Dear Tuffy Luv,
So I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now and he still hasn’t kissed me. He’s never had a real girlfriend before so he’s really shy and tentative about doing physical stuff with me. When we hang out I cuddle up against him and look in his eyes, sneaking glances to his lips but I don’t think he’s picked up on it. Either that or he’s just too nervous to do anything about it. But nonetheless, I still want to kiss him. Me and him get along so well and I love being around him and talking with him. I’ve known him since seventh grade for Christ’s sake. But. I don’t know what to do about it. And I was hoping you could help? I’m coming to you out of sheer desperation.
Okay, I’m gonna be totally honest with you: That’s redonk. You’ve been DATING for MONTHS and you haven’t KISSED?! Giiiiiiiirl. That’s shady. He is being SHAY-DEE. You MUST just kiss him. I mean, what year do you think this is?! He doesn’t have to be the first one to make a move. Kiss him and get it over with. If he kisses you back, awesome, that’s that. Which, like, is normal (NOR. MAL.) if you’re dating. If he doesn’t kiss you back, you’re kind of in trouble. Because that means (a) he’s not interested in you, or (b) you were incorrect that you are dating. Sorry.
That might suck, but you gotta find out. Suck it up and kiss him. And if he isn’t into it, move right the floop on to someone who deserves your kisses.
Hearts & Skulls,
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