advice column - page 2

Nov 6, 2012

Cuddling From the Friend-Zone [Ask Tuffy Luv]

One day I found out through one of his friends that he was seeing someone else...I was pretty heartbroken. I confronted him. He admitted up to it and said that he only saw me as a friend. And me, desperately trying to save face, said the same.

Oct 23, 2012

Tuffy Luv Helps You Dress For the Body You Have

Yes, it's nice to be skinny, but whenever my best friend and I are shopping, I can't help but be jealous, because shirts always fit her nicer because she's a size 34C AND she's as skinny as I am.

Oct 16, 2012

Tuffy Luv Hates Your Friend

I've had a friend since 6th grade who drives everybody crazy. She's very judgmental and annoying to be around, and she doesn't ever think the problem is her. She was one of my closest friends, but everyone else in our group has dropped her.

Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain't A Best Friend

So I know you are an expert on love, but this is a friendship-kind-of-love dilemma. So a little background. Last year I had a very crazy, very mean roommate who harassed me and abused me until I told her I was moving out, at which point she publicly threatened to kill me.

Sep 25, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: What Do You Mean What Do Guys Like?!!?!?!

Ooooh my unbridled rage is held back only by the sadness of your sign-off!!! Okay, for realz. This kind of pisses me off. Because, like. Number 1: GUYS DON'T JUST LIKE ONE KIND OF GIRL.

Sep 11, 2012

Tuffy Luv Says Hos Over Bros

I'm in a very uncomfortable situation at the moment. My best friend has liked our mutual good guy friend for some months now, and I actually met him through her. The problem is he likes me, and she's the one who told me this information.

Aug 28, 2012

Aug 21, 2012

Tuffy Luv Is Actually Sympathetic — This Guy SUCKS

Last summer, after my birthday party, my best guy friend kissed me and confessed his feelings for me. This wasn't entirely a surprise, and I admit I let the kiss happen, because I wanted to see if it would spark the sexual feelings which were the only things lacking to keep me from instantly diving into a relationship with such a wonderful guy.

Aug 14, 2012

Tuffy Luv Tells You What To Wear If You're a Petite Hourglass Shape

I work out and am proud of my body but I don't get it. How am I supposed to dress when everything is made for people who are taller and less curvy than me?

Aug 7, 2012

Tuffy Luv Settles the Score

I want you to settle something for me and my friend. She's upset with me because she says I'm hard to make plans with. She wants to make plans a week in advance just to go have dinner.

Jul 31, 2012

10 Great Dates From Tuffy Luv

Dear Tuffy Luv, I'm supposed to plan a date for my new-ish boyfriend (2 months, holla!). Help!

Jul 24, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: Tattletales No Have Friends

My best friend just moved in with her boyfriend and I feel left out. We always used to hang out together. Now she mostly hangs out with him. We all go to the same school so I try to still have lunch with her and everything but it isn't the same.

Jul 17, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: Blue Balls Are Real?!

Sometimes when I don't want to have sex my boyfriend says we have to because he gets blue balls. I always go along with it but what is it exactly and how can I keep him from getting it in the first place?

Jul 10, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: Better Safe Than Herpes!!!

I'm a virgin but my boyfriend and I have been doing oral. We both do it, so it's going good but I just want to make sure. I can't get pregnant from oral?