Candy Dish: Kris Humphries, Esq.

Kris Humphries will be his own lawyer in his divorce

Check out these awesome braiding skills

Britney Spears offered $10 million to join X Factor

Pictures of an attractive man, just because

10 things you should never say in bed

Elle Fanning and Angelina Jolie in a movie together?

Speaking of Fannings, get Dakota’s look

The burden of being a virgin

Are you shy about food?


Sexy Time: Porn Bores Me

Porn tends to provoke intense reactions when one brings it up in conversation. Generally, people fall into two categories – those who are super enthusiastic and those who utterly despise everything about it. I completely understand both sides of the coin. I totally get the appeal of watching people fornicate – it’s a bit scandalous, has the potential to be informative/inspiring and, if you find the participants attractive, it’s a way to live out a fantasy. Sure, why not? Alternatively, porn can be abhorrent for a variety of reasons – whether it offends your moral sensibilities, your feminist sensibilities or your “no-woman-should-have-that-much-silicone-in-her-body” sensibilities, there are a lot of justifications for hating porn.

I, on the other hand, am ridiculously neutral. I’ve watched a bit of porn in my day – celebrity sex tapes, professional pornos and amateur attempts. I’ve watched straight, gay, lesbian, threesome, BDSM, interracial and more. I’ve watched it solo and with the boyfriend. But nothing ever clicks. I always feel so detached from the action that’s on screen. It doesn’t evoke much of anything from me, mentally or physically. I thought it would be something that I grew to like, but after 6 or 7 years of sporadic viewing, that has proven to not be the case. Read More »


Candy Dish: Hump Day

10 tempting reasons to think he’s the one even if he’s not

10 tips to help you get over a break up

Single celebs we’d cast as the new bachelor

Your period could be a time for deep lady bonding

Dating advice from Taylor Kitsch

Yes, shapewear can be sexy!

5 simple ways to get your man to understand you

What women want according to twitter

In love? Take this quiz!


Body Blog: Should You Become an IUD Diva?

Unless you’ve been living under a rock lately (which is totally possible, it is midterm season), you’ve heard about all of the controversy surrounding birth control. From Congress to the presidential debates to Twitter to Facebook, everybody is talking about birth control, who should have access to it, and how they should get that access.

That conversation mostly focuses on the birth control pill. Sometimes Nuva Ring and Depo Provera, the monthly shot, are also mentioned. But there’s another form of long-term birth control that’s gaining popularity in the U.S. And when considering your birth control options, it might be worth a look.

The intrauterine device, or IUD, is the most popular form of contraception worldwide. But not in the U.S., where oral contraceptives are the most commonly used form of birth control. Why? In the 70s and 80s, lots of poorly conducted research incorrectly linked IUDs to serious infections. It was also thought that IUDs might affect future fertility, so they were only recommended for women who had already had children and wanted to prevent future pregnancies. But better research has disproved all of these fears, and now IUDs are becoming more popular among young, unmarried, childless women. And they’re blogging about it, too, on sites like IUD Diva. Read More »


One Month Challenge: I’m Giving Up Masturbation

Sex. I love it. So when I vowed to stop having casual sex as a part of my New Years Resolution, I took out my pent up frustration on Dr. Lovegood (my vibrator). Naturally, my masturbation frequency has skyrocketed (5-7 times a week), which I feel is perfectly reasonable… for a pubescent male. Orgasms are important to me, but when masturbation is the first thing that comes to mind when asked, “What is your favorite thing to do?” I could probably use a break. I’m going to give up masturbation for 30 days… Just to see how it feels. I know some scientists say orgasms are good for health and yadda yadda, but monks abstain from the pleasures of the flesh and seem to be productive? I CAN DO THIS. I just have to be smart about it…

Potential hurdles during the month of March:

SXSW: SURE there may be a zillion extremely attractive band guys prancing around with tans and free booze, but whatever, I’ve been to SXSW before. I can handle it.

HUNGER GAMES RELEASE: This might not turn on many people… but I’ve read the trilogy three times, longing for a Peeta Mellark of my own, and SERIOUSLY Liam Hemsworth is playing Gale?! Read More »


Candy Dish: New Footage of Katniss Everdeen in The Hunger Games!

First look at Katniss Everdeen showing off her skills!

Davy Jones to be buried in Florida

Taylor Kitsch looks super sexy– Texas forever!

25 questions answered about Project X

3 free must have apps for college students

These celebrities rocked big hair then and now

April Bowlby for BelloMag Entertainment

Can you spot the real Missoni ‘Cabras’ bikini?

Can a relationship work when the sex is compromised?


Sexy Time: Why Are We Using Condoms Less Frequently?

There was a study completed recently about college-aged women and condom usage, and the results were that the women used condoms less frequently the more time they spent in college. This was true for both women in monogamous relationships and women who engaged in casual sex.

Of course, women often blow off condoms when they go on the pill or another form of birth control, but preventing pregnancy isn’t the only aspect of safe sex that is important. Condoms are the only way to prevent the spread of most STDs (HPV and herpes not included). Maybe this is just my perception, but it seems like in the last few years, there has been a huge de-emphasis in the importance of staying STD-free. There’s still a significant stigma against people who have them, but not a lot of talk about preventing the spread. I think it’s interesting that this study chose to highlight women’s role in condom usage, when ultimately, it’s up to the guy to agree to wear one (yes, female condoms are available, but they’re more expensive and more difficult to use properly, and they are not really discussed). Read More »


Candy Dish: Hump Day

5 relationship draw-outs to avoid

Would you propose to a man?

9 naughty apps for your phone

Uh oh – are college women ditching condoms?

Red is scientifically proven to be the sexiest color

Dating lessons from Craigslist missed connections

Things women wish they had known before marriage

Keeping the love alive in long distance relationships

How to accept your partner for who they are


He Said/She Said: Things I Wish Guys Would Do Less (Hint, Hint)

As wonderful as men are, I can’t help but bring up a few…areas for improvement, shall we say…in the bedroom. Guys, I know it’s not easy guessing what your partner may or may not like — it’s not easy for us girls either. But, here I will suggest a few things that we would like less of. Now before you get your knickers in a twist, a few caveats: no, not all men do these things all the time – but there are some guys out there giving the rest of them a bad name. And secondly, no, not all women will agree with these suggestions, so really you’ll have to apply these on a case-by-case basis. Cool? Let’s continue then.

Less of the Axe deodorant.

You are not 14 anymore. As long as you shower regularly (and if you don’t, you should), there’s absolutely no need to drench yourself in that noxious gas which, despite what the ads may tell you, will not entice hoards of ridiculously beautiful women to throw themselves prostrate at your balls. Read More »


Candy Dish: Beaver Feaver?!

Beaver fever?! Justin Bieber not happy about this video game

Spice up your love life with lingerie inspired dressing!

Ashton Kutcher in bed with Alessandra Ambrosio? HOTT!

Ameican Idol finally reveals the Top 24

Hot guy, white trash and used denim? Approve!

Get Miranda Kerr’s yellow skirt and red heels look for less!

Want your man to be better at oral sex? Send him to this guy!

Check out these three reasons to have a ‘just friends’ guy friend.

Hate your best friend’s boy friend? Get help here.