whose only claim to fame is Valentine&#8217;s Day, a holiday which simultaneously makes me gag and cry.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also when most of us are getting into the meat and potatoes of the semester.  The work is starting to pile up and all you really wanna do at 8 a.m. is hit the snooze button.</p>
<p>So, in an effort to curb the &#8220;winter slump,&#8221; I created a playlist that will simultaneously motivate you to finish that English paper <em>and </em>kick someone&#8217;s ass.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.myflashfetish.com/playlist/18041655">Cheers to March in &#8230;how many days, again?</a></p>
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		<title>New Semester, New Beginnings</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 18:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mazuba-Westchester Community College</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Now that the New Year&#8217;s Day hangovers are a thing of the past, it&#8217;s time to trade in the warm sofa for cold, hard desks as the spring semester approaches. If you are wondering how you will possibly make it through this semester after barely  making it through the fall semester you are in luck, because a new semester brings new beginnings.</p>
<p>I have made quite a few mistakes over the course of my college career, which have taught me &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=15676&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/04/home_photo_books.jpg" alt="home_photo_books.jpg" align="left" />Now that the New Year&#8217;s Day hangovers are a thing of the past, it&#8217;s time to trade in the warm sofa for cold, hard desks as the spring semester approaches. If you are wondering how you will possibly make it through this semester after <em>barely</em>  making it through the fall semester you are in luck, because a new semester brings new beginnings.</p>
<p>I have made quite a few mistakes over the course of my college career, which have taught me quite a few things. Learn from my mistakes and this semester will be easy breasy. (I bet you expected me to say CoverGirl, right?)</p>
<p>Tip 1: <em>Procrastination will kill your grades:</em></p>
<p>Trust me, writing a 10 page paper at 3am the day it&#8217;s due is never the best way to get your assignment done. Yes, you like to work under pressure, and, yes, at least you actually did the paper, but doing it in a hurry means you rarely have time to spell-check, let alone stay awake long enough to turn it in.</p>
<p>Tip 2: <em>Try To Take Shorter Classes.</em></p>
<p>You may think it&#8217;s worth it to take that 3 hour class on Wednesdays so you get that full 4 day weekend, but sometimes longer classes are worse for your GPA. Let&#8217;s be honest: when was the last time you could pay attention to anything for longer than an hour? Whenever possible, try taking a 50 minute class three times a week (or whatever shorter options you have at your school), instead of a longer class that meets only once. You will be able to focus more in a 50 min class, not to mention be more on top of things when you have to prove yourself to your prof 3 days a week instead of one.</p>
<p>Tip 3: <em>Don&#8217;t skip class. </em></p>
<p>Seriously. Unless you are dying from some rare and contagious disease, go to class. Some profs only take a couple points off your final grade for absences, but when you think about it, 2.5 points added to an 88% score could mean the difference between an A and a B. Oh, and the whole point of college is going to class and learning, so it might be a good idea. Professors often make it worth your while by, I don&#8217;t know, teaching you things and making it all easier to understand.<span id="more-15676"></span></p>
<p>Tip 4: <em>Don&#8217;t drop a class unless you absolutely have to!</em></p>
<p>I am the kind of person that drops a class when it gets boring, if the teacher annoys me, or if the homework is too much. I always say,&#8221;I&#8217;ll take it next semester with a better Prof.&#8221; Bad idea. Putting off classes that I need to graduate only sets me back and could mean more money spent on tuition or, gasp, summer classes.</p>
<p>Got any other lessons you&#8217;ve learned? Share &#8216;em with the class, ladies!</p>
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		<title>Weekly Wrap Up: This Week Was Filled With Ups and Downs</title>
		<link>http://collegecandy.com/2008/12/12/weekly-wrap-up-this-week-was-filled-with-ups-and-downs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 21:39:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CC Staff</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It was the best of times, it was the worst of times &#8211; while the holidays are upon us, so is the end of the semester. And this week was a mixed bag of excitement (shopping!) and dread (studying!) for the season.</p>
<p>On the upside, there are definitely several things to look forward to, like our <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/cool-stuff/15020" target="_blank">NCAA National Football Championship airline ticket giveaway</a>, and a couple more items on <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/14768">the to-do list</a> before the ball drops on 2009.  Of &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=15143&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/12/tired_baby-whew.jpg?w=451&h=499" title="tired_baby-whew.jpg" alt="tired_baby-whew.jpg" align="right" height="499" width="451" />It was the best of times, it was the worst of times &#8211; while the holidays are upon us, so is the end of the semester. And this week was a mixed bag of excitement (shopping!) and dread (studying!) for the season.</p>
