Tuffy Luv

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Jun 4, 2013

Tuffy Luv Sez Goodbye

Ask Tuffy Luv has been running on College Candy since February 2008 (!!!) and it's been super rad. Thanks for the good times, and for all your crazy questions.

May 28, 2013

I’m Dating a Guy Who Has Never Even Tried to Kiss Me

So I've been dating this guy for a few months now and he still hasn't kissed me. He's never had a real girlfriend before so he's really shy and tentative about doing physical stuff with me.

May 21, 2013

Bachelorette Partying 101 [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I have to go to a bachelorette party, but I've never been to one. What are we going to do? Where are we likely to go? What should I wear?

May 14, 2013

Wondering What to Wear to a Dating Event? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I am going out to a event tomorrow at Nordic Scandinavian Bar and it's been a while since I hit town. Can you please help me figure out the perfect thing to wear?

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Apr 30, 2013

What to Do When the Sadness Becomes a Little Too Much [Ask Tuffy Luv]

We all get sad sometimes. It's natural. And it's okay. Look, we live in a culture where we're supposed to be happy ALL THE TIME. And that's so unnatural. Sadness motivates us. Sadness helps us become empathetic. Sadness helps us learn to become better people.

What To Do When Your Roommate Skypes Her GF All Night [Ask Tuffy Luv]

My roommate's LDR is driving me crazy. She's obsessed with her girlfriend which I get -- I love my girlfriend too. But all this girl does is talk on Skype all night. We're in college and we are right next to each other in the same room. I need to sleep too!

Apr 23, 2013

Drop It Like It’s Hot: Getting Rid of Negative Friends [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I had a falling out with a really old friend, like elementary school old, about six months ago. She did something really shitty to me and then apologized but it was really the last straw.

Apr 16, 2013

What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I don't know what to do. We've been dating for three years and now we're about to finish college and I just can't stand it anymore.

Mar 26, 2013

Mar 19, 2013

Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave

I lost the trust of my older brother. I told him I wouldn't date his friends and then I dated his best friend behind his back. The problem is, too, that we had sex in his bed once.

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Mar 12, 2013

Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don't want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.

Mar 5, 2013

Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.

Feb 26, 2013

Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance

I don't want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I'm really into, but I don't want to mess things up either! What should I do?

Feb 15, 2013

Tuffy Luv Deals With Your Friend’s Breakup

A week or so ago, my friend's boyfriend of three and a half years broke up with her citing that he "wanted to experience college and allow her to do the same." Every day last week consisted of her crying.

Feb 5, 2013

Tuffy Luv Has First Date Ideas

I asked this guy out on a date and now I'm freaking out because I have no idea where to take him. I want to seem cool so I don't want to just take him for dinner and a movie. Ideas?

Jan 29, 2013

Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

There's always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!

Jan 22, 2013

Can A Princess Date a Pauper? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I'm afraid of bringing him to work parties and having my co-workers ask what he does. I'm afraid of bringing him around my friends with their highly successful fiancés - not because of his lack of 'experience', but because being with someone like that has never been an option for me, and it's not really who I am.

Jan 15, 2013

This Guy Does NOT Date Feminists..Huh? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

Recently I was on a date with this guy I've been seeing for a few weeks, and we were really getting along until I mentioned that I was a feminist. He started telling with me how I shouldn't be one and that he's not one because he believes in equality between both sexes.

Jan 8, 2013

Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I don't know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it's original state.