Hes Just Not That Into You

Feb 19, 2013

Are There Dating Rules We Should Never Break?

Recently an article on YourTango has listed 10 Dating Rules Women Should Never Break, and I'll be honest...I hate all of them.

Nov 23, 2012

Are We Bringing The Dating Stress On Ourselves? [Diary of the Undateable]

I’ve literally spent hours poring over He's Just Not that Into You, rereading our text message conversations and talking my friends trying to figure out WTF happened to Carlos.

Nov 15, 2012

Why He Hasn't Called You Back

You ask yourself if maybe he lost your number or broke his phone or if you had food in your teeth the whole night and he thought you weren't playing with a full set of pearly whites. Any of these are completely likely scenarios, right!?

Men Are Simple: The Diagram [Friday Faves]

Let’s be real, dating can be an absolute nightmare. And how many times have we sent a “this just isn’t going anywhere” text, wishing that we hadn’t just wasted two months of our precious time on this guy?

5 Mistakes We All Make When Dating a New Guy

As most of you know, I'm kind of a pro when it comes to dating (online, offline, coffee shop...you name it, I've been there and most likely done it).

Ask A Dude: How Do I Handle a Shy Guy?

Hi Dude, I just wanted to know what your thoughts are on the whole 'He's Just Not That Into You' phenomenon. I should start by saying that I've read the book, and a lot of what it says makes sense in theory... But, here's the thing: There is this guy at work that I've only bumped into like 3 or 4 times, but he's really cute and we seem to have fun talking to each other.

Dec 15, 2010

Oct 29, 2010

Friday Faves: Are You Just Not That Into Him?

Why is it that as chicks, we go out and spend our energy trying to get the guy to like us without ever taking into account how we feel about them?

Jul 28, 2010

Is Honesty the Best Policy With Your BFF?

We’ve all done it, slipped a little white lie in when talking to a friend. Your hair looks fine. Of course he’ll call you back. You are absolutely right. It’s not like you meant to be dishonest, but the words tumbled out of your mouth before you even had the chance to think about them. You’re not lying; you’re sparing her feelings.

Jan 22, 2010

Single. And Confused

So I met this guy right before break. We hit it off immediately, joking in the library’s coffee shop line despite the fact that I dropped my huge Econ textbook on his toe. He seemed to be nice enough, and funny too. We even had a few mutual friends, so I ran into him in the cafeteria for lunch one day.

Jan 3, 2010

The Dating Double Standard

A few weeks ago I was set up with a boy. We chatted for a bit, made some small talk. He was sarcastically funny and he was tall, and in my book, those two things will warrant a first date. (Let’s face it - Jewish boys are usually not tall, and even less so if you buzz down that J- fro.)

Dec 19, 2009

A Guide To Getting Over Him Quickly

It all happens so quickly. You are out a bar/party with your girls, looking amazing, because, honestly, what CollegeCandy girl doesn’t look amazing? You see him, he sees you and - boom - you start talking. Talking turns into flirting, flirting turns into so-bad-they're-cute pick up lines and soon he's buying you a drink.

Dec 6, 2009

He’s Just Not That Into You: The College Edition

When I read He's Just Not That Into You, I loved it except for one thing: so many of the scenarios aren't applicable to college girls. I mean, just because a guy isn't asking to marry us right now does not necessarily mean he has no interest in us!

Oct 21, 2009

Ask A Dude: Can I Call Him?

Hey Dude, Could you clue me into "boy world"? I have been told (thank you He's Just Not That Into You and pretty much every romance book and movie out there) that the guy needs to do the asking. So we very impatient girls need to give out our numbers and take theirs and then not call them.