Sipping Natty Lights, two-stepping in a sweaty frat basement, snapping a pair of sexy stilettos – your night is sounding like Sex and the City college-style, sans the male action.
No fine fraternity gods to fancy? Or are you just in la-la land?
Single gal, get your head out of the clouds and into the game. You deserve a wild night of no-strings-attached, “don’t care if you call me ever again” sex.
Alexa Joy Sherman and Nicole Tocantins, coauthors of Happy Hook-Up: A Single Girl’s Guide to Casual Sex, point out that ladies flying solo have options aplenty when it comes to sexual satisfaction, and it’s about time they start enjoying that fact. But first, here are some guidelines on how to successfully hook up:
Sex Is Not Love
For many of us it’s hard to make this distinction. If you don’t believe this to be true, don’t have causal sex. Stay loyal to your own moral code.
Separate Orgasms From Emotion
Before you get down to it, reevaluate the situation. Will you really be able to walk away without wanting to see him again? If so, have fun but limit your encounters. Otherwise, you’re likely to place expectations on him.
Focus on what gets you off and make it happen. Don’t be afraid to speak up. Tell him what you want.
All About Attitude
It’s important to establish a clear understanding of what you want and what he wants. Focus on having one mind-blowing night with the guy and then be done with it.
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