<p>On the upside, there are definitely several things to look forward to, like our <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/cool-stuff/15020" target="_blank">NCAA National Football Championship airline ticket giveaway</a>, and a couple more items on <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/14768">the to-do list</a> before the ball drops on 2009.  Of course, if you&#8217;re looking for that perfect gift, perhaps <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/cool-stuff/14853" target="_blank">a personal DIY project</a> will do just the trick. Getting <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/style/14883" target="_blank">dolled up a la Twilight stars</a> and <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/body/14887" target="_blank">pole-dancing for fitness</a> are two of our new fave ways to look hot.</p>
<p>And when it comes to <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/14966" target="_blank">staying warm this season</a>, there&#8217;s nothing like a little personal company.  Whether you did the dirty with your <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/11748" target="_blank">first serious significant other</a> or it led to a <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/haha/15015" target="_blank">walk of shame</a>, we&#8217;re all looking for some body heat to get us through the winter. We discussed the benefits of getting down with the <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/14997" target="_blank">game playa or the honest boy</a>, and the <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/buzz/15072" target="_blank">scandalous new phenomenon of &#8220;sexting.&#8221;</a>  Regardless of who, when, or how often you&#8217;re hooking up, one thing is for certain: <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/15032" target="_blank">ladies are definitely getting some for themselves</a> these days.</p>
<p>If all of that doesn&#8217;t help you through the end of finals, at least <a href="http://www.collegecandy.com/reality/14968" target="_blank">take these tips for saving your grades</a> and stick around next week for more CollegeCandy fun!</p>
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		<title>Eeek, I Might Be Failing! Tips For Saving Your Grade.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 18:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari- Florida State</dc:creator>
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<p>What do you mean it&#8217;s too late to drop a class? I forgot I was even enrolled!</p>
<p>If that&#8217;s part of the conversation you&#8217;re having with the registrar this far into the semester, you might be in trouble. But never fear.  It&#8217;s not over until the fat lady sings&#8230;or the TA enters the grades.  If you&#8217;ve over-slacked it this semester, there still might be a way to save your grade.</p>
<p>1.  Talk to Your Teacher.</p>
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<p><em>What do you mean it&#8217;s too late to drop a class? I forgot I was even enrolled!</em></p>
<p>If that&#8217;s part of the conversation you&#8217;re having with the registrar this far into the semester, you might be in trouble. But never fear.  It&#8217;s not over until the fat lady sings&#8230;or the TA enters the grades.  If you&#8217;ve over-slacked it this semester, there still might be a way to save your grade.</p>
<p>1.  <strong>Talk to Your Teacher</strong>.</p>
<p>This is by far the most important rule of grade-saving.  Talk to your professor.  Apologize profusely.  Throw yourself at his or her feet and explain why you suck at whatever subject they teach.  As a former TA, I can attest that I was far more willing to help kids who actually came to office hours to ask for help than the ones who fell off the face of the earth, only to reappear during finals (or, in one case, after I&#8217;d left for the semester) and expect another chance.<span id="more-17129"></span></p>
<p>2.  <strong>Ask About Revisions, Re-Takes, and Extra Credit.</strong></p>
<p>Many writing classes offer revision options, and, depending on the class and the prof, you might be able to finagle a test re-take.  More and more frequently, classes are offering chances to drop your lowest grade.  Pour through your syllabus, and see if you are elligible for any of these options.  While you&#8217;re at it, it my be a good idea to revisit the attendance policy and see if any points are being shaved off due to the fact that you haven&#8217;t been to class since September.  Then, follow step 1 and throw yourself at your professor&#8217;s feet, offering to do any amount of work just to scrape by with even a D-.</p>
<p>3.  <strong>Cry N&#8217; Lie.</strong></p>
