Guy Asks Girlfriend to Cover Her Private Parts at Beach Club

A man had asked his bikini-wearing girlfriend to coer up her body hair at a public pool and sparked a debate over whether you should be concerned about your partner’s appearance.

Posting on Reddit, the unknown man explained they were visiting Encore Beach Club in Vegas when he advised his girlfriend to wear either shorts or dark bikini bottoms to avoid bringing attention to her unshaven area. During the conversation, he mentioned that the beach club is known for having a dress code and is “notorious for only letting in ‘attractive’ people.”

He went on to say how the two argued as she liked her choice of not removing or covering her body hair to not shaving hairy legs. “She believes I’m being unreasonable by asking her to hide her body hair that she has naturally,” he wrote. “She pointed out that I’m not going to wear long pants even though I have hair legs.”

AITA for asking my girlfriend to cover up her body hair (pubes) at a public pool? from AmItheAsshole

“I said that the equivalent would not be me wearing long pants but wearing a Speedo where my pubes poke on the sides,” the man continued. “I said that in that situation she would also be fair to ask me to wear board shorts instead.”

There have been mixed responses on the thread, but many have accused the man of trying to control how his girlfriend dresses, with one writing, “I don’t think you can police her body but I don’t want to see anyone’s pubes personally.”

Initial resonses agreed with him for urging his girlfriend to hide her body. “NTA no one wants to see other people’s pubes and the shaving legs thing she brought up isn’t equivalent,” one commented. “I think it is fine to ask her to cover up.”

“NTA pubes are unpleasant especially to people who you don’t know,” another agreed. “All you did was ask her to put on a different swimsuit then she roasted your leg hair. Like that’s a different thing entirely.”

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Others blasted the man for not supporting his girlfriend’s clothing choices. “YTA I bet it’s not even as noticeable as you’re describing,” one accused. “It seems like you are super insecure about her not shaving, even though you say that you’re not.”

Another commented, “YTA you guys are a couple and are supposed to be a team. If she wants to have pubic hair don’t give a f*** what others think, you should respect that.”

A third person added, “What is wrong with pubes? None of you seem to have an issue with armpit hair or leg hair – pubes are not different. What about women who can’t afford to shave or don’t have a choice? They’re never allowed to go swimming? Don’t tell a woman how she can dress. There’s no line that needs to be drawn at pubes.”

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