How To Reconnect With An Old Tinder Match

If you’re someone who has tried online dating whether it be Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, etc., you know the drill. Within hours you meet hundreds of people, and sometimes they’re really great, but forgotten. Between a busy schedule or no longer taking interest in the app, they get tucked away in your messages.

When you come back around, you’re reminded of the fun cuties you met way back when. Reconnecting with them can be awkward and cause major anxiety. What do you even say after months of nonexisting that doesn’t come off weird or random? Here are some ways to reach out in a low key way that will invite them into a new, fresh, and causal conversation.

Online Dating


  1. Going to Whole Foods, need me to get you anything?
  2. Hey, we connected a while back, but I was looking through my matches, and remember you really catching my eye.
  3. Have you seen *topical movie* yet?!
  4. Sorry I didn’t get back to you. My phone died for three months, but she has revived. What’s up?
  5. Wow, just woke up from the longest nap ever. What’d I miss?
  6. You’ll never guess what happened to me today.
  7. Come here often?
  8. *Send a spotify link to an “I’m sorry” or “I miss you” song*
  9. What’d I miss?
  10. I just don’t know how it’s possible that you’ve gone this long without messaging me?
  11. I mean, I’ve been here waiting for you to hit me up, but I guess I’ll get take matters into my own hands now.
  12. This is really random, but I think I passed you on the street today?
  13. How should I start this, use a bad pickup line or just say hello?
  14. I’m out here making the first move. You’re welcome.
  15. If this is a game of who’s going to message the other first, I guess I just won.
  16. When are you going to ask for my number? Hello?
  17. I’m not great at starting conversations, but if you want to give it a shot?
  18. I don’t really use this app, so instead of ignoring you on here, why don’t you just text me?
  19. So, what are we telling our children? That we met from ignoring each other for so long until one of us spoke up?
  20. Hey
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