October 20, 2009
- 1:00 pm
By Sara - NYU
Question for La Tuff?! Email her at TuffyLuv@collegecandy.com and get that it answered proper!
Dear Tuffy Luv,
My boyfriend wants to have sex all the time. At first I was OK with it but now I just want to hang out sometimes. We still go on dates but its like he needs to have sex every single day. I’m stressed out! This is a busy semester for me – sometimes I just don’t feel like it! How can I tell him without hurting his feelings?
Thanks Tuffy!
Tired
Dear Tired,
Repeat after me: Get your goddamn hands off of me.
Okay, sorry kids. Aunt Tuffy is having a busy couple of weeks herself so the idea of some dude forcing his overactive weewee on someone who is too tired to do it right now, goddammit–well, it makes Aunt Tuffy a little tired herself.
But, back to you.
In any case, Tired, I’m sure he’s not doing it on purpose. The fact that he still wants to go on dates and everything is reassuring. If, like, he just wanted to have sex and DIDN’T want to do the whole dating this anymore, well, then I’d say the guy is cheating or just biding his time. But that doesn’t sound like the case here. Read More »
Tags: Advice, advice column, ask tuffy luv, not in the mood, relationship, Relationship Advice, Sex, sex advice, too much sex, tuffy luv, turning him down, weewee
May 21, 2009
- 2:00 pm
By CC Staff
Talking sex with your doctor isn’t always easy. Whether you are afraid she or he will judge you, you just don’t feel comfortable sharing the intimate details of your life between the sheets, or you can’t think straight with a speculum between your legs, many people get tight lipped in the doctor’s office. But that doesn’t mean you don’t have questions.
After so many of you wrote in to ask Dr. Lissa Rankin questions during CollegeCandy’s STD Awareness Day, we thought we’d bring her back more regularly. So, every Thursday she will be answering your questions. The ones you couldn’t ask your doctor in person and didn’t really trust the Yahoo community to answer for you. Just leave your questions in the comments, or send em over to us. (We’ll keep it all anonymous for you.) Dr. Lissa will answer anything – really, anything – about sex and other lady things. Don’t be shy; she’s waiting for ya!
Q: How Much Sex Is Enough Sex?
A: So many people worry that they’re not having enough sex- or that they’re having too much. Take two people getting it on with the same frequency – twice per week. One may be completely frustrated because she wishes she was doin’ the bump daily. The other may be resenting the pressure from her partner and wish she could scale it back to once a month. Truth is, we’re all SO different. Read More »
Tags: dr. lissa rankin, enough sex, owning pink, partner, Relationship Advice, Relationships, safe sex, Sex, sex addict, sex advice, sex questions, sexual, sexual addiction, sexual frequency, too much sex
August 13, 2008
- 12:00 pm
By Jess - NYU
Tags: binosaur comics, breaking up, Brooke Hogan, creationism, curly hair, Dane Cook, graduation, hot bod, katie holmes, michael phelps, Olympics, Peter Vanderkaay, Ricky Berens, Ryan Lochte, silver medal, stupid, too much sex, U.S Womens Gymnasts