There's no guide on how to hook up in college, but here are a few definite "don'ts" if you're looking to keep things clean and simple.
Safe sex is the best sex, girl. Also, free (Trojan!) condoms are the best kind of condoms. We know you want to kick it with the coeds this summer and beyond, so we're giving away 1-year supply of condoms and Trojan's BRAND NEW line of lube.
You could be committing one (or all) of three cardinal mistakes, but if that is the unfortunate case, don't worry.
You might tell your best friend about the weird guy you hooked up with last weekend who had an extraordinarily veiny penis (graphic, strange, yet totally conversational), but would you tell her that you're heading to the drugstore later to pick up some trusty lube (not graphic, not strange, yet totally embarrassing)?
I was semi-convinced I was going to die un-penetrated and unappreciated. And then I ran into the welcoming/terrifying arms of online dating and those fears became a distant memory.
They say we learn something new everyday, and if anyone wants to refute me, well I certainly am going to teach you something new today. Let's talk about kissing.
I can understand withholding sex if you're trying to weed out people who are interested in getting to know you as a person rather than just trying to get to know your vagina. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who out there who misrepresent their intentions and pretend they want to pursue something serious when that's not the case at all.
I was brunching with some ladies the other day, and naturally the conversation turned to guys and sex. Unfortunately, some of the girls have been experiencing some really bad sexual juju.
Night after night, no matter how hard Mr. Mower tried to get Mrs. Mower to have sex with him, she shut him down. He even researched online about how doing housework can turn a woman on.
The possibility of getting a "happy ending" from one of these good-looking massage guys was a goal of one woman, and she decided to share her experiences for everyone to...enjoy.
I feel like if a guy is telling me he's not interested, but can still be sold on sex, I should probably just accept that he's "not that into it" instead of telling myself he's just scared of commitment or is putting up walls.
Do you guys ever wonder why we kiss? Like, what is it about human nature that drives us to go lip-to-lip with another person? French kissing, deep kissing, pecks, magical kissing, etc. We want ALL the kisses!
Sick of the same old routine when it comes to bedroom shenanigans? Tired of not getting that orgasm we all deserve? Or just wanting to spice it up with some new sex positions? From easy to advanced, there's a position for you.
I can only spend so much time alternating between making eye contact with my boyfriend and staring at his business before I start to get kind of bored. So I've come up with a few ways to subtly stymie any boredom that may crop up.
If you like it snipped into your boyfriend's initial, that's a little weird, but sure, that's your choice.
A girl is supposed to be able to have relationships and partners, but not too many. She's supposed to be pure, but not overly pure.
Last week, I had my first vaguely erotic dream in quite awhile. The tension and the chemistry was ridiculous with whoever the guy was...and then my conscience creeped in and reminded me I have a real-life boyfriend and I woke up. Weak.
I've had sex in various un-private places and while none of them were especially bad, they definitely were great. I've gotten it on inside public places, outside, during the day, at night...so I think I've done it enough times to write it off as an overrated sex activity.
Looking to spice things up in the bedroom? Tired of the same old latex condom? Well the guys over at J&D's have created something for you: bacon flavored condoms.
In the wake of the Steubenville rape trial, there has been increased dialogue about the importance of consent. Unfortunately, the societal narrative around consent is so muddled, distorted, and harmful. There's a ton of emphasis on the absence of no and not nearly enough about the presence of yes.
I wonder how lost some guys may be in bed when it comes to making a woman happy, because it can be very hard to ask for directions!
"Condoms suck, and if you say otherwise, you're lying." That's the general consensus from the guys here in the CollegeCandy offices. Luckily for them, Bill Gates has put a call out to inventors everywhere...
He insisted he still didn't find her attractive, and wasn't really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.
Sex can be a big deal. It can be awkward, difficult, weird, uncomfortable, etc. It can also be pretty great too though! It's all about confidence and comfort. It's about just letting it all go and doing what's best for you--making sure that you get to have a good time too! Because let's be real, the majority of guys always have a good time if you know what I'm sayin'.
Let's get real. No matter what anyone says, people are going to be curious about other people's number of sexual partners. Why? Because we are all nosy, nosy people and it's interesting.