going down

Oct 16, 2015

"Do Guys Like Going Down On Girls?" [Ask a Dude]

"It kind of grosses me out."

Dec 12, 2012

Is It Better to Give Than to Receive? [He Said/She Said]

Whether you find yourself giving more than you're receiving or vice versa, it's easy for things to get a little unbalanced. Some people just love to do things for their partner, and if both people are happy, what's the problem?

Dec 5, 2012

"Do I Give Him The Boot Because He Won't Return After I Give?" [Ask A Dude]

I've started hooking up with a guy who seems great in every way but one -- he's a little selfish in the bedroom. He gets his every time, whether it's through oral or old fashioned sex, and leaves me to fend for myself.

Teaching Your Guy How To Head South [Sexy Time]

It may be tempting to push his head away and roll over or just endure it and give him props for trying. However, it would behoove you, him and any of his future partners to offer some constructive criticism.

Oct 11, 2012

Heading South of My Border? Yessss, Please! [Friday Faves]

A friend asked if the rest of us enjoyed receiving oral sex, because she really, well, didn’t.

Jun 8, 2012

Ask A Dude: How Do I Know If I'm Doing It Right?

I recently (as in a few days ago) had sex for the first time, with the guy that I am dating. It really hurt, but he was patient with me. Round two the next morning felt better, but still hurt a bit. But that's not my problem. What's kinda worrying me is that he's so quiet during sex, and during foreplay. Even when I go down on him!

Jul 27, 2011

Jul 22, 2011

Friday Faves: Inside His Head….Traveling South

Fact: There is nothing more intimate than having sex with another person. After all, you’re completely naked and vulnerable, and everything is out in plain sight. So unless you’re that old, beer-bellied guy that is always alone and naked at the nude beach, that level of intimacy is going to make you a little nervous.

Jun 29, 2011

Candy Dish: College Candy Gets Even More Fun!

• Go behind the scenes with College Candy! • So you don't like going down...there • 7 signs you're not ready to date again • I love Michelle Obama, but it's time she spoke upPull off Pippa's classic look! • Take that Charlie Sheen • I'm sorry, but do people really think he's hot???

May 31, 2011

He Said/She Said: Gettin' Down with Goin' Down

My best friend and I have a lot in common. We both love baked ziti, shoes, Robin Williams movies and playing with makeup. But as much as we can talk for hours and hours about the beauty of a designer stiletto or the genius that is Mrs. Doubtfire, there's one thing we can't seem to agree on: Oral sex.

Mar 8, 2011

Tuffy Luv Gets Down On This

I've been with my boyfriend for a month now, and he's the best boyfriend I've ever had: he's respectful, funny, handsome, super smart and comprehensive. Things couldn't be better. Because of the way I was raised and my personal beliefs, I want to wait until I get married to have sex. He says he respects my decision and that he'll wait. The other night he got all serious and he said he wanted to give me an orgasm, and we talked about it.

Feb 1, 2011

He Said/She Said: Returning The Favor

In the economics of relationships, things seem relatively simple. You invest parts of you in hopes of getting something in return, be it love, affection, respect or in some cases of a Tiffany’s princess cut. The same applies to the economics of sex.

Dec 31, 2010

Friday Faves: He Said/She Said – Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

I have spent 8 years (not continuously) with my mouth between a dude's legs, and while I finally know that I'm good at it (one fine young man - whose name I do not know - exclaimed, "Wow! That was good!"), I still don't love all the work is involved.

Jul 29, 2010

Inside His Head: Traveling South

Fact: There is nothing more intimate than having sex with another person. After all, you’re completely naked and vulnerable, and everything is out in plain sight. So unless you’re that old, beer-bellied guy that is always alone and naked at the nude beach, that level of intimacy is going to make you a little nervous.