• Sexy Time: Sex Positions For Her

    In 2009, we seem to have finally recognized the clitoris as the important sexual organ it is. Any Cosmo article will tell you that many women don't have vaginal orgasms and clitoral stimulation is an important part of sex. But despite recognizing the important of the clitoris, our basic, standard sex position remains missionary, one of the worst positions for clitoral stimulation!

  • Sexy Time: Make a Move!

    My roommate has recently become obsessed with the new Weezer song and she’s constantly shouting, “Girl, If you’re wondering if I want you to, I want you to,
 so make a move, (Make a move) ‘cos I ain’t got all night.” This has led me to some contemplation on how hard it actually is to make a move on someone, and how annoying and awkward it can be while you’re waiting for them to make a move on you.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Back That Weiner Up

    Dear Tuffy Luv, My boyfriend wants to have sex all the time. At first I was OK with it but now I just want to hang out sometimes. We still go on dates but its like he needs to have sex every single day. I'm stressed out!

  • Sexy Time: You Ready For It?

    If you want be having sex, or be having more sex (and, come on, who doesn't!?) the best thing you can do is make sure you're prepared. Getting yourself ready for sex will put you in a mental mindset compatible with getting some. And feeling sexy will send out the come hither vibes that will make it happen.

  • Sexy Time: How HE Can Be Great In Bed

    Last week I gave some pointers about how we girls can kick ass in the bedroom. This week, it’s the boys’ turn. My boyfriend is, by far, the best sex/oral I’ve ever had, and for a while I was actually freaked out that he would spoil me for life. To solve that issue, I had him write a guide on how to please to a woman (that I could assign as homework to any future boyfriends).

  • Sexy Time: How To Be Great In Bed

    I’m just gonna say it, I’m good in bed. I might be a little arrogant about it, but a big part of good sex is confidence, so I think it’s OK to be a bit smug. A lot of girls are insecure about their performance in the bedroom, but there’s really no reason to be. Being good in bed is much simpler then you think.

  • Sexy Time: When Vaginas Explode

    My roommate recently told me a story. It was a bit graphic in nature, so I won't share the dirty details here, but it involved her, her boyfriend, and an orgasm so intense she actually experienced female ejaculation. Yeah, maybe we share a little too much information.

  • Sexy Time: Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire

    We all lie, in some form or another. We lie to our parents (it’s not a hangover; it’s a stomach bug), our teachers (I’m late because the bus was delayed, not because I forgot to set my alarm), our employers (it’s my mom’s birthday, not some girl in my hall’s 21st) and our sexual partners (you’re the best I’ve ever had!).

  • He Said/She Said: Bedroom Nightmares

    You know what's super awkward? Sex. All that nudity and rubbing and body parts all over the place. It's a recipe for disaster. There are about a billion things that can go wrong, from cutting open your head on the corner of a dresser (been there) to dropping a wad of drool on your man's face (done that).

  • Sexy Time: Will You Have Sex With Us?

    My boyfriend and I have wanted to try a threesome for a little while. We both find the idea really hot, but haven’t been able to find any way to make it a reality. We have the same problem I know a lot of couples face; WHO do you ask to have sex with you?

  • Sex Education 201: The Stuff You Really Wanna Know

    Back in the 9th grade when I was forced to take Sex Ed from a 79 year old man with arthritic fingers (OMG they were all crooked and gross and I stared at my notebook for the duration of the class so I didn't regurgitate my lunch), I took it for granted.

  • Sexy Time: Can Sex Be Too Good?

    I am having the best sex of my life. My boyfriend is absolutely amazing. He loves to make me orgasm and is always finding new ways to do it. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. I'm also the most neurotic girl in the world, so I can't help thinking: could this be a bad thing?

  • Bad Advice Men Get: Control and Dominate Your Woman

    This week's article is nothing but a load of misogynistic crap about women being submissive to men. It open's with: "Women like to be controlled and dominated. Don't fool yourself into believing that they don't. They do... Secretly all women desire to submit to the will of their man."

  • GOOD Advice Men Get: The Female Orgasm

    While searching for bad advice articles for this week's column, I came (teehee) across one article that I loved so much I had to share it with all of you. The article is about female orgasm and it packages some of the best sex advice men can get into a relatively short and easy-to-read article.

  • Sexy Time: There Is A Wrong Time for Sex

    I’m not going to debate the morality of casual sex. Everybody has different reasons for “hooking up” and everyone experiences different consequences. There are some reasons for having casual sex, however, that really are just bad news. I know this because I’ve tried most of them…

  • Sexy Time: Eff The No-Sex Rule

    An hour before my first date with my boyfriend, I was sitting at dinner with a friend who had a single piece of advice for me: "Whatever you do, don't sleep with him on the first date," she said.

  • The Doctor is In: How Much Sex Is Enough?

    Talking sex with your doctor isn’t always easy. Whether you are afraid she or he will judge you, you just don’t feel comfortable sharing the intimate details of your life between the sheets, or you can’t think straight with a speculum between your legs, many people get tight lipped in the doctor’s office. But that doesn’t mean you don’t have questions.

  • Cosmo Says The Darndest Things: June Edition

    This month, Cosmo was especially recession conscious (there were, like, 6 whole articles!), featured a slightly disappointing interview with Leighton Meester (she’s just not as bitchy as Blair) and their first ever scratch-n-sniff! But, by far the most…interesting article I read was “The Sex Detective is in!”

  • Sexy Time: Blame It On The L-L-L-LUBE

    Derrick* and I used to have great sex. We were both passionate, experimental, and great in bed (hey, confidence is a turn-on, right?). But lately we have been in a rut, and I blame it on lube.

  • He Said/She Said: Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    I have spent 8 years (not continuously) with my mouth between a dude's legs, and while I finally know that I'm good at it (one fine young man - whose name I do not know - exclaimed, "Wow! That was good!"), I still don't love all the work is involved. It kills my jaw, my neck, and I'd rather let the guy handle things on his own than risk lock jaw on a sweaty appendage.

  • Tuffy Luv Talks Sex Toys

    Dear Tuffy Luv, Continuing your theme of lists from last week-- what are the different kinds of sex toys? Thanks!! BunnyRabbit

  • Sexy Time: A** from Afar

    Let’s be honest – we all like to get some on a fairly regular basis. But what’s a girl to do when the o…

  • How To Tell If He’s Faking It

    [The following post is courtesy of our homegirls over at YourTango. Well, their male perspecti…

  • He Said/She Said: Making the First Move

    I hate waiting for guys to approach me, mostly because they never do. So, instead of standing in t…

  • Pillow Talk with Diana: Are We More Than Friends?

    Q: So I’ve known this guy for years and years and we’ve been friends for forever and we have “talke…