June 19, 2011
- 5:00 pm
By CC Staff

Is there anything better than spending a day reading on the beach, getting a golden glow, and sipping on a Pina Colada? I mean, I’m just guessing that would be the best. My beach days are usually more about trying to keep my hair from birds-nesting in the wind, spraying on SPF 75, and half-heartedly drinking warm beer that’s on the verge of boiling in the sun. But I do love opening up a good book, getting lost in the story, and ignoring the fact that there’s an elderly man walking back and forth wearing a a speedo thong.
And that’s why I asked all our wonderful CollegeCandy writers to tell us their favorite beach read. Because who knows books better than our writers? (Okay, that sounds cocky, I was just trying to drive home the point that they picked some great books…)
initiating the gallery...
May 18, 2010
- 1:00 pm
By Sara - NYU

You know the drill. Qs to TuffyLuv@collegecandy.com etc. etc. etc.
Dear Tuffy Luv,
So freshman year is coming to close, but with a terrible ending. My best friend here has decided to go chase after the guy I had a history with/crush on at the beginning of the year. I’ve moved on from liking him ever since he clearly rejected me in February and have been able to settle on friendly terms with him even though he really left me in the dirt.
To simply put it, I was humiliated, deeply hurt, angry, and incredibly bitter. I still am if I think about what he did and how he treated me. He strung me along and played with my emotions and knew what he was doing, and then completely rejected me. My friend, this ex-crush, and I have been able to work together and slowly build back a kind of friendship up until now.
Last weekend the so-called best friend and the ex-crush/fling hooked up. I am not incredibly angry by the fact that she did that, but it’s more of a thing where I lost complete trust in her. I had come to her as a friend when I was emotionally distraught and felt bitter and rejected, and I wanted to rant to her about my hatred for this guy, but I found out later that she told the boy everything I said. And then she had also told me she would never go and hook up with him because I had and it would be sloppy seconds. Still, she did this and I asked why she did only to find out that she has liked him also ever since the beginning of the year. Read More »
April 6, 2009
- 5:00 pm
By Ali - Syracuse University
One recent night at the bar, as I was sipping on my Long Island, a nearby guy began hitting on me. He asked me to dance, and my inebriated-state told me that this was a good idea. However, upon our dancing (read: trying to maintain balance in heels) and conversing (read: finding out basic facts), he told me casually that he used to see one of my sorority sisters. He said that he was surprised he hadn’t met me before, as he had slept at the house so often.
Red Flag.
Peace out, playa.
He seemed a little peeved and surprised that I was no longer interested in “gettin’ out of here” with him. Um, hello? You used to hook up with one of my sisters!
On my chilly, wobbly and lonely walk home, I started thinking about the whole situation.Why was this guy surprised at my sudden complete lack of interest? Moreover, why wasn’t knowing that I knew his ex a big red flag for him, too? Read More »
Tags: bros before hoes, chicks before dicks, dating, dating advice, ex, Friends, hooking up, hooking up with an ex, loyalty, make out session, Relationships, sloppy seconds, sorority
February 18, 2009
- 4:00 pm
By CC Staff

The first lesson I remember learning was the importance of sharing. I had to share my toys, I had to share my feelings and I had to share my gum with the rest of the class. Now, call me selfish, but I believe that some things in life should not be shared.
STDs, for example. Or guys?
In my mind, once a friend dates a guy, or cozies up with him for more than one night, he’s off the market to the rest of us. I mean, there’s a reason they call it “Sloppy Seconds,” right? But I’ve learned that it’s different for guys; they don’t mind hooking up with someone else’s leftovers. In fact, I know lots of girls who have made their way through an entire group of guys and none of them seemed to mind.
How can that be? Can guys really share hook ups like girls share tube tops? Let’s see what our guy had to say… Read More »
Tags: boyfriend, dating history, Friends, group of friends, hooking up, makeout, making out, Sex, sharing exes, sloppy seconds, stds
June 23, 2008
- 1:30 pm
By Jess - NYU

In case you weren’t aware, Hollywood is weird and incestuous
Samantha Ronson is straight up fugly. Even if you like girls who dress like skinny hipster boys (I’m looking at you, Lilo).
Shia keeps dissapointing me (one more strike and we are NOT getting married)
No hurrahs for Al-Hurra: the American government’s idiotic puppet propaganda channel is, not surprisingly, NOT POPULAR with the Arab world
George Carlin: we’ll miss you, you controversial badass
“Pregnancy Pact” perhaps not a pact at all…just “a lot of girls who know each other getting pregnant at the same time and being happy about it”
Mike Meyers is either a diva, or just freaking out because everyone hates The Love Guru
That jogging bra might just save your life (and not in the way you think)
Tags: al hurra, arab world, cameron diaz, george carlin, hipster, hollywood, Jessica Bruinsma, jogging bra, mike meyers, pregnancy pact, samantha ronson, shia labeouf, sloppy seconds, the love guru