<p>This is the enhanced version of Talking to Your Teacher.  Let the waterworks begin.  Tell them any sob story about how this semester was so difficult.  You had family problems, you haven&#8217;t adjusted, blah, blah, blah.  Even if they are a total hardass, your teacher might relent enough to give you a low-but-not-failing grade, provided you come through for exams.  If that doesn&#8217;t seem to work, turn on the tears at the registrars, or, better yet, Mental Health services.  If you can give enough reason to have suffered a trauma during the semester, you might be able to drop at the last minute, or get a bye for exams and re-take them the next semester.  This is very hard to accomplish, however, and, if you have any morals, should really only be used if you really DID have some crazy sh*t happen this semester.</p>
<p>4.  <strong>Study Your Freaking Face Off</strong>.</p>
<p>If your prof isn&#8217;t susceptible to excuses and extra credit opportunities, you&#8217;ve got no other option but to master a semester&#8217;s worth of lessons in a couple of days.  You better hope your grade on that final is enough to pull you out of the sea of failure.  It might not work, but if all else has failed, this is your one last chance to escape and leave that class behind you forever.</p>
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		<title>How to Survive That 8 AM Class</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 15:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elizabeth - UC Berkeley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>We all try to avoid them, but somehow, some way, 8 AM classes sneak their way into our college schedules.</p>
<p>Maybe it was the “this semester’s going to be different” syndrome that somehow possessed you to sign up for that early morning seminar.  Or maybe it’s that pesky biology course that you&#8217;ve put off for the last 3 semesters &#8212; the one you have to take to declare your major.   Either way, we all succumb now and then to the &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=12522&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/09/24/8amclass.jpg" title="8AMClass.jpg" alt="8AMClass.jpg" align="left" />We all try to avoid them, but somehow, some way, 8 AM classes sneak their way into our college schedules.</p>
<p>Maybe it was the “<em>this semester’s going to be different</em>” syndrome that somehow possessed you to sign up for that early morning seminar.  Or maybe it’s that pesky biology course that you&#8217;ve put off for the last 3 semesters &#8212; the one you <em>have</em> to take to declare your major.   Either way, we all succumb now and then to the evilest of academia plaguing our university campuses – 8 AM classes.</p>
<p>After spending about five lectures cursing the school’s scheduling system, you realize that you actually have to suck up this class for the entire term.  When you finally come to that place of acceptance, rely on these survival tips to get you through the long road ahead:</p>
<p><strong>1. Prepare your sh*t ahead of time </strong>– It takes about 5 minutes to sleepily throw everything you need in your school bag before you hit the hay.  Make sure to grab the essentials. Notebook? Check. Pens and pencils? Got ‘em.  New York Times sudoku book? Hell yeah!</p>
<p><strong>2. Set your alarm to your own sleeping habits </strong>– Personally, I like to set my alarm to about 20 to 30 minutes before the time I absolutely have to wake up, also known as the <em>Oh Sh*t Hour</em>.  That way, I can have the satisfaction of slapping my snooze button without actually being late for class.  Now, if you’re like my roommate, you may want to set your alarm at the actual O.S.H., or else you may automatically turn off your alarm in your sleep.</p>
<p><strong>3. Drink coffee </strong>– And lots of it.<span id="more-12522"></span></p>
<p><strong>4. Bring breakfast with you </strong>– Let’s be real, most of us run a little late when it’s 7:45 in the morning, leaving no time to prepare let alone eat a hearty meal.  I trust that you’ve seen the <em>Special K</em> Red Berries commercial, so you know that “breakfast is the most important meal of the day.”  I don’t like to lose any opportunity to eat, so I make an easy breakfast that I can eat in class.  One of my favorites is the parfait – nonfat plain yogurt, granola, and mixed frozen or fresh fruit.  Clean, easy, and effectively makes everybody around you drool in jealousy.</p>
<p><strong>5. Wear your gym clothes to class </strong>– This is one of my personal faves.  Wear gym clothes to class so you don’t have to get up earlier to get ready.   It doesn’t even matter if you plan to go to the gym or even have a membership.  As long as you’re wearing gym clothes you can be certain of two things: 1) You will be comfortable and 2) You can speed walk/run to class without breaking an ankle.  This also doubles as an excuse to look like crap while still appearing as there’s a purpose to your raggedness.</p>
<p>Good luck and take heart: you&#8217;re not the only one struggling to keep those eyes open this morning&#8230;</p>
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		<title>The 5 Best Things About the First Week of School</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathryn S</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Aside from the night after you&#8217;ve taken your last final, the first week of school is generally the best time of the whole semester.  The weather is great, you&#8217;re reunited with all of your friends, and the school year has returned just when you were starting to feel like you had too much free time.</p>
