• Ask A Dude: I’m Too Shy To Flirt

    Ask A Dude: I’m Too Shy To Flirt

    Dear dude, Without sounding conceited, I’m smart, funny, pretty and I’ve got an hourglass figure. My problem is that I’ve got a whole lot of personality and apparently I’m intimidating to guys. Whenever I go to parties, I get hit on but it never goes anywhere because although I act really outgoing, I’m secretly shy when it comes to guys.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Multiple Fishes

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Multiple Fishes

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I have been seeing this guy at school on-and-off since the beginning of the school year. He’s a freshman, I’m a sophomore. At the beginning, we hit it off great for about three weeks, and then he felt that he needed to keep his options open as a freshman–which I understood and let it go. He came back around Thanksgiving time and told me he wanted to start seeing me again, and I agreed.

  • Tuffy Luv Puckers Up

    Tuffy Luv Puckers Up

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I’m a college sophomore – and I have yet to have my first kiss. It’s not that I’ve never had guys show interest, they just never seem to be the guy I am interested in. Not to toot my own horn, but I think I am a reasonably attractive, funny, smart person, and I have seen way less attractive, stranger people have relationships or frequently talk about the people they hooked-up with over the weekend.

  • College Q&A: I Need Friends

    College Q&A: I Need Friends

    ‘m just about to transfer to a much larger school for the spring semester, after commuting to school for two and a half years (I’m a junior now) and I’m REALLY scared about making friends. I’ve always had some difficulty with making them, since I’m pretty shy and socially awkward. Having friends isn’t impossible, but now that I’m going away to a huge school of 44,000 students, it’s a bit intimidating.

  • How to Crack The Shy Guy

    How to Crack The Shy Guy

    h, the Shy Guy: that rare specimen of man who you’ll never overhear bragging about some meaningless hook-up. You won’t find him at parties or see him hamming it up for the ladies. He’s sweet, modest and avoids being the center of attention at ALL costs. Odds are, he’ll be the one sitting in the back of class, avoiding eye contact with the professor when he or she scans the room for a volunteer.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez, Don’t Do It If You Can’t Say It

    Tuffy Luv Sez, Don’t Do It If You Can’t Say It

    Question for Tuffy? Email her at tuffyluv@collegecandy.com to be featured in her column, whic…

  • Help Bubba Get A Sex Change (Note: This Is REAL)

    Help Bubba Get A Sex Change (Note: This Is REAL)

    Do you know who Bubba is? You don‘t?! Obviously, you have no heart.
    Bubba is a cat who grew u…

  • Meeting His Friends: Part 2

    Meeting His Friends: Part 2

    (Last week we began this series about meeting your dude’s friends. This week, we continu…

  • Deflowering The MALE Virgin

    Deflowering The MALE Virgin

    Deflowering a virgin is something that guys think about…and they usually think about it…

  • Pro-Choice: Why I Don’t Drink

    Pro-Choice: Why I Don’t Drink

    I’m a shy person. I’ve gotten a little better over the years, but the thought of speaking to a room…

  • More Class Up in the Crib: Flavor of Love 3 Recap: Episode 1

    More Class Up in the Crib: Flavor of Love 3 Recap: Episode 1

    Don’t act like you don’t watch. You are just as guilty as I am and that’s why you’re reading this. T…