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Should You Tell Your BFF That Her Boyfriend Is The Worst?


Where are the lines drawn when dealing with our friend’s significant others? Are we allowed to tell our BFF that their boyfriend is a total jerk? Or do we need to keep those opinions to ourselves because it’s none of our business? What if he’s a jerk specifically to us ┬ábut not to other people? What beef does he have with you? Is is all in your head? Is it worth losing a friendship and having to deal with awkward tension around your BFF’s BF? Do you guys think that Taylor Swift told Selena Gomez that her boyfriend at the time, Justin Bieber was a total douche?

So many questions and so few answers.

What do you do when you notice that your friend’s boyfriend is rude to not only her but to others? And even worse, what do you do when she seems to let it go and still worships the ground he walks on? If he’s a racist or a homophobe or a sexist person, how do you bring this up to your BFF without setting her off? There are such fine lines when getting involved in your friend’s love life. No one wants to go past the appropriate boundaries, but we do want to make sure that our friend is being treated well. It’s definitely a sticky situation. Thankfully, the ladies over at Gurl have it covered.

Head over to for some of the best advice for this complicated question!

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Katie is a Web Content Publisher for Launch Digital Marketing. She graduated with a degree in English from North Central College in Naperville, Illinois. She enjoys traveling, reality TV, and coffee--lots of coffee.