<p>The campus is buzzing with returning students, eager to see what the new year has in store.  Even if you anticipate your hardest semester to &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=11647&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/27/class.jpg?w=453&h=302" alt="class.jpg" align="left" height="302" width="453" />Aside from the night after you&#8217;ve taken your last final, the first week of school is generally the best time of the whole semester.  The weather is great, you&#8217;re reunited with all of your friends, and the school year has returned just when you were starting to feel like you had <em>too much</em> free time.</p>
<p>The campus is buzzing with returning students, eager to see what the new year has in store.  Even if you anticipate your hardest semester to date, there&#8217;s still a feeling of excitement in the air during the very first week.</p>
<p>1. <strong>You Get to Scope Out Your New Classes</strong></p>
<p>Maybe I&#8217;m a dork, but I was always excited to see what my new classes would be like. In certain classes&#8211;the must-take courses taught by the professors with the best reputations&#8211; it was great to see what all the buzz was about.  Other classes might have sounded intriguing in the course catalog; reading through the syllabus on the first day, I&#8217;d think the class sounded interesting, and hadn&#8217;t been assigned 500 pages of reading to prove me otherwise. I would also look through the syllabus and see what the course requirements looked like, so I could estimate how little effort I could put into the class, and still walk away with an &#8220;A.&#8221;</p>
<p>Of course, it&#8217;s also fun to see who else has signed up for the class.  Whether you walk through the door and see five of the girls from your freshman dorm, or right into the eyes of your new insta-crush, it&#8217;s fun to find out who you&#8217;ll be taking the class with.<span id="more-11647"></span></p>
<p>2.  <strong>Your Sched&#8217;s Not a Lock (Yet)</strong></p>
<p>So, &#8220;Intro to Film&#8221; turned out to require three 15-page research papers and 7 chapters of reading a night.  Drop it! Your roommate insists that you take &#8220;Deviant Behavior&#8221; instead of &#8220;Early Childhood Development.&#8221;  Sign right up!  In the first week of class, you can roll the dice as many times as you like, without falling behind in the course or having to beg your advisor to sign something so you can drop a class you probably shouldn&#8217;t have signed up for in the first place.  My senior year, I was determined to have the best schedule ever, and must have signed up for and dropped classes about five times before I found the perfect combination of classes that I could learn from, enjoy, and ace, while still having plenty of room for senioritis.</p>
<p>3.  <strong>There&#8217;s Free Stuff Everywhere</strong></p>
<p>Clubs and organizations want you to join, so they&#8217;re apt to set up booths all over campus, offering free food, games, or knick knacks that will clutter your dorm.  Often, the Student Activities department will also sponsor &#8220;Welcome Back&#8221; activities that extend beyond the incoming freshman class in order to get their returning students amped for another great school year.  It&#8217;s a great way to (A) not spend money, (B) hang out with your friends, and (C) socialize with potentially new pals.  Did I mention it&#8217;s all free?</p>
<p>4.  <strong>Dorm Living Rocks in the First Week</strong></p>
<p>As everyone gets settled in, and midterms are only a very distant threat, the doors to everyone&#8217;s rooms stay open, music blares through the hallway, and everyone is ready and willing to introduce themselves to their new neighbors.  The schoolyear drama has yet to set in, so everyone&#8217;s pretty laid-back and carefree.  Similar to scoping out your new classmates, you can scour the dorms for new friends (or crushes), figure out who the partiers are, who you can go to in an emergency, and who has the biggest TV to watch the VMA&#8217;s.  Often, whole floors will arrange group trips to first-week parties, which is a sort of mixer in itself.  Once the real work sets in, the doors close, the music is shut off, and you have to practically beg people to go to the bar with you on a Monday night, so enjoy week one!</p>
<p>5.  <strong>You Can Party. All. Week. Long.</strong></p>
<p>By far, the best part of the first week of school is that, since people are juggling schedules, and the first classes are usually a 20-minute overview of the syllabus, you have little, if any, assignments and responsibilities.  My favorite college tradition was the week-long drinking binge that was the first week of classes.  We would hit up a different bar each night to take advantage of the best drink specials, before deadlines, midterms, and research papers came pouring in.  Even if you are assigned homework on the first Monday of class, you probably won&#8217;t have that class again until Wednesday, and you can probably knock it out on Tuesday after your teacher lets you out of an hour-and-a-half class after only twenty minutes.  Besides, if you do get so sloshed that you start the semester off on the wrong foot, you still have plenty of time to add/drop a new class!</p>
