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Oct 19, 2010

Cosmo Says the Darndest Things: November Edition

First, take off his pants! No, seriously. Cosmo wants you to. And next, treat him to the sexy strokes he's been craving all along...but won't as for (like that one where you make little crawling motions with your fingers from his hips to his chin). Wait, stop! Would you jump off a bridge if Cosmo did?!

Oct 13, 2010

Ask a Dude: What Comes After The Honeymoon Phase?

Dear Dude, I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, and with school and work starting, it feels like the "honeymoon" period is finally over. The thing is, I don't understand why the honeymoon period has to be over and what's so great about the next phase.

Oct 6, 2010

Ask A Dude: Why Isn’t He Keeping in Touch?

Dearest Dude, So, basically my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We met in college, and after spending the first year and a half together at the same school he (due to unfortunate circumstances) has had to relocate and go somewhere else.

Tuffy Luv Sez: This LDR is DOA

Dear Tuffy Love, I'm writing to you because I just can't wrap my head around this. I've never been in a situation quite like this before. To start out, I go to a conference center/camp in Maine every summer, which is about eleven hours from where I live in Philly. Five years ago, I met a guy named Toby there who was kind of dweeby, but a nice guy and a good buddy. Then three years ago, he started working at the camp, and I met him again

Oct 5, 2010

Ask A Dude: Are Guys Into the LDR?

Hey Dude, I've been dating this guy for a few months now, and I'm really crazy about him. We're really close, his family loves me, and even better, my family likes him too. He's also the first serious boyfriend I've ever had. Here's the situation. He's leaving for the Navy this fall...

Sep 15, 2010

Tuffy Luv Sez: Shlong Shlistance

Dear Tuffy Luv, I'll start off this email saying you must get hundreds of these, but even if this isn't featured in the site, I really would just love advice. I've heard people say that asking for advice is just asking for someone to tell you a truth you don't want to admit to yourself, but I honestly have no idea what to do.

Aug 31, 2010

Aug 3, 2010

Tuffy Luv Calls Long Distance

Dear Tuffy Luv, My boyfriend has recently gone on a study abroad trip for the rest of the summer. He's only been gone a week, and already I've noticed how drastically our relationship has changed. For the first half of the summer, he always called many times a day and we visited each other every few weeks because we live in different states. But now that he's overseas, between the time difference and his busy schedule, there is no time for me!

Jul 19, 2010

Ring Ring: Your Orgasm’s Calling

Are you currently suffering in a long distance relationship? Feeling lonely with all those miles between you and your hot, sexy boyfriend? The LDR can be a tough thing. Boy do we know it!

Jul 8, 2010

5 More Things I’ve Learned From My LDR

A few weeks into our new LDR, reality set in and I was down and out, wishing someone had taken me aside and told me what to expect from such a difficult situation. I shared those lessons with you, so anyone diving into their first LDR would know what to expect. Now, months later, I am still learning and still struggling.

Jul 4, 2010

7 Reasons Why I Hate to Love a Military Boy

I've always admired those in the military, but when I found out that my boyfriend was going to be one of them, I have to admit that I wasn't exactly thrilled. Sure, being in the Air Force seemed really intriguing, but for someone else. Someone I wouldn't have to miss at dinner or on the couch.

Jun 8, 2010

Tuffy Luv Tackles Long Distance Love

Dear Tuffy Luv, So here's the deal. Exactly three months ago I met this guy. We are both Seniors in college. We figured we would date and keep things casual and just have fun these last couple months of college but there's a problem: we fell in love. We both tried to ignore it but one drunken night we admitted this to each other. In about two weeks I will be flying back home 3,000 miles away.

May 14, 2010

Single. And Satisfied in the City

Finals are over for me (deepest apologies to those of you are still living the hell that is finals week), and the relief is soooo wonderful! Now there's just the stress of getting moved into my new apartment for the summer, but I have managed to do that mostly successfully so far. (There was one incident involving me, the cart full of boxes I was pushing, and a dumb little Toyota that got in the way, but nothing too important was damaged)

Apr 11, 2010

5 Things I Wish I Knew About The LDR

Now that I’m in an LDR (my first EVER), I wish someone had taken me aside and told me some things. Knowing what to expect would have made this giant change a whole lot easier on me, on my sanity and on my relationship. So that's what I’m going to do for all of you ladies, right now. Here are five things you should know before entering a long distance relationship that I have discovered in my experience so far.

Jan 4, 2010

College Q&A: Should I End My LDR?

I started going out with a guy right before I left for college. I really like him, but he goes to school in a different state and I feel like I’m missing out on a lot with my friends when I’m on the phone with him every night. He totally trusts me so it’s not like he’s annoying or anything, but this whole LDR thing is really taking up a lot of time. What do you guys think of long distance in college? Good idea or bad?

Dec 3, 2009

Sexy Time: Monogamy Schmonogamy

My boyfriend and I have been talking about an open relationship. The distance between us (Boston to LA) is starting to get really hard and our relationship is suffering because of it. But we love each other and neither of us is ready to give up. We've tried everything to make this work and now we're scraping the bottom of the barrel to come up with any suitable alternative to our current situation.