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Drop It Like It’s Hot: Getting Rid of Negative Friends [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I had a falling out with a really old friend, like elementary school old, about six months ago. She did something really shitty to me and then apologized but it was really the last straw.
Rock the Weave Your Mama Gave You [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’ve gotten some requests for a hair version of the post I wrote about last week regarding natural-looking makeup. Embrace your natural texture, girl. Thick, thin, curly, wavy, kinky, pin straight — honey, we all need some love.

What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what to do. We’ve been dating for three years and now we’re about to finish college and I just can’t stand it anymore.
Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave
I lost the trust of my older brother. I told him I wouldn’t date his friends and then I dated his best friend behind his back. The problem is, too, that we had sex in his bed once.
Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.
Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.
Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance
I don’t want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I’m really into, but I don’t want to mess things up either! What should I do?

Tuffy Luv Deals With Your Friend’s Breakup
A week or so ago, my friend’s boyfriend of three and a half years broke up with her citing that he “wanted to experience college and allow her to do the same.” Every day last week consisted of her crying.
Tuffy Luv Has First Date Ideas
I asked this guy out on a date and now I’m freaking out because I have no idea where to take him. I want to seem cool so I don’t want to just take him for dinner and a movie. Ideas?
Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]
There’s always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!
Can A Princess Date a Pauper? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’m afraid of bringing him to work parties and having my co-workers ask what he does. I’m afraid of bringing him around my friends with their highly successful fiancés – not because of his lack of ‘experience’, but because being with someone like that has never been an option for me, and it’s not really who I am.
This Guy Does NOT Date Feminists..Huh? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
Recently I was on a date with this guy I’ve been seeing for a few weeks, and we were really getting along until I mentioned that I was a feminist. He started telling with me how I shouldn’t be one and that he’s not one because he believes in equality between both sexes.
Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it’s original state.
Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]
At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?
Tuffy Luv Sez Kick Senioritis to the Curb
What can I do to be more motivated and inspired with my studies? I just don’t know what to do. I’ve tried changing study habits, planning things out, and I’ve even tried to surround myself with people who have high work ethic and an energetic drive about school.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.
I hung out with one guy for about 8 hours; we just talked and really connected, and he told me how great a person I was and how I was so different from other girls, blah blah blah. We didn’t do anything but talk and the conversation was great; I thought for sure I’d found a great friend.