What Is Big D*ck Energy & Who Has It?



There’s a new term that has pushed its way into internet culture and it seems that the new “slang” is here to stay. Big D*ck Energy, otherwise known as BDE, seems to have the staying power as terms like Fleek, Yas and Locals.

So what is BDE, who has BDE, how can you have BDE and how did it become the buzziest internet term right now?

What Is BDE?


As published in The Cut, BDE is the effortless confidence someone has that comes from having a big penis. Except you don’t have to have the genitalia to exude BDE. It’s just how you carry yourself like you have an unwavering confidence that seems natural. BDE is not narcissism. It’s just knowing that you’re the -ish, without having to prove that you are the -ish. It’s being confident but without being obnoxious about it.

Who Has BDE?

The Cut uses the Chrises of Hollywood as an example to explain who had BDE and who doesn’t. Chris Pratt and Chris Hemsworth both don’t have BDE. Chris Pine has BDE but it’s “fragile” and Chris Evans has a whole lot of BDE.


You either have BDE or you don’t have BDE. It’s a gut feeling that is practically universal. Evans has the confidence and energy that comes when having a big d*ck while Pratt simply doesn’t.

Personally, I believe BDE is why Timothée Chalamet was nominated for an Oscar for Call Me By Your Name and not Armie Hammer. Chalamet has BDE and Hammer doesn’t, which is why he was nominated, it’s that simple.

How Was BDE Coined?

The phrase first became popular thanks to @imbobswaget. They tweeted about the late Anthony Bourdain having BDE, which is true he totally did. Bourdain oozed BDE. This tweet is the first time the phrase was used.

But that tweet isn’t solely responsible for the term becoming uber popular. Twitter user @babyvietcong tweeted about Pete Davidson also having BDE. They tweeted that Davidson’s BDE is one of the factors that would make them marry him within in a month like Ariana Grande is.


Don’t worry @babyvietcong doesn’t claim to have started the phrase. But ever since their tweet BDE has been infiltrating everyone’s timelines.

How Can You Get BDE

You can’t. You either have it or you don’t. It’s not a “fake it until you make it” situation like confidence is. BDE is something you’re born with, similar to just being born with a ginormous penis. If you don’t know if you have BDE then you probably don’t because if you did have it you would know.

If you don’t have BDE don’t feel bad, you aren’t alone. There are plenty of successful people who lack BDE like, Shawn Mendes, Kanye and Jon Hamm. Just make sure you surround yourself with people who do have BDE.

If you’re still unsure about what BDE is and who has it, all you have to do it look at this photo of Rihanna and you’ll understand.


If you still don’t get it, then you’re a lost cause.

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