It's a dog's life!
I don't want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I'm really into, but I don't want to mess things up either! What should I do?
I'm in a very uncomfortable situation at the moment. My best friend has liked our mutual good guy friend for some months now, and I actually met him through her. The problem is he likes me, and she's the one who told me this information.
To give you some background, besides a relationship I was in for 3 yrs which ended my sophomore yr of college, I have a terrible habit of wanting to be with someone until they 'show too much interest'. That being said, I also am usually pretty good about going with the flow in any dating situation or just life in general. But that's changed.
While perusing (and by “perusing” I mean obsessively checking and re-checking) Facebook for the fourth time yesterday, I noticed that no one had done anything since the last time I logged in (an hour before). In a fit of never ending boredom that made signing off impossible, I decided to look at pictures of me.
Dear Tuffy Love, I’m a junior in high school and I’ve had this same boy problem for a long time. I’m hooking up with this kid right now and he’s a jerk. It’s probably a combination of him not having any interest in me besides hooking up and him being younger, but don’t worry, I understand. HE DOESN’T LIKE ME.
Only 2.5 more days to the weekend. Only 2.5 more days to the weekend. That's it. It's almost here. Not that it matters. It's not like my weekends are filled with True Life marathons and mid-morning naps anymore. With the end of the school year creeping up on me, I've got papers and reading and tests up the wazoo.
Dear Tuffy Luv, So my problem is about a guy. He goes to college with my best friend whom I visit kinda often. Last month, I visited and he was around but we were both with our significant others so I didn't look at him twice. But this weekend I visited my friend and he was around and neither of our significant others were there. He was going through some sh*t and we talked for a bit.
Dear Tuffy Luv, I'm a college sophomore - and I have yet to have my first kiss. It's not that I've never had guys show interest, they just never seem to be the guy I am interested in. Not to toot my own horn, but I think I am a reasonably attractive, funny, smart person, and I have seen way less attractive, stranger people have relationships or frequently talk about the people they hooked-up with over the weekend.
Dear Tuffy, So this summer, I worked with a guy. I drooled over his good looks but didn't really get to know him all that well until the very last week, where we met up for coffee. We talked nonstop for 3 hours and I found myself having a better time than expected! I go to a school in another city, so we've been texting occasionally for about...4 months now.
Okay Tuffy here's the sitch - I have this really close group of friends back home and it's made up of girls and guys. My best friend and this guy in the group used to date like 2 years ago. He broke it off with her and they were never boyfriend and girlfriend. We're all really good friends now but I know for a fact that she's harbored some under-the-surface feelings of him for over a year.
Dear Tuffy Luv, One of my friends is in love with me and I'm having a hard time thinking if I should give him a chance. We tried dating for a month, but I don't know if I can do it again. The reason why I'm not with him is because he has B.O. He is a wonderful guy but I really can't see myself being in a relationship with him.
Dear Tuffy Luv, I can't believe my bad luck. Every time I think I meet a nice guy, and give him my number - I'm disappointed. This same situation has happened over and over, and it happened again last weekend. We met each other at a party of a mutual friend. This is the night, as it happened: