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Mar 19, 2018

Monetizing Your Social Media Communities: What You Should Know

If you have your own social media community, you may be wondering how you can make some money on it....

Jul 31, 2015

“My Friends Are Terrible Matchmakers” [Ask a Dude]

I'm constantly being dragged on double dates with a friend, her bf, and her boyfriend's friend.

Jul 24, 2015

“Do I Tell My Parents I Met My BF Online?” [Ask a Dude]

I met my current boyfriend on OkCupid.

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Jul 17, 2015

“My Boyfriend Drinks More Than He Can Handle” [Ask A Dude]

"I feel like I can't drink more than a few beers whenever we go out just in case he has one of those nights."

5 Undeniable Signs You’ve Been Friendzoned [Dude’s List]

How does a person recognize that they’ve been friendzoned?

Jul 16, 2015

Wednesday Workout: You Can’t Squat With Us!

Don't make these common mistakes during your squats.

Jul 8, 2015

Jul 7, 2015

The Dos & Don’ts of Drunk Sex (As Told By The Dude)

This is not the time to bring out the book on Kama Sutra.

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Jul 2, 2015

“Can I Convince My Boyfriend To Have A Threesome?” [Ask A Dude]

I've always been secretly interested in having a threesome.

Jul 1, 2015

Wednesday Workout: The All Important But Often Neglected Warm Up

Warming up: Not just a way to let people you'll on a roll while playing beer pong.

Jun 26, 2015

“Why Do Guys Avoid Party Girls?” [Ask A Dude]

"I know I can be faithful to a guy and still have a good time!"

Jun 17, 2015

Wednesday Workout: Learning To Do Pull-Ups Like A Pro

Pull-ups, No, not those special diapers you used as a child, the other kind, the more intense kind, yes indeed those.

Jun 12, 2015

“Is He Judging Me Because My Number Is High?” [Ask A Dude]

It was pretty clear that my number was higher than his. I'm worried that he's secretly judging me.

Jun 10, 2015

Wednesday Workout: 5 Equipment-Free Outdoor Cardio Moves You Can Do Anywhere

All of these great cardio exercises can be done in your own back yard, at the park, or at the beach.

Oct 28, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow” Season 2, Episode 6

“Once a hero, always a hero.” Meet Joe Corben, the son of the dearly departed Sheriff Corben (this show could...

Oct 27, 2014

“Do I Take Him Back After He Dumped Me Two Weeks Ago?” [Ask A Dude]

Dear dude! So I had been together with this guy for 3 years. A week or so before the breakup we would end up in arguments. A few days later he tells me he doesn't know if he has feelings for someone else.

Oct 24, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder” Season 1, Episode 5

Momentum. Momentum is everything when telling a serialized story over the course of a season of television. It’s exponentially as...

Oct 21, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow,” Season 2, Episode 5

Oh, right! Katrina’s still around. This week Sleepy Hollow shifted character focus to give us an episode dealing more directly...

Oct 20, 2014

“Can I Tell Him To Stop Talking To His Ex?” [Ask A Dude]

Hey Dude, I really need your advice, This guy I’ve been seeing is still talking to his ex girlfriend via...

Oct 17, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder,” Season 1, Episode 4

THAT FINAL SCENE! I hate to start at the end but really, what else mattered? What else stood out this...

Oct 14, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow,” Season 2, Episode 4

Okay, let’s get the most important point out of the way: ICHABOD CAN DRIVE! More on that later. This week’s...

Oct 13, 2014

“Am I Just His Rebound? Is He Mine?” [Ask A Dude]

Dear Dude, I’ve been dating this guy for a month now. It seems to be going well – we hang...

Oct 10, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder,” Season 1, Episode 3

The third episode of any TV show is crucial. Kind of like the old school notion of a third date,...

Oct 7, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow,” Season 2, Episode 3

Sleepy Hollow took a break from more outlandish set pieces and epic action. Henry’s posing as Frank’s lawyer carried over...

Oct 6, 2014

“How Can I Play Against a Player?” [Ask A Dude]

Dear Dude! This guy was talking to me at the beginning of the year, and I rejected him, because I...

Oct 3, 2014

11 of the Unsexiest Halloween Costume Ideas

Here are 11 totally unsexy Halloween costume ideas guaranteed not to attract any d-bags… Or humans with any kind of sexual urges whatsoever.

Oct 3, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder”, Season 1, Episode 2

You guys! I think I figured out who the heck each of the characters are now. Last week’s breakneck pace and the introduction of three murders at three different points in time, jumping between each of their investigations (cover ups) made it a little tricky to keep track of who’s who and who’s who to whom.

Sep 30, 2014

The 7 Best TV Shows About College EVER!

These are some of the best TV shows about college that will give you some ideas, ideals, and loveable idiots to take a few cues from…or responsibly avoid the actions of.

Sep 30, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “Sleepy Hollow,” Season 2, Episode 2

Sleepy Hollow’s second installment of the second season wrapped up all the other loose ends from last season’s cliffhanger and set the new status quo. It’s a building block of an episode that’s kind of like eating your vegetables from a storytelling perspective.

Sep 29, 2014

“He’s Older. And My Boss…Bad Idea?” [Ask A Dude]

He's 20 and a junior in college, I'm starting to like him but I'm not sure if he likes me or not and I'm not sure if he's to old for me. Do you think he will text or call me?

Sep 26, 2014

What To Know About Dating A Younger Guy

I’m not one to bow to peer pressure or encourage you should always look at the odds. I am, however, the kind of person who thinks you should gather as much information as possible before making a major decision.

Sep 26, 2014

The Dude Recaps: “How To Get Away With Murder,” Season 1, Episode 1

Whew! How To Get Away With Murder has a pilot packed with juicy soapy dramatic meat. You will not finish...

Sep 24, 2014

When It’s Okay To Lie About Your Virginity

Being a virgin can bring up a lot of emotional vulnerability. And the older you are, the longer that virginity remains intact, the more embarrassed, ashamed, or uncomfortable a lot of people become about not having lost it.

Sep 23, 2014

The Dude Recaps “Sleepy Hollow”: Season 2, Episode 1

This is merely the opening salvo,” says Ichabod Crane at the end of this second season premiere. Sleepy Hollow returned to our TV screens in grand fashion, acting as more of a wrap up to last season’s cliffhangers than anything else.