Sex Tips Straight From The Readers of College Candy


Sometimes the best sex advice comes from friends — not authors, therapists or any kind of sexpert. At College Candy our frisky readers know just how to get down, so that’s why we reached out to you for your sexiest tips about sessions in the sack. We were all ears and we were impressed. Not just impressed with your advice, but also with the fact that it never got too explicit or too kinky or too “put my whosawhatsit in my where?!”

So, with no further ado, here’s what you had to say:

    • Before you have sex with a new person (or ever, if you still possess the v-card, good for you!) think about if you do and they leave you, would you still be okay with yourself? If you think you wouldn’t be, then wait until you are. If you think you would be, be safe and enjoy the ride!
    • Communication is important in every situation, but especially when it comes to sex. When you talk about likes and dislikes with your partner, and are open to trying new things, both people “cum” out happier.
    • If you can’t talk about it, you shouldn’t do it.
    • Nothing is sexier than CONFIDENCE!

  • Every girl should be a little selfish…teach your partner to make things amazing for you! A little communication is so much better than a lot of faking. I vowed to do this, and my sex life has never been better!
  • Just because it doesn’t happen like a movie sex scene, doesn’t mean it’s not special. Truly loving the one you’re with is what makes for “pure romance.”
  • Don’t be worried about all your small little imperfections. It won’t be an issue, seriously.
  • Don’t be selfish, you don’t always have to orgasm — you just need to enjoy yourself (safely)!
  • Throw your inhibitions out the window. That makes sex ten times more fun if you’re willing to try anything!
  • Don’t be afraid to try something new. You never just may like it! Also, if it doesn’t feel right then it’s not. Don’t be afraid to say no.
  • Put on some music that you both like and can get into to sync up your rhythm. Singing along is optional (: Then after you always have something to remind you of the moment!
  • Sometimes going slow and taking your time to enjoy one another when making love can be more erotic than any animalistic fast sex.
  • Be confident and honest with your partner and have fun.
  • When doing doggy style, use something (like a hand towel) under your tummy and pulled back behind you on either side. It will give the guy a way to pull you closer 😉
  • Don’t take it too seriously and just have fun!
  • Let all inhibitions go!
  • Love yourself, love your body, and love the way you feel in your own skin. That’s key to a healthy relationship! As I was told, “Shake it like you’re making it rain!!”
  • The best sex tip I ever received was to treat each time as it is your first or last time together. Act like teenagers, and savor each and every moment together. Don’t race to the finish, remember what it was like seeing and experiencing everything for the first time.
  • Send a love letter the day before!
  • You don’t need to have sex every day to have a great sex life. Sometimes schedules get in the way, But when it does happen, and it is amazing and passionate, it’s still a great sex life. Even if you skip a week.
  • Sex is meant to be enjoyed, so have fun!
  • When entering the bedroom, it’s almost always certain the boy will get off and a lot less then certain that you will. The best sex advice ever got was ‘worry only about you.’ what YOU want, who YOU want, and how YOU are gonna reach the greatest climax of your life.
  • Don’t just give yourself to just anyone.
  • In addition to only having sex with someone you love, my best advice is to use two hands during oral and move your mouth and hands up and down together. This drives my man crazy!
  • You give a piece of yourself to every person you have sex with, so make sure you are 100% ready.
  • Do it only if he is worth it!
  • Don’t let self-consciousness get in your way. Rock a confident attitude and just go with it. You’ll enjoy it much more if you let loose and be comfortable.
  • NEVER FAKE IT! If you fake it, your partner won’t know what they are doing isn’t working, and they’ll keep doing what they think you like. Just tell them what feels good and everyone will be much happier!
  • Experiment, experiment, experiment!!! Don’t be afraid to try new things.
  • Wait until you’re ready. When it’s right, you’ll know, and you’ll be happy you waited!
  • Don’t be afraid to get messy, dirty, spontaneous. You’re hot. Act like you know it!
  • Pillow under the lower back raises the pelvis…better to hit the g spot.
  • Always make sure sex is fun and relaxing. It’s not a game, it’s pleasure.
  • If your sex is planned, take a few minutes before to kind of hyperventilate, breathing through the nose only. The rapid breathing helps to oxygenate the blood which in turn helps amp your arousal.
  • Be confident! I promise even if there’s something you don’t like about you, there is nothing they won’t like about you!
  • My favorite tip was how to make a dental dam out of a condom. I’m a lesbian, and dental dams are EXPENSIVE! And the nice thing is that dental dams can be used for any ladies receiving oral (no matter the gender of your partner), as well as for anyone interested in annilingus (And if anyone is interested in how to make a dental dam… Using clean scissors, cut the tip off of a condom and then slice down one side so that you end up with a rectangle. Easy as that.)
  • Best tip is to use protection.
  • The best sex is safe sex.
  • Don’t think so much…just enjoy!
  • Don’t hold back! If you can’t be comfortable with yourself, how can whoever you’re with be comfortable with you?
  • Don’t fake an orgasm!
  • Don’t have sex just for the sake of having sex.
  • Make sure you trust your partner.
  • It’s not going to be perfect every time, so don’t worry if doesn’t happen like quite like you imagined this time, there will always be a next time.
  • Wait until you’re really ready, whenever that may be for you!
  • Don’t be self conscious! Sex is supposed to be enjoyable.
  • First and foremost, use protection and be smart. But other than that, sex is about freeing yourself. Embrace your body, free your mind, and focus on each of the tingly feelings you can only experience from sex. Enjoy yourself!
  • Confidence and communication are key! Your partner is excited to have you just as you are, so be confident about your body and what you’re bringing to the table, they WANT to be with you and they probably think you’re ridiculously hot, especially in that moment. Communication is also super important because your partner wants to please you just as much as you want to please him or her. If you like something, then say it, otherwise your partner will never know what you like, they’re not mind readers.
  • Put your insecurities aside and just enjoy the ride!
  • Be vocal and outgoing. Sex is supposed to be fun and even awkward moments can become fun with a little humor and lightheartedness.
  • Best sex tip I ever got? Ditch the labels and “types.” Follow your heart.
  • Don’t be shy about telling your partner what you do and do not like. Show them what to do and give them direction. Not only does it make things wonderful for you, but they also feel amazing because they know you love what they’re doing. And accept the same instruction yourself, and don’t feel criticized!!
  • Have fun and enjoy it. Stop worrying about your body if you’re unsure of yourself. This guy is with you because he thinks you’re the hottest girl in the world.
  • Stop worrying about relationships and just have a season of casual sex for funsies!
  • To not be afraid to try new things — if your partner is into you, he won’t care if positions don’t work out. Have fun with it, and never take yourself (or the sex!) too seriously.
  • Remember to have fun and not be way too serious.

What advice do you have??