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Jan 11, 2015

Pros and Cons of Being a Girl With Mostly Guy Friends

Con: When you go out to eat, they want to go to Hooters. Pro: Hooters has really good wings.

Oct 20, 2013

Here’s How To Deal With A Friend Who Hates on Your Relationship

Some friends can roll with the punches and be cool with the changes in the friendship, but other friends can be totally buzz kills about it.

Sep 9, 2013

How Do I Respect My Friends Who Make Bad Decisions?

At what age, meaning how were you, when there became this underlying implication that you have to respect people's decisions no matter what they are because they are an adult?

Jul 3, 2013

The Dos and Don’ts of Setting up Your Friends

Either your friend and whoever you set them up with will hit it off and realize that they can't go on without each other and you will get major friendship points that you can use at your disposal and hold over their heads forever (muahaha) or it will go terribly and they won't be able to stand each other and in turn will be angry with you.

Mar 12, 2013

Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don't want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.

Jan 29, 2013

Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

There's always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!

Jan 2, 2013

How Do I Do Damage Control With This Guy? [Ask A Dude]

One thing about me is that when I like a guy, I just want to be around him and I yearn to talk to him, even if it's just about stupid trivial things. Unfortunately, this always lands me in the friend zone. I am scared I've blown my chances with him in terms of being in a romantic relationship.

Dec 23, 2012

Let People Surprise You [Chronicles Of The City]

I love surprises. Well, the good kind at least. I think they are just so fun and happy, and everyone deserves to be surprised in life.

Nov 20, 2012

FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

Sometimes it seems like we may be "talking" and others it seems like he just wants a friendship, and I'm honestly fine with either. I want to know where we're at so that I don't get unrealistic expectations, but I don't want to bring it up and potentially screw up a good friendship.

Nov 11, 2012

On Being Homesick And Friendship [Chronicles Of The City]

So yeah, I'm homesick. I talk to my family on the reg whether it's on the phone, by text, or on gchat, but I just miss the comforts of home.

Sep 25, 2012

Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend

So I know you are an expert on love, but this is a friendship-kind-of-love dilemma. So a little background. Last year I had a very crazy, very mean roommate who harassed me and abused me until I told her I was moving out, at which point she publicly threatened to kill me.

Aug 13, 2012

Love Lessons from ‘The Hunger Games’ Series

Books about teenagers fighting to the death in a massive arena might not be the most obvious place to look for lessons on love, but look a little harder and you'll see loads of different types of love all through the series - from the most obvious, the love triangle between Katniss, adorable Peeta and intense Gale, to Katniss' unconditional love for her sister Prim.

Aug 7, 2012

Tuffy Luv Settles the Score

I want you to settle something for me and my friend. She's upset with me because she says I'm hard to make plans with. She wants to make plans a week in advance just to go have dinner.

Apr 12, 2012

How To Keep the Guy Friend Who Fell in Love With You

Hey, we’ve all been there. And by “we,” I mean guys. I almost guaran-damn-tee that at least 75% of guys, most likely during their early teen years, have fallen hard for a girl who had both feet firmly under her. It happens.

Mar 11, 2012

Friendship Quotes to Give You the Warm and Fuzzies [Photos]

Aww, friends. They're great. So great, in fact, that there are tons of super cheesy quotes floating around about them on the internet. I have to admit though, I was laughing when I first started making this gallery, but by the end I was tearing up just a little. I guess friends really are as great as the internet says.

Jan 17, 2012

Tuffy Luv Says Make New Friends

Probably you started college and made friends right away with the most convenient people. Which is totally the right and easiest thing to do. The problem is, sometimes the most convenient people don't end up being the people we like best. So, Miserable in College, if that's the case, I suggest you continue to be polite to these shoops and begin to distance yourself.

Dec 25, 2011

The Custody Battle: Who Gets To Be Your Friend After the Break-Up

I’m not talking about Captain America vs. Iron Man. I’m talking about friends who’ve been in a relationship and now have reached their final destination: splitsville. Once the two of them go their separate ways, which one of them gets you in the proverbial divorce?

Dec 23, 2011

How To Be Friends With Your Ex

Is being friends with your ex even possible? I mean, you've seen each other naked many, many times. You've opened up to each other about some weird stuff. And you once didn't know how you could live without him. I’m still pretty much trying to figure out the real answer to that question, but I’d like to think that, yeah, sometimes you can be friends with your ex.

Nov 16, 2011

Ask A Dude: Can I Only Be His Friend?

I'm a senior in college, and met this guy my age who goes to my school over the summer. We hit it off right away, with tons to talk and laugh about. The second or third time we hung out, right near the beginning, he told me he "liked me but wasn't looking for a relationship."

Jul 20, 2011

Ask A Dude: Can We Keep The Friendship?

A few months ago, I finally built up every shred of courage in my being and told one of my closest friends of several years that, well, I didn't just want to be his friend. To be fair, I was pretty certain that his response wouldn't be what I wanted it to be. The problem was that I had reached a point where I needed him to know so that I could move on with my life. The hardest part was the thought that it would negatively impact our friendship.

Jul 10, 2011

10 Things An Incoming Freshman Should Do Right Now

It's the summer after you've graduated high school. You've finished your exams. You've finished the college application process. You have your diploma, you've taken the pictures in the cap and gown and you finally decided on a college. So now all you want to do is kick back and relax and enjoy an entire summer free of responsibility and full of hanging with your friends before you each go your separate ways to start some new adventures.

Jun 24, 2011

Friday Faves: The 6 Girlfriends Every Girl Needs to Have

Think about your group of friends. If it’s anything like mine, you are all very different from one another. And that’s why you love them. We need diversity in our friendships because everyone brings a little somethin’ different to the table and you take a little from every single one. Knowing what every college girl needs in her life, I’ve compiled a list of the 6 friends every girl needs to keep around for the long haul.

May 3, 2011

Tuffy Luv Sez: Don’t Let Them Walk All Over You

Dear Tuffy Luv, I've always admired that you don't hold back with your advice. I can tell by reading your columns that you are strong, thoughtful, unafraid, and independent. These are all things that I can be, that I consider myself to be - but sometimes, it feels like all that my independence and strength is really getting me is a lot of pain.

Oct 11, 2010

Surviving Senior Year: Separation Anxiety

On Thursday night I had dinner with a friend. We went to the same college, but she graduated last year, so I haven’t seen as much of her as I used to. But when we finally had the chance to hang out and catch up, it reminded of how much I missed her, how much I missed having her around. It made me stop and think about what would happen next year, after I’ve graduated.