advice column

May 21, 2013

Bachelorette Partying 101 [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I have to go to a bachelorette party, but I've never been to one. What are we going to do? Where are we likely to go? What should I wear?

Mar 26, 2013

What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I don't know what to do. We've been dating for three years and now we're about to finish college and I just can't stand it anymore.

Mar 19, 2013

Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave

I lost the trust of my older brother. I told him I wouldn't date his friends and then I dated his best friend behind his back. The problem is, too, that we had sex in his bed once.

Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don't want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.

Mar 12, 2013

Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.

Mar 5, 2013

Tuffy Luv Deals With Your Friend’s Breakup

A week or so ago, my friend's boyfriend of three and a half years broke up with her citing that he "wanted to experience college and allow her to do the same." Every day last week consisted of her crying.

Feb 15, 2013

Feb 5, 2013

Tuffy Luv Has First Date Ideas

I asked this guy out on a date and now I'm freaking out because I have no idea where to take him. I want to seem cool so I don't want to just take him for dinner and a movie. Ideas?

Jan 29, 2013

Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

There's always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!

Jan 22, 2013

Can A Princess Date a Pauper? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I'm afraid of bringing him to work parties and having my co-workers ask what he does. I'm afraid of bringing him around my friends with their highly successful fiancés - not because of his lack of 'experience', but because being with someone like that has never been an option for me, and it's not really who I am.

Jan 17, 2013

RIP Dear Abby!! Here’s Her All-Time Best Advice…

Admit it. We have all read her column one time or another, and have loved it. Her words of wisdom were timeless and probably are more relevant today than ever before! So here's a tribute to you dear Abby - a collection of your finest quotes to help us all be better people!

Jan 15, 2013

This Guy Does NOT Date Feminists..Huh? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

Recently I was on a date with this guy I've been seeing for a few weeks, and we were really getting along until I mentioned that I was a feminist. He started telling with me how I shouldn't be one and that he's not one because he believes in equality between both sexes.

Jan 8, 2013

Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

I don't know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it's original state.

Nov 27, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.

I hung out with one guy for about 8 hours; we just talked and really connected, and he told me how great a person I was and how I was so different from other girls, blah blah blah. We didn't do anything but talk and the conversation was great; I thought for sure I'd found a great friend.