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If your schedule looks anything like mine, you barely have time to think. Between classes, homework, internships, jobs, how can you give your time to others when you don’t even have it for yourself? Even when you do have it, you want to just remember what it’s like to sit home, eat cookie dough, and do absolutely nothing.
The key is finding someone who you genuinely want to make the time for because then time will open up. They should be supportive of your busy schedule instead of resenting you for working hard. Understanding and trust is so important when you hustle the way you do.
It seems there’s such specific criteria for meeting the right person, but not to worry. It’s actually quite easy if you keep an open mind to these following tips on dating with an overwhelming schedule.
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Be Open To Meeting People Anywhere & Everywhere
Meeting someone doesn’t have to be at a bar on a Saturday night! They can exist in your everyday life. You shouldn’t feel pressured to be in a nightlife typesetting to find people with the same idea, we pass thousands of people daily. Whether at work, grabbing a coffee, or walking home, always have an open mind to running into a new potential date.
Maintain A Positive & Open Energy
To attract more people, don’t be so attached and closed off. Being present in the moment can lead to an introduction to a new encounter. Being friendly and open to conversation leads to finding people with the same energy which can turn into something great.
Give Your Time To Those Who Deserve It
Your time is valued by you, don’t let anybody waste it. You need to put your needs first in this scenario, and I shouldn’t have to tell you that. Be selective as to who that precious time goes to by getting to know these people before you go out with them. Text or call them and plan dates that won’t take too much time out of your day to withhold your crazy schedule. You’ll have a much better time when you are giving them your attention and presence authentically.
Make Your Busy Schedule Known
Let them know that you’re a busy person as early as possible so they don’t create unrealistic expectations from you. If they can deal with that, then great! You found a compatible companion! They should understand that your time and energy is something you can’t easily give out, and should appreciate the times you do.
Don’t suffer from FOMO, and especially don’t feel like you have to sacrifice so much to start dating someone. The right person comes in time, and finding an honest person who can accommodate your needs is possible!
