He Said She Said

Apr 17, 2013

How Should He Manscape? [He Said/She Said]

If you like it snipped into your boyfriend's initial, that's a little weird, but sure, that's your choice.

Apr 3, 2013

How Many Dates Will You Go On With Someone If They’re Not Having Sex With You?

his is a great topic because there is a HUGE double standard among guys and girls. If a girl doesn't have sex with a guy after a few dates, we assume that she's not ready, or that she has some kind of 'rule' about the number of dates that have to occur before sex can happen.

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Mar 27, 2013

Who Cares About Looks When It Comes To Dating? Everyone. [He Said/She Said]

I wish I could say 'Hey, she may look like a Victoria's Secret model, but guys really just go for personality!'. But let's face it, we all know the truth.

Mar 21, 2013

Does His ‘Number’ Really Matter? [He Said/She Said]

Let's get real. No matter what anyone says, people are going to be curious about other people's number of sexual partners. Why? Because we are all nosy, nosy people and it's interesting.

Mar 13, 2013

Celebrating Steak And BJ Day…Or Not [He Said/She Said]

This Thursday, March 14th, one month after Valentine's Day, is 'Steak and a BJ' Day. It's the day when we reward men for their hard efforts on Valentine's Day with the things they love most, ie: oral sex and a big chunk of meat.

Feb 20, 2013

The 7 Best Things A Guy Can Do After Sex [He Said/She Said]

I've read at least a thousand blow job tips in Cosmo, but not one feature on post-sex etiquette. Every movie I've seen may show a couple snuggling, but they never show the clean up - seriously, they didn't put on a condom, so how the hell are they not just laying there feeling gross?!

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Feb 13, 2013

Who’s Got the Better End of the Deal on Valentine’s Day? [He Said/She Said]

I'm sorry, I've got to say it. Girls have it way harder on Valentine's Day.

What We Really Mean When We Say… [He Said/She Said]

Guys love to complain about how complicated girls are, how they're so difficult to understand, how they're scary, insane creatures from another planet sent down to confuse the minds of innocent men with sex and hidden meaning. Poor men. Girls aren't that difficult to read, seriously.

Feb 6, 2013

Do You Use the Internet to Get Laid? [He Said/She Said]

My initial response to using websites like Craigslist or OKCupid's blind date app to find hookups has always been no, no, NO. It freaks me out. Call it watching too many episodes of Catfish, but I am just too freaked out by how easy it is to lie about who you are online. A seemingly cute guy could be a 40 year old woman.

Jan 23, 2013

What Exactly Is Safe Sex? [He Said/She Said]

So CC's lovely editor Alex was browsing Reddit this week and came across this post, with a guy asking if it was unreasonable to ask his girlfriend of four years to give him a blow job without a condom. My initial thoughts? That must taste weird, very latex-y and possibly like spermicide.

Jan 12, 2013

Dec 19, 2012

Being ‘The Other Woman’ [He Said/She Said]

If there's one relationship topic I'm seriously passionate about, it's cheating. I'm pretty firm on my beliefs - cheating is horrible. It is one of the most hurtful, selfish things a person can do. Is it understandable in some cases? Yes. Does that make it right? No.

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Dec 12, 2012

Is It Better to Give Than to Receive? [He Said/She Said]

Whether you find yourself giving more than you're receiving or vice versa, it's easy for things to get a little unbalanced. Some people just love to do things for their partner, and if both people are happy, what's the problem?

Nov 28, 2012

7 Things Guys Shouldn’t Do In The Bedroom [He Said/She Said]

Hey, I'm not the kind of girl to tell anyone the 'right way' to have sex. If you enjoy it and you're not hurting anyone (unless they're into that) go right ahead. But I think we can all agree there are some things that guys just need to stop doing in bed.

Nov 21, 2012

How to Keep Long-Term Relationships Exciting [He Said/She Said]

When you've been with someone for a long time, it takes just that extra bit of effort to keep things fresh and both people happy. So what can you do?

Nov 14, 2012

You Know What Would Make This Friendship Better? Sex. [He Said/She Said]

So, a study came out recently that said that in girl/guy friendships, not only do guys experience high levels of attraction to their female friends, but they also severely overestimate how attracted their female friends are to them.

Nov 7, 2012

If You Love Someone, Don’t Let Yourself Go [He Said/She Said]

You might not like what I've got to say. This week, we're talking about "being yourself" in a relationship. As in your real self. As in, the one who doesn't roll out of bed looking perfect, the one who loves watching 'My Strange Addiction', yes, even the one who will happily finish an entire pizza all by herself.

Oct 24, 2012

8 Least Sexy Halloween Costumes For Guys [He Said/She Said]

From the offensive to the inconvenient, there are some Halloween dress-up ideas that guys should know to never ever wear.

