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		<title>Hooking up with a Friend&#8217;s Co-worker: Not the Best Idea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Blair - Gettysburg College</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>As if avoiding any sexual contact with my own co-workers wasn&#8217;t concern enough, now I&#8217;ve come to realize it&#8217;s best not to get freaky with anyone&#8216;s co-worker.</p>
<p>Explanation:</p>
<p>My friend, I&#8217;ll call her &#8220;Alyssa&#8221;, works in finance. So obviously, all of her co-workers are hot men. She&#8217;s kept things platonic there since she&#8217;s smart and now these cute money-makers are her pals.  This means we all hang out on a semi-regular bar-going basis, thus allowing  male/female attraction to develop.</p>
<p>Now &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&amp;blog=860993&amp;post=6847&amp;subd=collegecandy&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://collegecandy.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/24399461.jpg?w=384&#038;h=256" title="24399461.jpg" alt="24399461.jpg" align="left" height="256" width="384" />As if avoiding any sexual contact with my own co-workers wasn&#8217;t concern enough, now I&#8217;ve come to realize it&#8217;s best not to get freaky with <em>anyone<strong>&#8216;</strong></em><em>s</em> co-worker.</p>
<p>Explanation:</p>
<p>My friend, I&#8217;ll call her &#8220;Alyssa&#8221;, works in finance. So obviously, all of her co-workers are hot men. She&#8217;s kept things platonic there since she&#8217;s smart and now these cute money-makers are her pals.  This means we all hang out on a semi-regular bar-going basis, thus allowing  male/female attraction to develop.</p>
<p>Now my roommate, &#8220;Kelly&#8221;, has had her eye on one of these fellows for a while, and the two of them have been flirting for months. So it was only a matter of time before they wound up in bed together.</p>
<p>I mean, <em>I</em> wasn&#8217;t surprised. But Alyssa, well, she was kind of pissed.<span id="more-6847"></span></p>
<p>This is something I can understand if a) Alyssa told her not to go there or b) Kelly knew Alyssa had a thing for the dude she bedded. But neither scenerio applies.</p>
<p>Alyssa hasn&#8217;t been blind to the obvious liking these two have taken to each other. She&#8217;d seen the flirting, the touching, and it never seemed to bother her.  But now that something has actually <em>happened</em> between them, there&#8217;s been an explosion. And she and Kelly are in a massive fight.</p>
<p>Obviously, I&#8217;m trying to stay out of it. But as an outsider, I can see what&#8217;s really going on here: Alyssa has a secret crush on her stud of a co-worker.</p>
<p>I know all of this will blow over.  The boy/girl drama always does.  But the lesson learned is, don&#8217;t mess with <em>any</em> co-workers because that work/pleasure dynamic can be a tricky one, especially if there are emotions no one’s talked about.</p>
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