male perspective

Jun 17, 2013

How Do I Get Him To Be More Adventurous In Bed? [Ask A Dude]

We have had sex a couple times already and it was that sweet, loving kind of sex. Don't get me wrong, it was wonderful, but I was wondering what the best way is to see if your boyfriend would consider being a little naughtier in the sheets (ex: dirty talking?) without looking like a total sl00t?

Jul 11, 2012

He's Married and I Didn't Know! [Ask A Dude]

So I met this guy 4 years ago. He's about 10 years older than me and super successful.

May 6, 2012

The Secret To Keeping A Great Relationship Going

I mean, seriously, what happens? Something must. Something changes. Everything started out so well--the great sex, talks that lasted until sunrise, spooning ‘til class at noon, clothes were optional, and fun was constant.

How Do I Introduce Him To My Dad? [Ask A Dude]

So I’ve got a BIG problem, and I don’t have any clue what to do. I've been dating this guy for almost 8 months, and we're crazy about each other. We’re basically that couple that’s so in love no one can stand to eat around us. Here’s the problem: I'm fairly certain my ultra conservative, Republican dad is going to hate him.

May 2, 2012

Inside His Head: What Your Drink Says About You

Just like a psychic that can tell your future with Tarot cards or your palm, guys can tell a lot about a woman by the kind of drink she is having at a bar. And just like those crappy psychics with crystal balls, guys are often full of sh*t too, but here goes.

Ask A Dude: Why Can’t Guys Just Be My Friend?

Dear Dude, For the first time since 8th grade, I'm single. This is great right? It gives me a chance to explore, experiment and really get to know myself and it turns out I'm pretty cool. Awesome, except all of my guy friends seem to think that I should experiment with them. And it extends beyond that; guys I meet at in class, at parties or even at work all only want to date or hook up.

Feb 10, 2010

Jan 6, 2010

Ask A Dude: Am I Too Smart for Guys?

Honestly, are guys truly intimidated by smart girls? I'm an "A" student with glasses. Yet, while I'm stuck by myself mulling over the tenets of existentialism, the ditzy girls are getting the fellows' attention. I'm confused. I thought that you guys didn't want girls to play dumb.

Nov 18, 2009

Ask A Dude: I Refuse To Be A Friend With Benefits

Hey Dude, I've done the Friends With Benefits thing, and, to say the least, I'm not cut out for it. Now I have this amazing guy in my life who I consider my best friend, but I'm confused over how I'm supposed to know if he likes me as in a relationship sense or if he just wants to sleep with me.

Jun 3, 2009

Bad Advice Men Get: Never Open Up

Men are tricky creatures. As much as we may wish we could read their minds, it just isn’t possible (yet… come on, science!). But don’t worry, I have discovered a trick to help us understand them a little more. We all know guys that have picked up Cosmo from time-to-time to help them figure out what their women are thinking. Well ladies, we can do the same thing!

May 6, 2009

He Said/She Said: What’s Up With Strip Clubs?

There are few topics in a relationship that cause more controversy than strip clubs. Many of us can't understand why our man would need to watch some other girl strip it off and shake her ass in his face when he can have our naked ass in his face whenever he wants it (for free, I might add). And isn't watching some other girl get naked a form of cheating?

Apr 29, 2009

He Said/She Said: Independent Woman

We are all about independent women around here, but after one writer asked if independence could be hindering her relationship status, we began to wonder. We know that men have very fragile egos that can be shattered faster than a shot glass in a garbage disposal (those suckers fit perfectly in there!) so it seems to make sense that strong, independent women scare the bejeezus out of them.

Feb 26, 2009

Why Men Need You To Groom Them

[The following post is courtesy of our homegirls over at YourTango. Well, their male perspective. They’ve been through it all...

Feb 25, 2009

He Said/She Said: Kissing After…. You Know

Remember that Sex and the City episode when Miranda meets that guy at a Weight Watchers meeting? They head back...