I’m not gonna lie, I’m in a funk today. After last night’s epic Glee finale, I just don’t know how to go on. I could barely get out of bed this morning and I’ve already eaten half a bag of Sun Chips (why is the new bag so loud?!) and a Twix bar. And on top of that, my best friend’s boyfriend of four years kicked her to the curb.
The kicker? I’m friends with him, too.
Spending the evening crying with her and trying to understand what the eff that boy was thinking and then spending this morning with him crying to me on the phone, I started thinking about breakups and how difficult they are for everyone involved. Sure, to many there’s nothing worse than getting dumped, but what about breaking someone else’s heart? That can’t be a walk in the park.
So I want to see what you have to say about all this:
Would you rather be the dumper or the dumpee?
Things to Consider: post-break up weight gain, telling your friends you got dumped, extreme guilt, changing your relationship status on Facebook.
Vote and tell us why below.