Being Single - page 4
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Don't Fall Into His Check-Up Text Trap [Diary of the Undateable]
I know that the power in a relationship falls under the person who cares the least…and as awful as it sounds, I’ve grown to hate being the person who cares the most.
20 Signs You're Really, Really Single
Sometimes your single status is a scarlet letter that has been sewn on your forehead, other times your delusions have you believing this dry spell is more sunny California than Sahara Desert.
I'm Willingly Getting Into Trouble [Diary of the Undateable]
Relax and live a little, she said. It’ll be fun, she said. You won’t get hurt, she said. And true to her nature, she’s dumb as hell for thinking that.
On Being Unapologetically Upfront [Diary of the Undateable]
Richie was a weirdo. I’d already decided this 30 seconds after we matched on Tinder.
Paying to Play the Dating Game [Diary of the Undateable]
You know, I’d always heard horror stories about how painful waxing is. It’s not like I hadn’t experienced it in a smaller dosage – I routinely got my eyebrows waxed. But there is a huge difference between getting your brows waxed and getting a Brazilian. HUGE.
All Text, No Action [Diary of the Undateable]
A few months ago, I received the most unique message that I’ve received on OkCupid thus far. And by unique, I mean something other than “I like your boobs.”
Are We Too Lazy for Real Love? [Diary of the Undateable]
Out of curiosity, I asked my little sister and cousin how they meet boys these days. They gave me typical answers to be expected of teens: parties, pools, summer camp. One answer surprised me, though – Instagram.
In Defense of the Read Receipt [Diary of the Undateable]
My feelings have been hurt many times by the good ol’ RR…including by my dad. My own FATHER, y’all.
The Bad Date That Won't Die [Diary of the Undateable]
My friend Lenia was in town for the weekend. We caught up over sushi and plum wine in Cobble Hill when she mentioned that one of her OkCupid matches wanted to meet up with her that night. As she showed me the text, I noticed his name before anything else – Mitt.
New Beginnings Don't Always Guarantee New Outcomes [Diary of the Undateable]
I deleted my OkCupid profile at the beginning of the year. I figured that I needed a fresh start. I had it for a good 24 months, met two douchebags and a handful of creeps who sent really uncomfortable messages. The page had bad vibes, man. So I started fresh and made a brand new one.
Maybe It's Time We Start Negotiating Our Non-Negotiables [Diary of the Undateable]
What I don’t have are non-negotiables – dating deal breakers. It’s not like I’ve dated tons and tons of guys, so there aren’t any huge no-no’s that I’ve established.
True Life: I Just Might Be Thirsty [Diary of the Undateable]
Whenever I like a guy – I mean really, really like a guy – I somehow lose all of my hard-earned, Howard-educated judgment and morph into a third grader.
How "Just Go With the Flow" Relationships Are a Trap [Diary of the Undateable]
If you know that you care about someone and the feeling’s mutual, who needs a title or even a Facebook status? Just be. But that’s how girls get caught up.
The Curious Case of #BrokeBoy [Diary of the Undateable]
When is it ever okay for a boy (not a man) to ASK a young lady who he barely knows to take HIM out? My mans, aren’t you supposed to be impressing me?
Extinguishing an Old Flame For Good [Diary of the Undateable]
Men – not boys – go after what they want. If they like you, or are even remotely interested, they WILL get you…or at least try.
