Getting to know someone can be intimidating and sometimes awkward especially now with everyone texting instead of meeting face to face. However, we can’t change the fact that texting has taken over the means of getting to know people so you might as well make the most of it, especially when it’s your crush!
We have put together 20 of the best questions to ask your crush that will allow you to learn almost everything there is to know about them before you even meet. They will give you talking points for when you two lay eyes on each other for the first time.
About Their Personality
Attraction is based off looks and personality compatibility. If you find someone whose personality just doesn’t click with you then you two probably won’t go very far. It’s crucial to find out what their personality is like early on and see how well you two mesh together.
What is your worst fear?
If you could talk to one person dead or alive who would it be?
What is your biggest pet peeve?
If you could be doing anything, anywhere right now, what and where would it be?
How do you handle being in a bad mood?
About Their Hobbies And Interests
You don’t always have to have the same hobbies and interests as your crush and potential partner, but being able to relate is always helpful. It is nice to at least have some interest in what they like or at least be able to stand watching it or doing it with them from time to time. Nothing is worse than hating what your partner is passionate about, it makes you two drift apart and not be as connected.
What’s your ideal first date?
What’s your all-time favorite movie that you could watch every day?
What was your first job?
Would you rather have a job that pays a lot but you hate or a job that pays little but you love?
What’s your favorite type of music to go to a concert?
About Their Friends And Family
Knowing who someone surrounds them self with says a lot about a person. It is crucial to be able to get along with their friends and especially their family. It also is intimidating to meet the important people in this person’s life so knowing a bit about them beforehand is always a good way to go.
Do you prefer to have a lot of friends or a close circle of best friends?
What is your favorite memory with your family as a kid?
How many siblings do you have? If you don’t have any, do you wish you did?
Are you more like your mom or your dad?
Does your family have any traditions?
Everyone likes a bit of spunk and “out there” questions now and again. It keeps the conversation alive and not so much as a formal interview. Let’s face it, getting to know your crush can sometimes be a bit boring and seem like all you’re doing is asking them 100 questions. With that being said it is nice to throw in some fun and exciting questions they weren’t expecting and seeing how they respond.
What’s something that no one would guess about you?
Sexual would you rather questions
What do you believe in?
Do you have any hidden talents?
What’s the first thing you’d do if you were the opposite sex for a day?