best friend

Jul 25, 2018

How To Deal When You Can’t Stand Your Best Friend’s Significant Other

Your friend is a Queen and her boyfriend spends his free time stealing all of the free samples at Costco.

Jun 26, 2018

How To Renew A Broken Friendship

So, you’ve had a huge falling out with one of your best friends. No matter what it was over it...

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Jun 12, 2018

5 Sistermoon Getaways With Your Ride Or Die

Sisters before misters. That's the motto!

National Best Friend Day: Celebrate Your BFF The Right Way

They aren't called best friends for nothing!

Jun 7, 2018

10 Signs You’re Friends With A Total A-Hole

1. They only call when they want to brag.

Nov 13, 2015

Sep 25, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend

So I know you are an expert on love, but this is a friendship-kind-of-love dilemma. So a little background. Last year I had a very crazy, very mean roommate who harassed me and abused me until I told her I was moving out, at which point she publicly threatened to kill me.

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Aug 28, 2012

Tuffy Luv Says Hos Over Bros

I'm in a very uncomfortable situation at the moment. My best friend has liked our mutual good guy friend for some months now, and I actually met him through her. The problem is he likes me, and she's the one who told me this information.

Aug 21, 2012

Tuffy Luv Is Actually Sympathetic — This Guy SUCKS

Last summer, after my birthday party, my best guy friend kissed me and confessed his feelings for me. This wasn't entirely a surprise, and I admit I let the kiss happen, because I wanted to see if it would spark the sexual feelings which were the only things lacking to keep me from instantly diving into a relationship with such a wonderful guy.

Jun 19, 2012

I Hooked Up With My Best Friend’s Brother [Tuffy Luv]

So, I hooked up with my best friend's little brother...

May 29, 2012

Tuffy Luv Doesn’t Think You Want This Threesome

I hate my boyfriend's best friend / roommate. I think he's really weird. He seems like he's always trying to get my boyfriend's attention over me.

Nov 29, 2011

Tuffy Luv Says Don’t Hook Up With Your Best Friend’s Boyfriend

I stole my best friend's boyfriend. I know it sounds bad but here's the situation. She didn't love him. They were just dating because he asked her out and she was too lazy to break up with him. She was always complaining that he wasn't thoughtful enough or romantic enough and etc.

Oct 25, 2011

Tuffy Luv Gets Anxiety

The problem lies in ones of the things my ex-bestie said to me during this final conversation. After basically listing all the things about me that she didn't like, she also informed me that she didn't like my boyfriend, John. When I asked why, she said it was because she "didn't get him."

Jun 21, 2011

Tuffy Luv Likes The Cut Of This Girl’s Jib

Recently my fiance dumped me. Or I dumped him. Or something. I'm not sure. He tried to blackmail me and shame me into doing things I didn't want to do by threatening to leave me if I didn't comply so I called his bluff and we went down in flames. And then I found out he cheated on me.

Jun 14, 2011

Tuffy Luv Says Don’t Break Up Your BFF’s Relationship

I never thought I'd be writing you, but I've been reading your advice for quite some time and I think you might be the only person I trust to give this kind of advice. To sum up my situation, I have a best friend who I've had since my first semester of freshman year. This best friend of mine, P, has a girlfriend that he has been with for over two years. She doesn't go to our school and I've only met her once.

Jan 17, 2011

We’ve All Been There: The Online Fight

Your best friend totally stabbed you in the back…again. You don’t even know why you are friends with her anymore. Ok, so she is really fun to go out with and is the best person to lay in bed and watch a movie with, but the back stabbing and sh*t-talking has got to stop.

Nov 30, 2010

Tuffy Luv Evils Your Twin

Dear Tuffy Luv, I'm not even sure how this all started to be honest. I have a best friend, I'll call her Jane, who's been dating this guy, I'll call him Ron, for a couple months. They fight a lot but he's her first real "love" and a really good friend of mine. I happen to be madly in love with Ron's best friend, Landon.

Nov 9, 2010

Tuffy Luv Can’t Believe This Ashhole

Dear Tuffy Luv, A few weekends ago while my roommate/best friend was passed out in her bedroom, her boyfriend and I hooked up. The boy and I had been friends freshman year, and I had feelings for him before he started dating my best friend. He and I agreed that it was never going to happen again and to not tell anyone.

Oct 20, 2010

Ask a Dude: He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not?

