Nov 8, 2011

Tuffy Luv Sez: Sex Is For Both Of You

I've recently hit the 1-year mark in my relationship and everything is going great. Except for one key thing - the sex. It seems everytime I try to initiate anything with the boy I get shot down.

May 20, 2010

Sexy Time: R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Regardless of what some of my readers might think of me, I don’t’ have a lot of experience with one-night stands. That’s a lie; I don’t have any experience with one-night stands. I don’t look down upon people who choose to do it (obviously, I write a frickin’ sex column), it’s just not something I’ve done myself.

Apr 8, 2010

Bromances Aren’t Built On Intimacy

While spending some much needed time with my guy friends, I've noticed something rather peculiar about them lately. Besides learning that I will be physically removed from the room if I utter a word during episodes of Lost, I have come face to face with their overly homoerotic relationships they hold with one another.

Ask a Dude: I Want a Second Chance!

Dearest Dude, I've waited for a second chance with this guy that I'm crazy for. I'd do anything for him and he is amazing. We get along so well. About a year ago, we had a fallout because of my mistake of telling him I love him. I'm back with him, but not romantically...

Feb 17, 2010

Tuffy Luv Sez: Bras Before Blahs

Okay Tuffy here's the sitch - I have this really close group of friends back home and it's made up of girls and guys. My best friend and this guy in the group used to date like 2 years ago. He broke it off with her and they were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We're all really good friends now but I know for a fact that she's harbored some under-the-surface feelings of him for over a year.

Dec 22, 2009

Pull Yourself Out of That Rut!

For a few weeks, I was in a rut - a big, blah rut that I couldn’t seem to find my way out of. I was grouchy, apathetic, and basically bored with everything. My self-esteem was not at its usual high-point, and I had no idea what the heck was wrong with me.

Nov 28, 2009

Aug 5, 2009

Bad Advice Men Get: Don’t Be Such a Girl

This week's article warns men to get rid of emasculating trends in their relationship. I didn't realize this was such a problem, but apparently men are being emasculated from coast to coast and someone at AskMen thinks it needs to stop.

May 2, 2009

How to Crack The Shy Guy

h, the Shy Guy: that rare specimen of man who you’ll never overhear bragging about some meaningless hook-up. You won’t find him at parties or see him hamming it up for the ladies. He’s sweet, modest and avoids being the center of attention at ALL costs. Odds are, he’ll be the one sitting in the back of class, avoiding eye contact with the professor when he or she scans the room for a volunteer.

Apr 6, 2009

Tough Love: “Friends Don’t Let Friends Date Bitches”

It was Sunday night, which means a spread of Diet Root Beer, a chopped green apple, a turkey sandwich and my TV tuned to VH1's Tough Love. Last night we saw Steve challenge the girls to be low maintenance.

Feb 26, 2009

A Cautionary Tale from a College Disaster: Psst…Pass the Gossip!

Gossip and rumors are main staples on college campuses across the nation, and the website Juicy Campus (which was recently...

Jan 10, 2009

Holiday Flings, Part 2: Holding On

Okay, okay. You found your fling. But classes are about to begin again, and you’ve got to pack up, move...

Dec 6, 2008

Setting Rules in a First Relationship

If you’re in a first serious relationship like I am, there are a lot of questions and doubts swirling around....

Nov 24, 2008

What Women Want: Warm and Cuddly, or Strong and Manly?

Just like we are always wondering what guys are thinking (which usually consists of sex, sports, beer and sex), guys...

Nov 2, 2008

Proceed with Caution: Friends to Lovers

A few weeks ago, while hanging out with a guy friend I met seven years ago when I was a...

Sep 22, 2008

I Don’t Remember How to “Make Love”

I’ve been single for well over a year and I have truly enjoyed every moment of it. Especially those no-strings-attached...