Tuffy Luv Sez: Lotus? I Barely Even Know Us!

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Dear Tuffy Luv,

This is so random, but my friend was going on and on about this sex position she and her boyfriend tried called “the lotus.” But I looked it up and it looks like it’s a Yoga thing? What’s she talking about? I don’t want to ask and look stupid…

Thanks, Tuf!


Dear Melissa,

Oh, Meliss. Can I call you that? Meliss?

Anyway, honey, very good question. There is a yoga position called the lotus, but there’s a totally separate lotus sex position too. The Lotus (sex) position is actually a variation of a less romantic sounding position called “pounding on the spot” (classy, eh?) and it’s an excellent way to enhance your (SAFE!!) sex life.

In The Lotus, partner A (the penetrator) sits with their legs crossed. Partner B (the receiver) sits on top of A and puts her legs around A’s body.

It’s simple and it feels great. And the best part is, it frees up your hands and puts you in close proximity so you can make out and feel each other up while you do the deed. Good stuff, that lotus.

Now go off with your newfound knowledge and be well and full of joy! (And ALWAYS, always, ALWAYS practice safe sex!!! Condoms every time!!!)

Hearts & Skulls,

Tuffy Luv

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