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		<title>Hooking Up With Your RA: Right On, or Wrong Turn?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2008 18:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathryn S</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Listen up incoming freshmen: in a few weeks, you&#8217;re going to find yourself on a huge college campus full of more hook-up potential than you could ever dream.  In the next few years, some of you will have long-term relationships, while many of you will engage in short-term hook-ups.</p>
<p>There are several types of college relationships that have an urban legend-esque feel to them: the sexy school girl and the married professor, the sexy school girl and the teaching assistant, &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&#038;blog=860993&#038;post=11454&#038;subd=collegecandy&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/20/ra.jpg?w=397&h=443" alt="ra.jpg" align="right" height="443" width="397" />Listen up incoming freshmen: in a few weeks, you&#8217;re going to find yourself on a huge college campus full of more hook-up potential than you could ever dream.  In the next few years, some of you will have long-term relationships, while many of you will engage in short-term hook-ups.</p>
<p>There are several types of college relationships that have an urban legend-esque feel to them: the sexy school girl and the married professor, the sexy school girl and the teaching assistant, and, of course, the sexy school girl and the resident assistant.</p>
<p>I have never hooked up with one of my RAs, but that&#8217;s because I&#8217;ve only ever had female RA&#8217;s.  Still, I know plenty of people who have dabbled in these waters.  I&#8217;m not here to condone or condemn the practice, because I&#8217;ve certainly had my fair share of regrettable trysts, but I am here to lay out some of the baggage that comes with such a hook up.</p>
<p>First of all, consider the fact that even inter-floor mating can lead to year-long awkwardness.  If you fear the inevitable walk of shame, imagine the anxiety that comes with the chance that one of your floormates sees you leaving the RA&#8217;s room in last night&#8217;s bar clothes.  Even if you survive the W.O.S, you risk the rumors and reputation &#8212; people are more apt to label someone &#8220;the girl that banged the RA&#8221; than &#8220;the chick who nailed whatshisname in 5B.&#8221;  Even worse, if you can&#8217;t handle the tension of a chance meeting on the elevator (or on the way to the showers), you are biting off more than you can chew with by shacking up with your RA.</p>
<p>Your RA is someone you will probably have to turn to throughout the year.  He&#8217;ll be the one to let you into your room when you are locked out wearing only a towel.  This means he also has the master key to your room (not implying anything, just saying).  He&#8217;s also someone who will have to keep tabs on you throughout the year.  He&#8217;ll be writing you up for dorm parties, open containers, and that hole in your wall that you forgot to fix before move-out day.  This fact alone can open up a brand new can of worms in Relationship Land.<span id="more-11454"></span></p>
<p>If he feels insecure about the hook-up, there&#8217;s a chance he goes on a power trip to get even.  I&#8217;m not saying all RA&#8217;s are scumbags, but it&#8217;s a possibility.  There&#8217;s also the possibility that you feel insecure, and blow things out of proportion: <em>Is he writing me up because I never called him again? </em>Yet another possibility is that you are overly confident: <em>He won&#8217;t write me up, because I slipped him some poon</em>, and end up getting yourself into trouble by thinking dorm rules don&#8217;t apply to you.</p>
<p>If you do get busted by your RA after having (or continuing to have) a relationship with him, it makes him doing his job more personal as well.  Maybe he stops by to say hello and notices a box of Franzia on your desk on your &#8220;dry&#8221; floor.  He puts his job first and makes you pour it out and writes you up.  Do you really want any more emotions stacked on top of the pain of losing all of that perfectly good alcohol?</p>
<p>On the other hand, RA&#8217;s are people too.  Many of them sign up to save money on housing&#8211; and I think saving money in college is something we can all relate to.  I&#8217;ve known some really cool RA&#8217;s in the past, and some of them are so laid back, you don&#8217;t even realize that technically, they are in charge of the floor.  If there is a real connection between you and your RA, who&#8217;s to say it can&#8217;t work out?  Besides, he&#8217;ll most likely have a single (a rarity in dormland), so you won&#8217;t have to worry about a roommate barging in.  In that case, I recommend having an adult conversation and weighing the pros and cons of pursuing your feelings, or even looking into swapping floors for future semesters.  You might also want to find out if he has a reputation for seducing his advisees Van-Wilder-Style before you get in too deep.</p>
<p>In my experience (or my friends&#8217; experiences, rather), the RA hookup is a bad idea.  There are plenty of other fellas on campus to make regrets out of, so why make a mistake with someone who is pretty much in charge of your living quarters?  Still, it&#8217;s always best to trust your intuition, and see where that takes you.</p>
<p>For the record, I also don&#8217;t advise going shot for shot in a foreign country with your orientation leader, but that&#8217;s a whole new set of wisdom.</p>
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