Dear Dude, My best friend came clean this summer and told me he has had feelings for me since the eighth grade (six years). There is one problem: he has had a girlfriend for a little over two and a half years. He told me he is losing interest in her, she is not his type, and he hates so many things about her; she was just the girl he needed at the time.

Oct 1, 2010

Friday Faves: The Best Friend Breakup

Most people know how much it sucks to break up with a boyfriend. Whether he treated you horribly or the relationship has just run its course, telling your boyfriend adios is not easy. The only thing harder than a romantic breakup is breaking up with a friend.

Sep 14, 2010

Tuffy Luv Sez: Friends With No Benefits

Dear Tuffy Luv, I have found myself in a tough situation. My best friend of three years recently sent me a Facebook message out of the blue telling me that she no longer wishes to be friends or in contact with me. Her reasoning was that being friends with me causes her "too much stress" and she has been thinking about it "for the last two months."

Jul 28, 2010

Is Honesty the Best Policy With Your BFF?

We’ve all done it, slipped a little white lie in when talking to a friend. Your hair looks fine. Of course he’ll call you back. You are absolutely right. It’s not like you meant to be dishonest, but the words tumbled out of your mouth before you even had the chance to think about them. You’re not lying; you’re sparing her feelings.

Jul 18, 2010

I Loved My Best Friend… Until I Lived With Her

After just a few weeks, this summer has proven to be one of the most memorable yet. I’m about to be a senior in college, I’m living in New York City, my job is actually paying me (I know, I can’t believe it either), and I get to write articles for sites I absolutely love. On top of it all, I'm living with my best friend from school.

Jul 12, 2010

Good Friendships: A Guide

There are some unwritten rules of friendship we all know: Thou shalt hold her hair back when she is praying to the porcelain god after a long Friday night. Thou shalt never date her ex-boyfriend, brother or best male friend. Thou shalt never have to watch Say Yes to the Dress alone. Thou shalt risk your life to satisfy the drunken cravings of your BFF.

Jun 15, 2010

Create Your Own Summer Fitness Challenge

While the rest of the world is inundated with ads encouraging them to get “slim by summer”, us college ladies are on a slightly different page. You see, for the many of us that aren’t taking summer classes, summer is a time to kick it a little bit slower, relax (while we’re not working or interning), and escape the constant pressure of being surrounded by young, good looking people 24/7.

Jun 2, 2010

Would You Rather…

Would You Rather find out that your new boyfriend was obsessed with your best friend for a year before he met you OR find out that your new boyfriend actually hated everything about you when you first met?

May 18, 2010

Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Your Crappy Friend

Dear Tuffy Luv, So freshman year is coming to close, but with a terrible ending. My best friend here has decided to go chase after the guy I had a history with/crush on at the beginning of the year. I've moved on from liking him ever since he clearly rejected me in February and have been able to settle on friendly terms with him even though he really left me in the dirt.

May 2, 2010

Dealing with a Friend in an Unhealthy Relationship

One of the hardest parts of being a friend to someone is actually being a friend to someone. It’s not like when we were little we were taught how to be a friend outside the realms of “sharing is caring.” There are certain sticky situations, like dealing with a friend in a bad or abusive relationship, where no how-to guide can instruct us how to be a true friend.

Apr 15, 2010

Coupled. With a Ref?

I hate to admit it but I've watched a few episodes of The Marriage Ref. (What? There was nothing else on TV!) While it's not exactly great television (or even remotely good television), it did get me thinking about the whole idea of having a relationship referee. Those guys in the black and white stripes keep sporting events fair, so imagine what they could do for a couple.

Feb 18, 2010

Would You Tell Your BFF That She’s FAT?

A recent survey of 3,000 women revealed that one in five women secretly think her best friend is fat but won't dare share this information with her. The study also suggested that the truth was a big "no no" because 1 in 5 women ended the relationship post dishing the info.

Feb 8, 2010

My Ideal Valentine’s Date

Valentine's Day sure does have a way of sneaking up on me and my singleness every year. And I'm not sure how it happens, seeing as the heart-shaped candy has been out since December. But while I may be forced to cuddle up with my pup come Sunday, it turns out that most people - single or taken - would actually prefer it!

Feb 8, 2010

Losing Your BFF… to Her Boyfriend

Ah, the new relationship. A time to learn everything about one another, to cuddle (a lot), to hold hands whenever you can, to have lots and lots of sex… And, apparently, to ditch your friends.