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Do His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words? [Ask A Dude]
I feel like if a guy is telling me he’s not interested, but can still be sold on sex, I should probably just accept that he’s “not that into it” instead of telling myself he’s just scared of commitment or is putting up walls.
Do “We Have To Talk?” [Ask A Dude]
Why is asking to talk to a guy a big deal? Recently I texted my FWB that I wanted to talk to him, and asked if he had a minute later on in the day. He immediately shot back, “What’s it about? Am I in trouble?”

Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]
I really like this guy and he says he likes me a lot too, but I don’t want to open my heart to someone who is just going to be all like, “JK, you’re too young for me” in another month.
Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]
He insisted he still didn’t find her attractive, and wasn’t really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.
When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]
Our relationships, in whatever form they take to begin with, always seem to hit the same problem area eventually. The dreaded “gray area”. It’s where men tend to drag out the dating or hooking up phase, and avoid putting a label on “what we are”.
Where Are All The Hot Girls During Winter?
There’s a certain phenomenon that happens on the first warm day of the year: The streets are filled with absolutely stunningly beautiful women. Ask any guy, he’ll say the same thing: “It’s like they’ve been hibernating and have come back!”
What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]
I’m pretty secure with my body, but I know there are some areas I could use to tone up. (Shout out to my Kardashian butt!) When I have sex, it’s pretty inevitable that my less-firm parts take center stage and I’m worried it’s a turn off to guys.

How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]
I’ve been out on first dates with guys who barely go in for a kiss at the end of the night, and others who can’t seem to get my clothes off fast enough.
The 14 Best Movies to Watch On a Date [Dude's List]
This is as varied and specific a list as it gets. Some people find the Aliens saga extremely romantic while others tend to be suckers for a cliché tearjerker like The Notebook. It’s a difficult decision oftentimes, finding that right balance of romance, sex appeal, tension and craft.
Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]
Dating is a dance and texting is a brand new routine. You modify some old moves but you’re also creating new ones. The results are mostly the same and based on the same fundamentals, timing and rhythm included. But while the benefits are great, the burns are more severe.
The 12 Best, Most Accurate Movies About Life in Your 20s
As you’re changing, so do the movies about you. Gone are the sweet stories of innocent teenagers whose entire world is high school or even college. John Huges no longer applies to you. No, in your 20s you’re part of a bigger world, the so-called “real” world, and those microcosmic tales no longer seem as relateable.
Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]
Why do guys send pictures of their dicks? It’s not like I’ve asked for this. It’s not like I WANT to see him with his jeans around his ankles and his business in his hand. I know men have extremely fragile egos and I don’t want to hurt feelings, but come on.
How Do I Tell My Friend Her BF Might Be Gay? [Ask A Dude]
Aside from being extremely flamboyant and touchy-feely with other men, she mentioned to me when she was drunk one night that they haven’t had sex in almost a year. I’m not really sure what I’m allowed to say in a scenario like this, and I have no evidence aside from my strong suspicions.
11 Things You Can Do For Him on Valentine’s Day
The Hallmark holiday is fast approaching. The one day of the year when it’s mandated you find ways to display, publicly or privately, how much you love/want to f*ck/care about another person…or persons if you’re involved in a polyamorous relationship/affair/dream come true/nightmare.
Should I Tell Him How Many Guys I’ve Slept With? [Ask A Dude]
I started dating someone new, but we haven’t slept together yet. He’s hinted at wanting to know how many people I’ve been with before we do the deed, but that’s not something I really discuss with my partners.
What’s a Girl To Do About The Guy Who Keeps Coming Back? [Ask A Dude]
I’ve been FWB’ing with someone for a while. Over the course of the years we’ve known each other, we’ll occasionally have a huge blow-out argument, after which we go our separate ways. This will last a few months, and then slowly and certainly this guy comes back.