tough love

Tuffy Luv Organizes The Floop Outta You
I’m so stressed out!! College and dating are killing me. What can I do to relax?
Weekly Wrap Up: I Hate This Week
This week was pretty eh. I mean, between finals, grad school applications, and the 25 feet of snow outside, we’ve all had a rough few days. Luckily we’ve been writing feverishly (what else are we supposed to do when we’re cooped up inside?) so you have plenty to read while you’re procrastinating that 10-page research paper.

Tuffy Luv Sez: Stop That Snoop Shoop!!!
Oh, Tuffy, I really need your help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now. It hasn’t been a completely easy time and we’ve had to overcome a lot, but we’ve stayed strong. Every day, our relationship gets deeper and I find myself falling more and more in love with him. All that being said, I’ve kind of become The Crazy Girlfriend.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Shlong Shlistance
Dear Tuffy Luv, I’ll start off this email saying you must get hundreds of these, but even if this isn’t featured in the site, I really would just love advice. I’ve heard people say that asking for advice is just asking for someone to tell you a truth you don’t want to admit to yourself, but I honestly have no idea what to do.
The 5 Questions We Ask Everyone: Dating Coach, Kira Sabin
Don’t you just wish there was someone out there who could give you all the dating answers and help you navigate the confusing world that is college “dating” (without airing your bizness on a VH1 reality show)? Well, your prayers have been answered, my lady friends. Meet Kira Sabin, the Stacy London of dating.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Multiple Fishes
Dear Tuffy Luv, I have been seeing this guy at school on-and-off since the beginning of the school year. He’s a freshman, I’m a sophomore. At the beginning, we hit it off great for about three weeks, and then he felt that he needed to keep his options open as a freshman–which I understood and let it go. He came back around Thanksgiving time and told me he wanted to start seeing me again, and I agreed.
Why Am I Still Single?
I’ve heard the saying that true love comes when you are not expecting it, but after spending three and a half single years in college not expecting anything but a few drunk boys inviting me back to their smelly rooms, I can’t help but wonder what I’m doing wrong.

The CC Weekly Weigh In: Let’s Say Thanks
Like most families, mine gathers around the dinner table on Thanksgiving and (after making fun of each other for a few minutes) shares what they are most thankful for that year. Growing up, I hated this tradition; it was so cheesy and lame. But now that I’m an adult, going around the table at Thanksgiving allows me to tell my family how much I love them…
The CC Weekly Weigh In: Bring On The Reality (TV)!
Last week, as I fired up the DVR to catch up on all the shows I’d missed from the week, I had a rather enlightening moment. Sorta like an Oprah “aha!” moment, only way more embarrassing. My entire DVR was taken up by reality shows. Top Chef, Project Runway, The Real Housewives, Ace of Cakes… Hell, I even had a little Real World/Road Rules Duel on there.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Yourself
Dear Tuffy Luv, So, I have a cozy, late-night nookie friend. We’re not overly compatible in the sobering light of day, and we’re both unusually insecure, so the unspoken rule seems to be every couple of weeks or more.
Tuffy Luv Gets Tuff
Dear Tuffy Luv, I’ve been seeing a guy for about eight months. At times things are amazing and at others, they’re terrible. On top of this (probably at the center of it) is I only get to see him once a week, if that. Granted we live in the same city with a bus system that works quite well. However, he’s never had me over, I haven’t met his family, and he only comes to my place.
Tough Love: Some People Make Poor Decisions
Don’t get me wrong; I love Tough Love. Well, the show. I’m not quite sure I could handle someone pointing out my major flaws on national television (though I did attempt to audition for the next season…). Anyways, I think Steve Ward is great and knows his sh*t (and looks great in a pair of jeans) and really helped those women learn how to love themselves and be loved.
Tough Love: When Things Gets Awkward….Hit The Bottle!
I think last night might have been the best episode of Tough Love yet. In fact, I’m ready to say it might be some of the best TV I’ve seen since Bromance. Watching that episode sent me on a roller coaster of emotion and since the shades on my window were open and the people across the street can see into my place, they would have seen this:
Tough Love: That Bitch is Crazy
Last night’s Tough Love episode made me realize a few things. First, I need to move to L.A. to marry Steve Ward. Second, OMFG, I love Steve Ward. And third, judging a guy based on his footwear is not cute. It’s crazy.
Tough Love: Cupcakes and Flowers and Sex in a Bathtub, Oh My!
After last week’s Tough Love ended with a “To Be Continued….” I was counting down the days until I’d get to see it again. So I was mega-excited when I turned on VH1 at the gym yesterday and caught a secret premier of the ep long before its 10 P.M. showtime. I watched the drama unfold a full 11 hours early and stayed on the elliptical an extra 30 minutes to catch the end.
Tough Love: “Friends Don’t Let Friends Date Bitches”
It was Sunday night, which means a spread of Diet Root Beer, a chopped green apple, a turkey sandwich and my TV tuned to VH1′s Tough Love. Last night we saw Steve challenge the girls to be low maintenance.