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Although many people believe that long-distance relationships are doomed from the start, it’s possible to keep the passion alive while living miles apart. It’s tempting to let loneliness and sadness take over at times, but the extra distance can help you appreciate the little things when you and your partner are together, such as holding hands or sitting at the same table for a meal. Long distance relationships are never easy, but if you incorporate some of these tips then you’re bound to keep your romance alive and kicking!
10. Avoid Excessive Communication
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Communication is an important part of any relationship, especially one that is long-distance. However, by communicating with your partner too often, it’s easy to come across as needy and possessive. Instead, adopt a “less is more” mantra to keep your conversations flowing.
9. Appreciate Difficulties
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Long distance relationships are a great way to gauge your love for each other and to see if both sides are willing to put in the work needed to keep your connection going. The work put into long distance relationships is bound to make your relationship stronger than ever.
8. Set Ground Rules
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In order for a long distance relationship to work, it’s important for both you and your partner to establish what your expectations are. For example, are you two exclusive, or is it ok for both of you to go on dates?
7. Communicate Creatively
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Instead of relying on conversation alone, try adding pictures, audio clips, and short videos to keep your communication interesting.
6. Avoid “Dangerous” Situations
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If you or your partner plan on going out for the evening, it’s important to let your partner know beforehand so they don’t feel as though you’re going behind their back.
5. Do Things Together
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Just because you can’t always meet in person, doesn’t mean that you can’t do things together. Planning online gaming dates, watching a television show or YouTube video together, or even video-calling while taking a walk are great ways to boost your connection.
4. Plan Visits
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Having visits to look forward to, even if they are months away, can make communication strong and all of the waiting worth it.
3. Enjoy Your Alone Time
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Long distance relationships can encourage loneliness at times, but only if you let those feelings in. Instead of focusing on the negatives, look at your time apart as a way to put yourself first.
2. Know Their Schedule
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By knowing your partner’s schedule, you’ll be able to send them a quick message without interrupting them during class or a work meeting.
1. Send Gifts
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While you are apart, sending your partner a small token of affection, such as a pendant or keychain, can be a great way to remind them of your love.
Use these tips to keep the passion alive in your long distance relationship!
