We had plans to hang out one day and I never heard from him. A few days later, he told me he had some family issues come up and he was sorry, but never asked me out again.
I'm studying abroad right now, and there is a guy on the program that I've had a crush on for most of the time we've been here. About two weeks ago, I finally got up the courage to initiate that I was into him.
My ex broke up with me about a month ago for no real reason other then that he was "feeling differently."
He seems pretty flirty and touchy with me, but sometimes I wonder if he is just being friendly.
One time he slept over after he got drunk at a party, but nothing happened except some cuddling and spooning, though he said that he'd loved to kiss me if he hadn't thrown up.
I texted him that day that I had a perfect night (mistake #1) but didn't hear back from him. After a day, he texted me back that he found my panties in his room, but I figured he would only text me that if he wanted to see me again, right?!
First of all I'd like to point out that I already know I'm in very dangerous territory, given this guy is two years younger than me, and I'm mainly writing in to confirm my worst suspicions but I am desperate for one final opinion...
He said he was going away for the weekend to his family's place but looked forward to seeing me in our orientation seminar next week. He has yet to ask me for my number...
I've been with my man for about 3 months. Things have been great, we just had the happiest week together...until I found out he was cheating through text message. He was sending two other girls inappropriate text messages, just one or two times.
When I get texts from any man other than for business reasons, that's the first thing I say -- I have a great boyfriend and am committed to our relationship.
I'm tired of being the only one to take care of things in the home and in life and I'm tired of being a nagging Nancy. I don't want to be a nag but I don't know how else to get through to him.
Our compatibility is undeniable, but I feel like he's the one who doesn't want to date an 18 year-old. I want to show him that I don't have the mindset of a teenager and want something more from our relationship. Also, how can I do that? Go from being friends to a relationship?
When I finally told him I was into him and wanted more he said he had a girlfriend and things were "real" with her. Things weren't that real with his girl when we were having crazy pool sex the weekend before so what gives?
Then slowly but surely a past drug addiction of his crept into our life as he started to spiral out of control. Being the person I am, I stayed with him. It was hard, and I got my feelings hurt a lot.
He was a real gentleman and told me adamantly that he wanted to get to know me rather than take me home that night, so he'd text me in the morning. It's been three days now and I've heard nothing yet.