Sex - page 4
Feb 6, 2014

Lesson #6: Bold Girls Know What They Want [Bold Girls’ Bible]

In early relationships, before I was the Bold Girl I am today, I would hide my feelings, no matter the cost. I would let things build and build until I was banging my arms against the dashboard of my car screaming, "I'M FINE, GOD! WHY DON'T YOU BELIEVE ME."

Jan 30, 2014

Lesson #5: Romantic Comedies Don’t Teach Nothin’ ‘Bout Love [Bold Girls’ Bible]

In one of my most recent romantic situations, I was constantly convinced it would turn out like a romantic movie. Like, "Oh you don't like me now. That's cool. We're meant to be." I actually had full-blown day dreams where we would both end up in New York at some hip bar.

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Jan 29, 2014

Valentine’s Day Lingerie to Give Yourself

Lingerie is one of the reasons we love being women because beautiful, lacy underthings will make you feel sexy even under a pair of sweatpants at the gym. We believe quality innerwear is just as important as what you wear on the outside, so we rounded up some of our favorite pieces for you to shop.

Jan 23, 2014

Lesson #4: Long Distance Relationsh*t [Bold Girls’ Bible]

When I graduated high school in 2009, I had planned to go to the University of Iowa, a school that was around 4 hours away from my hometown of Omaha, Nebraska. It was never my intention to meet a boy I wanted to date right before leaving for college, but as it turns out that's exactly what happened.

Jan 17, 2014

How to Pack a Clutch for an Impromptu Sleepover

We've all been there before - the night is coming to an end, and you realize you're not going home. It doesn't matter if the sleepover is happening at a lover's or a friend's pad, it's happening, and you are nowhere near being prepared.

Jan 16, 2014

Lesson #3: New Year, New You…New Guy? [Bold Girls’ Bible]

Everyone knows the typical female mantra for January, "new year, new me!" Girls hashtag it for the first few weeks, when they're actually hitting the gym and trying to stick to their New Year's resolutions, but I want to talk about a different kind of mantra. New year, new guy.

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Jan 14, 2014

11 Dos and Don’ts for Sick Sex…As In Having Sex While You’re Unwell

Just because you're under the weather, sexy times don't need to come to a screeching halt. No, I'm not trying to convince you that dirty tissues are the latest aphrodisiac. Rather, there are ways you can still get yours despite feeling like Gwyneth Paltrow in Contagion.

Science Says Sex Makes You Smarter, Have A Smartgasm, Ladies

Great news for us all. Alert the major religions, nosey parents and sex ed. counselors!

Jan 13, 2014

Lesson #2: Know When to Walk Away, and Know When to Run [Bold Girls’ Bible]

I want everyone reading this to understand that the only way off of that hook is yourself. You are the only one standing in the way of your happiness.

Jan 9, 2014

Lesson #1: A Bad Date Does Not A Life Ruin [Bold Girls’ Bible]

Hopefully my experiences can provide some sort of framework for your greater and lesser moments chasing love (or something like it).

Jan 2, 2014

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Oct 24, 2013

Everyone’s Kink Is Boring To Me These Days [Sexy Time]

I've accidentally become a pro bono therapist/life coach to people in my life because I can listen to any of their problems and generally keep a poker face and I can easily offer non-judgmental sentiments.

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Oct 13, 2013

Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Have Sex All The Time! How Do I Get Him to Chill Out?

We love our boyfriends, but when they get a little too demanding about wanting sex. There might be a problem there.

Oct 11, 2013

The Absolute Greatest Places To Have Sex [Dude’s List]

Here are some places that you can, should, and should aspire to have sex at, in, or possibly on top of.

Oct 10, 2013

You Don’t Have To Swallow [Sexy Time]

The element of surprise is not always fun, you know?

Oct 3, 2013

I’m Having a Sexual Existential Crisis – Thanks, Tumblr [Sexy Time]

I can't help but wonder how brainwashed I've been and whether or not my preferences are really my preferences or if I've just mindlessly accepted things because it was easy.

Oct 1, 2013

Highly Embarrassing Reasons Why You Don’t Want to Have Sex

Sometimes sex just isn't on the itinerary for the night.

Sep 27, 2013

14 Places You Must NEVER Have Sex [Dude’s List]

You can feel free to disagree with me but I’ll be happy to poke holes in your theories…that sounded a little naughtier than I meant it to.

