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Aug 4, 2015

The Scale (A Point By Point Synopsis Of How Men See Women As Told By The Dude)

It might be possible that some guys may or may not be superficial buttholes.

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Oct 28, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow” Season 2, Episode 6

“Once a hero, always a hero.” Meet Joe Corben, the son of the dearly departed Sheriff Corben (this show could...

Oct 24, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder” Season 1, Episode 5

Momentum. Momentum is everything when telling a serialized story over the course of a season of television. It’s exponentially as...

Oct 21, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow,” Season 2, Episode 5

Oh, right! Katrina’s still around. This week Sleepy Hollow shifted character focus to give us an episode dealing more directly...

Oct 14, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow,” Season 2, Episode 4

Okay, let’s get the most important point out of the way: ICHABOD CAN DRIVE! More on that later. This week’s...

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Oct 10, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder,” Season 1, Episode 3

The third episode of any TV show is crucial. Kind of like the old school notion of a third date,...

Do College Guys Want to Date Curvy Women? [Ask A Dude]

I mean I'm a big girl, but I'm not grossly fat or anything, in fact I play basketball. What I'm trying to get at is, do guys like big girls?

Oct 7, 2013

“I Don’t See The Perks In Being A Wallflower!” [Ask A Dude]

I told my boyfriend that I barely ever see my friends (by choice) and that I'm just not a small-talk person. I'm not outgoing, I don't have the patience to sit through 3 hours of dinner conversation or a 4 hour birthday party. I just don't care enough.

Sep 30, 2013

14 Places You Must NEVER Have Sex [Dude’s List]

You can feel free to disagree with me but I’ll be happy to poke holes in your theories…that sounded a little naughtier than I meant it to.

Sep 27, 2013

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Sep 23, 2013

Should I Ask Out A Hot, Younger Guy? [Ask A Dude]

Should you ask out a hottie even though he’s four years younger and you think you’re a nottie? YES! YES! YES!

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Sep 20, 2013

5 Lessons College Should Teach You, But Doesn’t

None of the theory and not all of the internships are going to provide you with some very basic lessons that you need to know, not just for when you get out of college, but while you’re in it, too.

Sep 16, 2013

Is He Serious About Leaving His GF For Me? [Ask A Dude]

You’re in a situation where you can help home wreck if things get sexy and look like a complete ass if things get sticky.

Sep 9, 2013

Does My Ex Want To Get back Together Or Is He Messing With My Mind? [Ask A Dude]

I want to hang out with him all the time because I hope that we could get back together. But I don't want to get my hopes up for no reason. I'm really confused by his behavior. I don't know if he's flirting with me again, or not. I don't want to misread things and make it awkward.

Sep 2, 2013

What Do Guys Find Intimidating About Women? [Ask A Dude]

What does it mean when a guy says you're intimidating? A good guy friend of mine I've known for years, we're hanging out at his coming home party, family barbeque/get together thing, and he brings up how he's always been intimidated by me.

Aug 19, 2013

Is His Excuse to Break Up With Me Total BS? [Ask A Dude]

If a guy breaks it off with you suddenly after two years and tells you he has family issues, this is bullcrap right? Everyone has issues in life its still no reason or excuse to push people away then he texts every now and again but would take sometimes days to reply which is just plain rude.

Jul 31, 2013

15 TV Shows You Should Watch For Their Amazing Finales

There have been some incredibly disappointing finales to glorious runs and some surprisingly potent finales for shows that seemed like they’d never get it together. Here are some shows whose finales are can’t-miss TV and give back for all that you’ll give to the show…

Jul 8, 2013

Why’d He Disappear? [Ask A Dude]

Basically, I went out with a guy from Uni on a couple of dates. We got along really well and would text and chat heaps. He told me he liked me, and started to casually mention things like "we should go to...." (things that were a few months away as well!). It's now been like a month since I have heard from him.

Jun 17, 2013

How Do I Get Him To Be More Adventurous In Bed? [Ask A Dude]

We have had sex a couple times already and it was that sweet, loving kind of sex. Don't get me wrong, it was wonderful, but I was wondering what the best way is to see if your boyfriend would consider being a little naughtier in the sheets (ex: dirty talking?) without looking like a total sl00t?

Apr 22, 2013

Do His Actions Speak Louder Than His Words? [Ask A Dude]

I feel like if a guy is telling me he's not interested, but can still be sold on sex, I should probably just accept that he's "not that into it" instead of telling myself he's just scared of commitment or is putting up walls.

