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Maybe It's Time We Start Negotiating Our Non-Negotiables [Diary of the Undateable]
What I don’t have are non-negotiables – dating deal breakers. It’s not like I’ve dated tons and tons of guys, so there aren’t any huge no-no’s that I’ve established.
True Life: I Just Might Be Thirsty [Diary of the Undateable]
Whenever I like a guy – I mean really, really like a guy – I somehow lose all of my hard-earned, Howard-educated judgment and morph into a third grader.
How "Just Go With the Flow" Relationships Are a Trap [Diary of the Undateable]
If you know that you care about someone and the feeling’s mutual, who needs a title or even a Facebook status? Just be. But that’s how girls get caught up.
The Curious Case of #BrokeBoy [Diary of the Undateable]
When is it ever okay for a boy (not a man) to ASK a young lady who he barely knows to take HIM out? My mans, aren’t you supposed to be impressing me?
Extinguishing an Old Flame For Good [Diary of the Undateable]
Men – not boys – go after what they want. If they like you, or are even remotely interested, they WILL get you…or at least try.
I'm My Own Valentine, And I'm Okay With That [Diary of the Undateable]
This year, it’s just me, myself and I. And I’m starting to realize that that might be best…not just on February 14, but for a little while.
Just Because I'm "Undateable" Doesn't Mean I Can't Be Selective [Diary of the Undateable]
Let’s be honest here. Looks aren’t everything and certainly shouldn’t be, but they play a huge part in dating – especially online dating, where much of the importance is placed on the perfect profile picture.
Why "The Steve Harvey Show" Rejected Me [Diary of the Undateable]
It was a call for essays from Michael Ealy's Biggest Fan. "How would you like to look directly into those bedroom eyes? It can happen, right here on the Steve Harvey show!" Girl, I was SOLD.
What's the Best Way to Break Up? [Diary of the Undateable]
During the holidays, I tinkered with Tinder and even dusted the cobwebs off of my 2-year-old Plenty of Fish profile, making sure to avoid OkCupid at all costs. It’s not a permanent goodbye, but I’ve already met enough douchebags on there.
I Really Don't Know How to Date [Diary of the Undateable]
There’s nothing wrong with casual dating, of course. I just don’t know if I’m cut out for it because I don’t know what I’m doing, and because I’ve never been in a real relationship.
Should Old Acquaintance Be Forgot, Part II [Diary of the Undateable]
Like the rest of the free world, I played Beyonce's fifth album on repeat as soon as it dropped. After the 4444th listen, I realized that Bey wasn’t making music for all the single ladies anymore – she was doing it for the lovers. The committed. The dateable.
Should Old Acquaintance Be Forgot, Part I [Diary of the Undateable]
I paced around my empty apartment, racking my brain for something to do…you know, besides job apps. I was lonely, which is weird for someone who’s so used to being alone. I could’ve called one of my homegirls to catch up or hang out, but I craved company – the male kind.