Sep 26, 2013

How To Initiate Sex When You’re A Woman [Sexy Time]

Initiating can be a daunting task, but it's actually really simple. The worst case scenario isn't that terrible, and the potential payoff is pretty amazing.

Sep 19, 2013

In Defense of Being Uptight [Sexy Time]

Women are often socialized to be flexible, passive, and basically total pushovers. We're expected to put everyone before ourselves because that's the feminine and nurturing thing to do.

Sep 12, 2013

3 Ways To Deal With Being Confronted With a Kink You’re Not Into [Sexy Time]

Being able to navigate awkward conversations with your partner is a really important skill. It takes courage to open up about fantasies and being sympathetic and not freaking out when someone reveals something you find unappealing is key to diminishing the awkwardness.

Sep 11, 2013

Science Reveals the Sexiest…And LEAST Sexy Body Parts

A total of 41 erogenous zones on 800 male and female subjects were ranked in order of the order of their sexual arousal levels. Making an appearance on the list of spots of arousal were shoulder blades, ears, inner thighs and lips.

Sep 10, 2013

4 Epic Sex Lessons You Need to Learn In Your Twenties!

Now I'm sure we've all come to terms with the fact that life isn't like the movies, and those hot moves and that crazy confidence you've seen in almost every HBO drama is a lot harder to pull off than one would imagine.

Sep 7, 2013

Study Says, Women Would Rather Be Sexless Than Old Looking

Why are women saying that they would give up sex (?!!!) if it could make them younger looking?

Sep 5, 2013

I Can’t Bring My BF to the Big O [Sexy Time]

Tons of women have awkward stories about guys who were definitely sprinters as opposed to marathoners. But there's an inverse to this problem - the guy who can't or doesn't come in a timely fashion.

Sep 5, 2013

Here’s a Huge List of Things You Should Consider Before Sleeping With Someone

Haven't you seen "Catch and Release" where Jennifer Garner asks Timothy Olyphant his mother's maiden name after they do the deed? If Jennifer Garner swears by this rule, and she's no ho, then it must hold some water.

Aug 29, 2013

I Had To Give Up One of My Favorite Sex Acts [Sexy Time]

It's definitely a tiny bit heartbreaking when something that brings you pleasure ultimately doesn't agree with you.

Aug 25, 2013

Is a ‘Friends With Benefits’ Buddy Really Worth It?

Let's just pretend for a second that Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake were in an actual, realistic version of friends with benefits. Would they seriously fall in love in the end and be all ridiculously good looking while doing it? NO!

Aug 23, 2013

5 Things I’d Do If I Were Single [Sexy Time]

I love having a boyfriend. I love the stability. I love the comfort. I love the support and the casual movie nights and the snuggles and all of that great stuff. But, on occasion, I do daydream about what it would be like to be single.

Aug 16, 2013

Marvel and Avengers Themed Dildos: Would You Use These? [NSFW]

Alas, the day has come, and I haven't a shred of editorial modesty left.

Aug 15, 2013

“Blurred Lines” Annoys Me, But Probably Not Why You Think [Sexy Time]

After two decades of listening to pop music, I'm increasingly desensitized to the grimy messages that are perpetuated. That said, what irks me about the song is the delineation between "good girls" and "girls who openly love sex."

Aug 15, 2013

HBO Viewers Demand To See More Penis, Man Butts, Testes, Etc.

One group of ladies feel like there is a simple solution to HBO's sexism: more Ds.

Aug 12, 2013

How Do I Get The Sex More Exciting? [Ask A Dude]

My boyfriend and I have been best friends since 7th grade (we are both juniors in college now) and just started dating. It is hands down the best relationship I have ever had. But the sex sucks.

Aug 8, 2013

5 Reasons I’ve Said No To Sex, Illustrated In GIFs

Sometimes it's because I'm in a dark mental place and arousal is the last thing on my mind. And sometimes...my reasons are maybe less sympathetic.

Aug 7, 2013

16 Sex Tips From Porn Stars, Playboy Babes And Feminists

Porn stars, Playboy Bunnies, cam girls, feminist bloggers, feminist men and feminist women, we asked them all: What is good sex?

Aug 5, 2013

So Which States Have The Biggest Ds? Not Wyoming . . .

Wyoming came in last place. Sad. They're going to have to live with this stigma until like a month from now when everybody forgets this list existed.