Apr 15, 2013

Do “We Have To Talk?” [Ask A Dude]

Why is asking to talk to a guy a big deal? Recently I texted my FWB that I wanted to talk to him, and asked if he had a minute later on in the day. He immediately shot back, "What's it about? Am I in trouble?"

Apr 8, 2013

Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]

I really like this guy and he says he likes me a lot too, but I don't want to open my heart to someone who is just going to be all like, "JK, you're too young for me" in another month.

Mar 25, 2013

Why Do Guys Sleep With Girls They’re Not Attracted To? [Ask A Dude]

He insisted he still didn't find her attractive, and wasn't really looking to date her. When I asked him how he could possibly be interested in sex with her, he looked at me like I was crazy.

Mar 18, 2013

When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]

Our relationships, in whatever form they take to begin with, always seem to hit the same problem area eventually. The dreaded "gray area". It's where men tend to drag out the dating or hooking up phase, and avoid putting a label on "what we are".

Mar 16, 2013

Where Are All The Hot Girls During Winter?

There’s a certain phenomenon that happens on the first warm day of the year: The streets are filled with absolutely stunningly beautiful women. Ask any guy, he’ll say the same thing: “It’s like they’ve been hibernating and have come back!”

Mar 11, 2013

What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]

I'm pretty secure with my body, but I know there are some areas I could use to tone up. (Shout out to my Kardashian butt!) When I have sex, it's pretty inevitable that my less-firm parts take center stage and I'm worried it's a turn off to guys.

Mar 4, 2013

How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]

I've been out on first dates with guys who barely go in for a kiss at the end of the night, and others who can't seem to get my clothes off fast enough.

Mar 1, 2013

The 14 Best Movies to Watch On a Date [Dude’s List]

This is as varied and specific a list as it gets. Some people find the Aliens saga extremely romantic while others tend to be suckers for a cliché tearjerker like The Notebook. It’s a difficult decision oftentimes, finding that right balance of romance, sex appeal, tension and craft.

Feb 18, 2013

Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]

Dating is a dance and texting is a brand new routine. You modify some old moves but you’re also creating new ones. The results are mostly the same and based on the same fundamentals, timing and rhythm included. But while the benefits are great, the burns are more severe.

Feb 11, 2013

The 4 Best, Most Accurate Movies About Life in Your 20s

As you’re changing, so do the movies about you. Gone are the sweet stories of innocent teenagers whose entire world is high school or even college. John Huges no longer applies to you. No, in your 20s you’re part of a bigger world, the so-called “real” world, and those microcosmic tales no longer seem as relateable.

Feb 11, 2013

Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]

Why do guys send pictures of their dicks? It's not like I've asked for this. It's not like I WANT to see him with his jeans around his ankles and his business in his hand. I know men have extremely fragile egos and I don't want to hurt feelings, but come on.

Feb 4, 2013

How Do I Tell My Friend Her BF Might Be Gay? [Ask A Dude]

Aside from being extremely flamboyant and touchy-feely with other men, she mentioned to me when she was drunk one night that they haven't had sex in almost a year. I'm not really sure what I'm allowed to say in a scenario like this, and I have no evidence aside from my strong suspicions.

Feb 1, 2013

11 Things You Can Do For Him on Valentine’s Day

The Hallmark holiday is fast approaching. The one day of the year when it’s mandated you find ways to display, publicly or privately, how much you love/want to f*ck/care about another person…or persons if you’re involved in a polyamorous relationship/affair/dream come true/nightmare.

Jan 28, 2013

Should I Tell Him How Many Guys I’ve Slept With? [Ask A Dude]

I started dating someone new, but we haven't slept together yet. He's hinted at wanting to know how many people I've been with before we do the deed, but that's not something I really discuss with my partners.

Jan 23, 2013

What’s a Girl To Do About The Guy Who Keeps Coming Back? [Ask A Dude]

I've been FWB'ing with someone for a while. Over the course of the years we've known each other, we'll occasionally have a huge blow-out argument, after which we go our separate ways. This will last a few months, and then slowly and certainly this guy comes back.

Jan 21, 2013

11 Benefits of Dating a Nerd [Dude’s List]

In case you haven’t noticed, this is the 21st century. And in the 21st century geek culture has been steadily been becoming mainstream. But this isn’t a fad like Cocktail Nation, no, this cultural movement is primed to last a long while. Who are the movers of this movement? The nerds.