Oct 17, 2012

The Hottest Halloween Costumes For Guys [He Said/She Said]

I feel bad for guys, because when you think about it, what's their standard fail-safe Halloween costume? For girls it's simple - if you're trying to get with guys and have a crazy night you can just choose any standard option and put 'slutty' in front of it (slutty nurse, slutty cat, slutty policewoman, need I go on?).

Oct 10, 2012

Reasons Girls Turn Down No Strings Attached Hook Ups [He Said/She Said]

Turns out there are a lot of reasons, ranging from the superficial to protecting your heart.

Sep 26, 2012

How Much Alone Time Should You Have When You’re Attached? [He Said/She Said]

I honestly believe, and have always believed, that being alone sometimes is essential for true happiness. You need time on your own to organize everything you need to do, to plan for the future, and to relax and do things you love.

Sep 19, 2012

Kissing After Oral: Yay or Nay? [He Said/She Said]

Oral sex protocol is a seriously opinion-dividing topic, and I totally get why. A lot of guys just don't like the idea of going mouth to mouth with someone whose lips have just touched their junk, the same way loads of girls don't want to get a taste of their own downstairs area.

Sep 13, 2012

Should You Fake an Orgasm? [He Said/She Said]

Sorry, but I cannot STAND the concept of faking orgasms. I think it's dishonest, rude, and kind of stupid. There is no reason to fake it. No, seriously.

Sep 5, 2012

You Want to WHAT?! What to Do When Your BF Wants to Do Something Weird [He Said/She Said]

Relationships are supposed to be built on trust, open communication and complete honesty, but when it comes to more 'personal' preferences, it can be difficult to keep calm and share everything.

Aug 29, 2012

What’s The Big Deal With Relationship Labels? [He Said/She Said]

What's the difference between long-term exclusive hooking up, and being in a relationship? No, that's not a rhetorical question, I'm seriously asking, because it seems like the exact same thing.

Aug 15, 2012

The Dos and Don’ts of Texting Naked Pics [He Said/She Said]

There are some basic rules of naked pics, from simple sexting etiquette to the best ways to protect yourself from embarrassment or getting hurt.

Aug 1, 2012

Can Friends With Benefits Ever Really Work? [He Said/She Said]

eah, the majority of cases don't work out - people get too attached, it gets too complicated, there's judgement from other people, or it just ends awkwardly. However, as long as people go into FWB relationships being completely honest about what they expect and what they can handle, it can totally work out.

Jul 25, 2012

The Most (and Least) Embarrassing Moments During Sex [He Said/She Said]

You know what they don't show you in movies? All the gross, difficult and embarrassing things that come as part of sex.

Jul 18, 2012

His 8 Favorite Sex Tips [He Said/She Said]

There are boring sex tips, and then there are "holy sh*t why doesn't every girl know about this" sex tips. These little gems are the latter.

Jul 11, 2012

Do The Dates End When The Relationship Starts? [He Said/She Said]

I think a lot of guys think that when the relationship starts, dating stops. I've heard guys say that dating is NEVER exclusive. So does that mean dating and being in a relationship are mutually exclusive?

Jun 27, 2012

Would He Hook Up With Any of These 14 Celebs? [He Said/She Said]

90% of the time it's because we think guys would like us more if we looked like the famous faces we saw in magazines and on the big screen.

Jun 20, 2012

Things He Does That Tick Me Off…But Shouldn’t [He Said/She Said]

If I'm mad, I'm mad and you bet it's going to be for pretty good reason. What's the point in denying or belittling my frustrations, even if they seem petty to someone else?

Jun 13, 2012

What His Drink Says About Him [He Said/She Said]

Drinks are less serious than dinner, more fun than coffee and it can actually tell you quite a bit about the guy you're spending the evening with.

Jun 6, 2012

The 10 Least Sexy Things About Guys [He Said/She Said]

Forget complaints like "leaving the toilet seat up"; that's nothing compared to the horrible, unfortunately true stories I was confronted with today as I polled my friends on the matter.

May 30, 2012

The 10 Sexiest Things About Guys [He Said/She Said]

Today I sat down to think about all the reasons I thought men were sexy. Rough life, right? Well, it's a little harder than you might think.

May 24, 2012

You’re Meeting My Parents, Now What? [He Said/She Said]

You see, the idea of having anyone meet my mother and father is one of the scariest things I can think of.

May 16, 2012

The Low Down on Going Down [He Said/She Said]

Remember that scene from 'The Sweetest Thing' when Christina is dreaming about receiving oral sex every hour on the hour while eating mountains of ice cream void of any calories?