That’s up to you to decide.

And if you decide you’d rather receive pleasure from something that looks like an octopus at ” a rave,” or you’d like to get down in the bath tub with your bath time playmate…You have that option as well.

There’s somewhat of a stigma when it comes to women masturbating. It’s rarely talked about among friends, it isn’t as expected, if you will, as it would be if it were a man. So the fact that distributors are now creating vibrators that can easily be disguised as lipstick, comes as no surprise.

But can you imagine if you whipped lipstick out your purse for your Grandmother to borrow and her lips started vibrating?? Oh my. It may be tricky, but you have to be diligent about hiding it in the right place.

What happened to the love for the good old fashioned “Rabbit” that we all bought in MASS, after it’s appearance on Sex and the City?

Personally, the idea of using a cell phone disquised as a vibrator just doesn’t hit “the spot.” No pun intended.

We’ve gotten so “creative” in fact that we now have: I Rub My Wormmie, The Naughty Gnome (a smurf look alike giving me an orgasm? I don’t think so.), I Rub My Fishie (bulging fish eyes to replace “balls,” something about that does not turn me on.) and last but SURELY not least, The Penguin.

Now, like I said, we all have our “something,” but I look at this and wonder why they’re making sex for women look like a playpen for five year olds?

How about the good-ol’-fasioned-penis shape? Is this too much for us ladies to handle….have we been taught that it’s that “dirty” to use toys, so we need to disguise what they really are?

I’d LOVE to know what you think. About vibrators, women’s sexuality…you know, the good stuff!