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Where Are Your Favorite ‘Bachelorette’ Couples Now?


It feels like just yesterday we hadn’t met our dream BFF Rachel Lindsay and The Bachelorette was a very different (and much less attractive) show. Who were we before Peter K. blessed our eyes? Unsure.

We rooted for each of the couples from every season to make it, hoping that the leading ladies would find their dream men. Now, here we are years later… And it’s kinda happened? In some cases, at least. Who’s still together? Who broke up? Spoiler alert: a lot of them broke up.

Check out the update on each of the Bachelorette couples from seasons past.

1. Trista Rehn & Ryan Sutter

They’re still together! Trista and Ryan have two children, Max and Blakesley, and have been together for 14 years.

2. Meredith Phillips & Ian McKee

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This couple was short-lived, breaking up in February 2005. Six years later, season two’s makeup artist married her high school sweetheart, Michael Broady. She eventually talked about her battle with alcoholism in the hopes of raising awareness about the disease, but has mainly stayed out of the spotlight.

3. Jen Schefft & Jerry Ferris

Jen isn’t very active on social media, keeping herself busy as a mom. Her end to the show was controversial, with Schefft rejecting both men from her season before eventually settling down with Chicago PR exec Joe Waterman in 2009. She has two children with Waterman, Mae and Charlotte. On Twitter, she says that she doesn’t watch the show, but does mention she would have loved to see Caila Quinn as a bachelorette.

4. DeAnna Pappas & Jesse Csincsak

The most snuggly one of them all #bowenstagliano #bowenmichael #stagclan #bowensan #auntiesoinlove

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Pappas and Csincsak were supposed to be married in May of 2009, but they broke it off in November 2008. Since then, Pappas married a high school teacher named Stephen Stagliano in 2011. They have two kids, Addison and Austin. Stagliano’s brother would go on to appear on the fifth season of The Bachelorette. Csincsak moved on to marry another Bachelor alum, Ann Lueders of season 13.

5. Jillian Harris & Ed Swiderski

Eye spy a cute eyelet top 👀💕 @nordstromvan #liketkit #nordstromvan #partner

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Harris and Swiderski broke up soon after their season wrapped. She is engaged to Justin Pasutto and they have a child together. Swiderski married news reporter Natalie Bomke.

6. Ali Fedotowsky & Roberto Martinez

Fedotowsky and Martinez broke up about a year after their season ended, but remain friends. She continues to have a career in the public eye, and recently welcomed a baby, Molly, with her husband, Kevin Manno.

7. Ashley Hebert & J.P. Rosenbaum

Being a mother is the highlight of my every single day. ❤️ Ford & Essie ❤️

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These two are still together! They married in 2012, with their wedding airing on ABC. They have two children, Fordham and Essex.

8. Emily Maynard & Jef Holm

Emily and Jef’s relationship was short-lived, ending a few months after The Bachelorette ended. Maynard went on to release a book, start her own lifestyle blog and marry an old friend, Tyler Johnson. They have two sons, Jennings and Gibson.

9. Desiree Hartsock & Chris Siegfried

Another couple that’s actually still together! Desiree and Chris have been married since 2015. They live in Seattle and just welcome their first child, Asher, in 2016.

10. Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray

Andi and Josh broke things off less than a year after their engagement. Andi is single, while Josh dated and proposed to a fellow Bachelor alum, Amanda Stanton, though they broke up in December of 2016.

11. Kaitlyn Bristowe & Shawn Booth

Happy National wine/ GET YOUR NAILS DONE KAITLYN. Day. #thisphotoisedited #Nationalwineday

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Bristowe and Booth are still engaged!

12. Jojo Fletcher & Jordan Rodgers

I asked jordan to help me with a caption and he just said "bubblegum"… so…..bubblegum. 🍬

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Though their relationship seems to always bring the drama, Jojo and Jordan are still engaged.

13. Rachel Lindsay & ?

It's happening!!! #bbmas #thebachelorette #abc #bachelornation

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Though spoilers claim to know the winner, but we can be sure of is that Rachel is engaged and totally in love. We can’t wait to see how this season ends!

Brooklyn-based writer and editor who is probably eating Mexican food and yelling something about feminism, the Kardashians and/or finding the perfect highlighter.