Tuffy Luv Throws Up

I had always told myself I would wait until marriage to sleep with a guy but I found myself so very much in love and couldn't see myself ever being with anyone else so I gave in about 4.5 months into the relationship. We had our ups and downs, at the beginning of the relationship he got kicked out of his dad's house and had to live with some friends.

Oct 4, 2011

Tuffy Luv Sez: Trustcha Gut

This was a difficult year for our relationship being that he was in college and I was still in high school. I have had serious doubts and suspicions about his close friendship with a girl he met this year at school ever since September when I read a flirty conversation between them on his phone. He no longer lets me go through his phone, but I know they still talk daily.

Aug 23, 2011

Tuffy Luv Chooses Happiness

Every week, Tuffettes, I read your emails and I wish wish WISH people didn't cheat. Sometimes, as in Angry Bitterness's case, it's the guy cheating, and sometimes it's the girl cheating. Either way, I just want to scream--BREAK THE FLOOP UP!!! Wouldn't that be easier than sneaking around behind each others' backs?!

Jul 19, 2011

Jun 28, 2011

Tuffy Luv Sez: Self Respect, Pleez!!

He is making a fool out of you. I mean, how many times do you have to catch the guy before you get it through your thick skull that you are allowing him to cheat on you?! He obviously has no respect for you.

Jun 7, 2011

Tuffy Luv Cuts Speed Bumps

I've been dating this guy for 4 months (Yeah not long, and I have problems ALREADY!?) Anyway. I just recently found out he's been messaging his ex the whole time we've been together! But that's not the best part, SHE HAS A BF TOO!

Apr 11, 2011

Dude’s List: 11 Reasons He Can’t Keep It in His Pants or Out of another Woman’s

They say that 60% of all men cheat and 70% of the women who’re being cheated on pretend it’s not happening. Well, I’m not sure if I believe in statistics (or that Justin Bieber’s got testicles) but I have known me some men who’ve crossed the fidelity line. Why?

Nov 30, 2010

Tuffy Luv Evils Your Twin

Dear Tuffy Luv, I'm not even sure how this all started to be honest. I have a best friend, I'll call her Jane, who's been dating this guy, I'll call him Ron, for a couple months. They fight a lot but he's her first real "love" and a really good friend of mine. I happen to be madly in love with Ron's best friend, Landon.

Nov 16, 2010

Tuffy Luv Sez: Don’t Be a Cheetah

Dear Tuffy Luv, I am currently a single freshman girl in college. Coming to college, there was a ton of stuff to be excited about. But like most single freshman girls I had one things on my mind: COLLEGE BOYS. I came here with the mentality that I was going to meet a bunch of boys, have some fun, and just play the field...

Nov 9, 2010

Tuffy Luv Can’t Believe This Ashhole

Dear Tuffy Luv, A few weekends ago while my roommate/best friend was passed out in her bedroom, her boyfriend and I hooked up. The boy and I had been friends freshman year, and I had feelings for him before he started dating my best friend. He and I agreed that it was never going to happen again and to not tell anyone.

Aug 11, 2010

So Your Boyfriend Kinda Sucks…

Do you ever put your foot down and say, “I can’t be with someone who…”? If you’re dealing with a guy who doesn’t care about your O, I’m not alone in saying that’s grounds for giving him the boot. Emotional cheaters are sometimes worse than ones who physically go out and whore around, so just say no to them, too.

Jul 6, 2010

Tuffy Luv Says: This Guy Sucks

Dear Tuffy Luv, 3 months ago, I ended a 3.5 year relationship. 3 weeks later, I jumped back on the horse, hoping just to get some rebound action. I met an incredible guy who embodied everything I ever wanted: he's the smartest guy I've ever met, he makes me laugh harder than anyone ever has, and our chemistry is off the charts. 2 weeks later we were "official." But things got out of hand quickly.

Apr 30, 2010

Duke It Out: Cheating Confessions

Cheating has always been, will always be, a touchy subject. We’ve debated what cheating is, whether you should forgive a cheater, but now it’s time to turn those sneers inward and ask the dirty little question – what if you cheat? There seems to be a little dissent about whether or not you should confess that you cheated and I think it’s time we got a consensus.